behaviour of Indifference virgo man and leo woman

So right now my issue is this virgo guy I am in LDR is not making anything easy.

Now he needs time and that what he told me that he needs time but that does not mean we should stop talking or meeting in person.

I read on so many forum that virgo man dont apolgies but the one I am with is always saying sorry for things ,,it just it feel more like a manner thing rather than a real apology

So main Question Does virgo man have the indifference behaviour or Not?

When ever I asked him Questions about what he is feeling or He does not share or open or leave any msg at night..I never get the reply to that msg just his usual morning msg instead.

He would say that he is gonna explain everything but he would not.

I feel so tried of his behaviour

So any insight into virgo man mind

all insights are welcome

Posted by luxsoli
I'd say that Virgo's definitely are 'all or nothing' kind of people. They either give way too much of a shit, or not enough at all. Usually though, they tend to end up on the 'giving way to much of a shit' side of their personalities. This is because they are constantly overthinking issues and stripping problems to their barest bones. However, if they have decided mentally that the situation is not worth thinking about, they will easily toss it out in their mental trashbin to avoid thinking about it.

I've known myself and most other Virgo's to be extremely sincere and apologetic. If he's saying sorry a lot, he likely means it and just wants to make sure you understand and believe him. Virgo's worry themselves to death over what others are thinking 24/7. Just try your best to assure him that he is forgiven and he will see a support system in you.

It likely will not put you at ease to know that we tend to go through 'shut down' periods where we distance ourselves to analyze situations and problems by ourselves. He's probably feeling very insecure about himself or even your entire relationship right now if he is pulling away, the best thing to do if you want to keep him is to assure him that you love him and you'll be there for him if he needs you but that you also don't want to push him. He may appreciate it more than you think! And it may give him the courage to open up to you.

Luxsoli I am ready to give him my support and wait for him to open up but problem is I don't trust him at the moment.

I feel like right now he is also looking around to see if someone else is out there for him aswell.

I almost ended it yesterday but ...May be I a. Making a mistake waiting around for him to clear his head.

He is still active on tinder even though he told me he is not so how can I trust him and take his "I need some time" thing as a honest reason rather than the fact that he is checking other girls aswell.

Really feeling bad about it

Posted by magma2
There's obviously something wrong, he's dragging his feet. You can't even threaten a Virgo with a good time if by his definition, it really is a good time.

The part about him apologizing all the time caught my attention. He's either prone to making mistakes or he may think he's prone to not pleasing you.

No it's not about Not pleasing me thing.

He is very well mannered so I guess he does that as per his nature but his saying I am sorry I did this or that Don't count as he keep repeating the same mistake.

I so wanna ask him directly that I know he is really active on tinder and that means he is looking around and that's why he is not getting serious with me.

He would avoid all the Question I asked about our relantionship and that's where his attitude of indifference comes in play when instead of answering my Quetion he would simply keep silent or Next day act like as if I have not asked anything and start the day with his regular Morning msg.

Pisses me off so much.

I really like this guy and when we like someone we tend yo ignore the red flag beside in my culture we don't break off things quickly but I am in stress and relantionship should make us happy Not stressful.

Every where I read it is said Virgo man dont cheat.

I am sure he is also not a cheater but since he is not taking me seriously so in his world it's OK to look around.

I can't ask him to delete tinder as I don't feel we are at that point inspite of the fact he said we are in a relantionship but its not how a relantionship should work.