I am aries, he is Virgo we have had been together in the past. known each other for years. The first time we were fwb, which, really did not work out, as we both develoed feelings, which we were unable to be in a relationship. 6 months after that we were back again, not even having sex, but, being very closee and cuddle and kiss and gaze. Fell deeper. Then, he backed out, scared. Now, over a year later, he out of blue, telling me he can't forget me, if circumstances werre different we would be together,etc. So, we have been talking, havent even seen each other, for a couple months. make plans to see each other, and it doesnt pan out. I guess, no real plas, just suggestions. Anyway, we talk great, and close for a few days, then he does a 180, and its barely anything. I asked him last week when he did this, what was wrong, he said he cant be in relationship. Fine, neither can I at this oint. Say take it slow and he says he wants that more than anything. it just cycles on repeat like this. I want him, I know he wants me, but I feel like he is so scared. His ex, kids mom, was a crazy one, for real and I think he is scared to death of getting involved. He says he knows I a not like that. I believe hi. I am in love with him and have not been able to let him go, and to find out, over a year later that he has felt the same. All this time. I have missed him. Why is he stalling? What should I do. I want him in my life, I need him back. Please, no negativity.
