By the time a virgo falls in love you...

By the time a virgo falls in love you...

You will be gone just doing some reflecting and just dawn on me that by the time I feel those type of feeling it's almost done. And looking at other virgos I would say its true. It takes to long to feel that way. It's just the way we are made I guess.

Posted by LilyTree
By the time you fall in love you're done with being in love? Or by the time you've fallen in love, the person you're in love with no longer has feelings for you?

The others person is done sorry I was not clear.

Other damn iPad

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Posted by LilyTree
By the time you fall in love you're done with being in love? Or by the time you've fallen in love, the person you're in love with no longer has feelings for you?

The others person is done sorry I was not clear.

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Sometimes we wait... and wait... and wait... because we realise that the Virgo we love is worth it. But yeah, there's only so long any person can wait with a minimum encouragement... and then a phone call suggesting meeting up after not talking for 4.5 months (on another matter, btw) is kind of a curve ball when you have resolved to move on...

Posted by LilyTree
You express yourself just fine.

That's a sad thought.

Do you make an attempt to let them know the realization has finally come to you? Or do you just let them go, believing it's best to allow them to move on, and that it's your loss and burden to bear and suffer though?

I just realized this about myself just now, it just dawn on me that it takes along time for me to feel that way. And it's not because I'm hurt or anything it's the way my feelings work. It's like its on a time delay.

Some times try to work it out but it's to late by then I miss my opportunity

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Posted by LilyTree
You express yourself just fine.

That's a sad thought.

Do you make an attempt to let them know the realization has finally come to you? Or do you just let them go, believing it's best to allow them to move on, and that it's your loss and burden to bear and suffer though?

I just realized this about myself just now, it just dawn on me that it takes along time for me to feel that way. And it's not because I'm hurt or anything it's the way my feelings work. It's like its on a time delay.

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Do you at least know that you have feelings for the person and if so how long does it normally take for you to develop these feelings.

Posted by virgoking
Some times try to work it out but it's to late by then I miss my opportunity

So what makes you know that you are in love with that person. Do you go out and mess with other women and then realize that you were in love with the other woman that you were with.

I have feeling for them but not on the same level I might be on level 3 and there on 10 if you get what I mean.

Virgoking, very thought provoking this thread. I was lucky that hubby waited for me. The feeling was there but I didnt trust it enough to say it.

The saying goes "it's better to love and lost than not to love ever." Or something like that. 😄

Posted by VirgoDragirl
Virgoking, very thought provoking this thread. I was lucky that hubby waited for me. The feeling was there but I didnt trust it enough to say it.

The saying goes "it's better to love and lost than not to love ever." Or something like that. 😄

Well that's nice what sign is your husband.

I'm wondering about this lady I am being friends with one day its on next its like a cold heart, and if I try to move she moves away? I make a plan it fall through every time.

very true. i didn't realize i loved my ex until he was about to leave the country and after all the stupid things i did to him. it's been 4 years since i last loved anyone.

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Posted by VirgoDragirl
Virgoking, very thought provoking this thread. I was lucky that hubby waited for me. The feeling was there but I didnt trust it enough to say it.

The saying goes "it's better to love and lost than not to love ever." Or something like that. 😄

Well that's nice what sign is your husband.

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Hubby is cancer sun cancer moon aquarius rising.

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Virgoking, very thought provoking this thread. I was lucky that hubby waited for me. The feeling was there but I didnt trust it enough to say it.

The saying goes "it's better to love and lost than not to love ever." Or something like that. 😄

Well that's nice what sign is your husband.

Hubby is cancer sun cancer moon aquarius rising.

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Could be true for some of these cancer girls here. I think we are so busy doing other things that love is on the bottom of our list.

Posted by virgoking
Could be true for some of these cancer girls here. I think we are so busy doing other things that love is on the bottom of our list.

I can agree with that because I need LOTS of attention and the old me would definitely get it from somewhere else if my man was not giving it to me.

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Posted by LilyTree
You express yourself just fine.

That's a sad thought.

Do you make an attempt to let them know the realization has finally come to you? Or do you just let them go, believing it's best to allow them to move on, and that it's your loss and burden to bear and suffer though?

I just realized this about myself just now, it just dawn on me that it takes along time for me to feel that way. And it's not because I'm hurt or anything it's the way my feelings work. It's like its on a time delay.

You Virgos are kinda slow, huh? What may take one person a year to figure out would take you 3 years to discover. If only the virgo could understand that they don't have to have very thing sorted and figured out before being with someone, that would make life less complicated. You can still grow and learn and discover and figure things out with your life partner. Isn't that part of what being life partners is about?

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*sigh* truer words have not been spoken....

We can't deny our nature. Nobody can. Love can't go on a timer. If you look for quick fix, then find it but dont expext anyone to change their nature to become your quick fix.

Do I stop being a virgo once I marry a cancerian? No. If his well being depends on me being less virgo then yes. Its hard but I'll do it. Once he is fix, I'll back be me again. Same with him. It's compromise daily. Happiness is up to you not up to someone else.

Posted by LilyTree
By the time you fall in love you're done with being in love? Or by the time you've fallen in love, the person you're in love with no longer has feelings for you?

Did your virgo boyfriend have any issues with you being celibate?

so fking true lol

Posted by CluelessCancer
What i'm gathering from this thread is that a Virgo never loves anybody until the person leaves them in the dust...that's the only way to get their feels going?

The virgo guy that i was dealing with said that he was 24 the first time that he fell in love. This is super strange to me. Don't most people have their first love at like 17 or around that age.

