argument with virgo.

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crudemood
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I've argued with virgo for the first time today. She actually showed emotion, some anger.
Its weird, she's been acting all friendly with me again after I've payed less attention to her as opposed to not talking to me at all. I'm sure it was pretty evident to her.

Now she put some stuff that was in my way of working so I pushed it out of my way, not in anger, and accidentally knocked off her stuff. She got angry at me, she yelled at me. She showed emotion and I'm shocked seeing as thats the first time I've ever had her get angry at me. We didn't talk to each other for the rest of the day. I hope she's not totally angry at me and stop talking to me completly.
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"Now she put some stuff that was in my way of working so I pushed it out of my way, not in anger, and accidentally knocked off her stuff"

crudemood, quite honestly . . this doesn't make sense.

She put it in my way of working
so I pushed it out of my way
not in anger
knocked off her stuff

this doesn't suggest an accident, rather, an intentional

"was in my way of working so I pushed it out of my way"

Be happy to listen, however, you have to tell the story like it is, otherwise, I go into cynicle mode . . if you fucked up, say so.

You knocked her stuff on purpose and your words say that.
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Okay sorry let me explain what happened clearer, I wrote that when I was tired.

My intentions were just to move her stuff a bit out of the way but not knock it down, but she got angry because I had knocked it to the floor. She said the meanest thing possible, "Do you want to be sent home?" as in "you're not doing you're job probanbly go home." Now thats something I never heard her say before, with such spite.

No my intentions were not to make her work fall to the floor, just to move a bit out of the way to make room for me but it happened to fall so I can see how it was interpreted as 'I did it on purpose'.