Aries Female loving Virgo Male...help me with patience and emotions!

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by annjay2016 on Friday, April 29, 2016 and has 2 replies.

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@annjay2016
10 Years

He's unlike anyone I have met and he's good for me. We have known each other for a couple of years, and found ourselves both single and began to spend time as friends. That quickly turned into more and we've been dating for about 4 months. The first month or so it was sweet texts about how our paths crossed at the same time, "good morning, beautiful" and the like. Now here we are 4 months later and a lot of that has stopped. Things between us are still good, but the loss of that side of him -- the expressive / emotional side -- is a bit frustrating. I don't doubt he's still interested in me, he does text and call daily. My problem is my Arian lack of patience. I have zero. I hold back my expressive my feelings -- both of love and frustration with his lack of showing emotion. I'm doing pretty well, but it's so frustrating sometimes! I really don't want to ruin this, and from what I've been reading this is just how Virgos are. He seems to be a Virgo "to a T" so to speak.

Should I continue expressing my emotions towards him, how much I like seeing him, letting him know I'm thinking of him, etc -- even though I don't get much in return? I do love him, but have not told him. I can't bring myself to say that unless I know he'd reciprocate. Aries and rejection...not good!

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@LillyPetal
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
the timing, hmmm, you're not from Seattle are you, my EX dated an Arian girl after me, back in the day, and we just stopped talking again four months ago

i hope you're not her.

are you obese? kind of big faced and unhealthy looking?

well don't all Aries kind of look alike, kind of eat too much type of chicks...hmmmm

That's one type of Aries.

I definitely eat a lot, though...