At my wit's end with my Lazy Virgo Man

I've been in a relationship with a virgo man for a little over a year we live together and have a baby together. He doesn't help around the house, doesn't help with our child and refuses to work. He wants me to do everything i have to pick up a 2nd job to put food on the table because I'm tired of having to choose between eating and paying rent (thank God I have WIC for my baby). He sees me struggling to make rent and going hungry but doesn't help I've asked him many times every week it's the same thing "I start work on Monday" implying he has a job when Monday rolls around he's still doing nothing. Hes always asking me for money to buy this or that most if the time it's something ridiculous or so expensive I can't afford it at this point he becomes a child and won't speak to me until he finds something else he wants. Everything i have read about a Virgo man is complete opposite of the hell I'm living with my 40 yr old virgo man.

As far as him being a father is concerned he wouldn't let her go when she was born now 6 weeks later he ignores her, yells at her to shut up, or is aggressive with her. When I say something about his behavior towards her he becomes verbally abusive towards me which scares me because I don't know if he will hurt me or our child he hasn't yet I just fear it. hes working against me rather than working with me all the while he tells me I'm a bad mother. I'm ready to kick him out and be done with him . No matter the sign it seems like men are turning into boys these dats looking for a mother rather than a wife I me uch rather be single and raise my child on my own.

Things kinda changed when I went blind in my left eye before giving birth..

Neither of us had jobs when we started dating we were both homeless. I got a job and an apartment I thought he would get a job too but I was wrong. He refuses to do so bc he doesn't want to pay child support for his first child I didn't know this was the reason until recently. All he cares about is getting drunk and hanging out on the street. I don't drink or do anything but go to work, doctors appointments or run other errands. He began to get a paranoid attitude with me tells me I don't do anything & tried to kick me out of my own apartment today. I'm not the argumentive type but I will if need be. My friend's and sister all say he's lazy and will never come to anything. However he did start helping around the house a bit more as of recently.

He says he loves and is in love with me but actions speak louder than words with me. I figured he'd be homeless still if I didn't have a heart and wanted him to be apart of his daughters life. When I get food I don't leave him out, when our daughter has a doctor's appointment I make sure he's there. I just want him to work and help with the bills if he's going to be staying here.

Kick him out. Disgusting. I wouldn't tolerate half of the shit you wrote about his behavior.

Whats your sign?🤔

I'm an Aries