We'll I mean is when it's almost done you just tied of the other person and no matter what you say to the other person every thing you say is bull. The real reason why this came to me was because of a old love I had. She never demand a lot from me we had good talk so I had enough time to fall in love with her. But she only wanted sex that would have been fine if she told me but looking back at it that is what she wanted.

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Posted by VirgoDragirl
We can't deny our nature. Nobody can. Love can't go on a timer. If you look for quick fix, then find it but dont expext anyone to change their nature to become your quick fix.

Do I stop being a virgo once I marry a cancerian? No. If his well being depends on me being less virgo then yes. Its hard but I'll do it. Once he is fix, I'll back be me again. Same with him. It's compromise daily. Happiness is up to you not up to someone else.

Is this addressed at me?

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No.

Posted by virgoking
You will be gone just doing some reflecting and just dawn on me that by the time I feel those type of feeling it's almost done. And looking at other virgos I would say its true. It takes to long to feel that way. It's just the way we are made I guess.

Not all of us.

I'm usually the one who falls in love first but I don't hold it against the other person for them to love me back. My feelings are my own. Won't demand you share yours with me.

Then again, Moon/Mars Aries..everything happens at lightning speed for me. It's hard to gauge the difference between lust and love for me..but I figure it out pretty soon. I'll go with your flow..wherever that leads to.

Posted by virgoking
You will be gone just doing some reflecting and just dawn on me that by the time I feel those type of feeling it's almost done. And looking at other virgos I would say its true. It takes to long to feel that way. It's just the way we are made I guess.

...and the ladies with patience of steel and determination WILL get the prize. 😉

Posted by Curiousram
I have a question for you Virgoking and all the other virgos. It's easy for me to spot a virgo via online because they always come to me (Dating websites)! Why why why why why do you guys take ten years to reply back to something so simple? I've had no issue with any other sign but virgo men via commucation. Yet you guys are ruled by the planet mercury—?? You guys drive me nuts!!!! I can't stand it when a good looking guy messages me and i find out hes virgo just by the way he communicates to me via text. I end up running because i know hes going to force me to chase him forever and drive me bonkers. But yeah... why are you ruled by planet mercury if you guys completely blow at communication?

I feel your pain... this ^ so much this!

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I have a question for you Virgoking and all the other virgos. It's easy for me to spot a virgo via online because they always come to me (Dating websites)! Why why why why why do you guys take ten years to reply back to something so simple? I've had no issue with any other sign but virgo men via commucation. Yet you guys are ruled by the planet mercury—?? You guys drive me nuts!!!! I can't stand it when a good looking guy messages me and i find out hes virgo just by the way he communicates to me via text. I end up running because i know hes going to force me to chase him forever and drive me bonkers. But yeah... why are you ruled by planet mercury if you guys completely blow at communication?

I feel your pain... this ^ so much this!

I'm glad someone does because everytime i find out a guy is virgo i run for the hills its a nightmare for me because every virgo i meet is very attractive

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I know the feeling This female Virgo is just like that and its like you always have to initiate to conversation and you never hear good bye or anything. I want to tell her to see her when ever but don't want hurt feelings.

Yeah we don't do the whole talking thing I hate the phone I hate text I would rather do this in person. Only super super cool people make me do it. Or people that I get on a mental level. Matter of fact I'm suppose to call this girl but I don't feel like it maybe later.

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Posted by Curiousram
I have a question for you Virgoking and all the other virgos. It's easy for me to spot a virgo via online because they always come to me (Dating websites)! Why why why why why do you guys take ten years to reply back to something so simple? I've had no issue with any other sign but virgo men via commucation. Yet you guys are ruled by the planet mercury—?? You guys drive me nuts!!!! I can't stand it when a good looking guy messages me and i find out hes virgo just by the way he communicates to me via text. I end up running because i know hes going to force me to chase him forever and drive me bonkers. But yeah... why are you ruled by planet mercury if you guys completely blow at communication?

I feel your pain... this ^ so much this!

I'm glad someone does because everytime i find out a guy is virgo i run for the hills its a nightmare for me because every virgo i meet is very attractive

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I know a few too and agree some/most are extremely attractive... two of them even have the same birthdate (not year though) and one of them is the single most perfect human I know, other than this *thing* and I know he likes me... but he just... eeergh... Virgo... you know! 😛 (for over two years now)

Posted by virgoking
Yeah we don't do the whole talking thing I hate the phone I hate text I would rather do this in person. Only super super cool people make me do it. Or people that I get on a mental level. Matter of fact I'm suppose to call this girl but I don't feel like it maybe later.

The Virgo I mentioned is rubbish at messaging... wonderful in person though... and last week I got my first ever phone call from him after two years of knowing him, he actually said we need to meet up again soon because it's ''been too long'' which caused me to suffer a minor death episode (from which I am slowly recovering, lol)Interestingly, this is a week after me telling him I love him.... I'm assuming this is a good thing... lol
A Cap guy I know wanted to call the same day we got talking... *shrugs*

Posted by virgoking
Yeah we don't do the whole talking thing I hate the phone I hate text I would rather do this in person. Only super super cool people make me do it. Or people that I get on a mental level. Matter of fact I'm suppose to call this girl but I don't feel like it maybe later.

this is SO true. the only time i've felt excitement and anticipation with someone communicating through the phone was with a pisces. i DESPISE banal conversation and the pisces understood and reciprocated with his quirkiness.

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Posted by virgoking
Yeah we don't do the whole talking thing I hate the phone I hate text I would rather do this in person. Only super super cool people make me do it. Or people that I get on a mental level. Matter of fact I'm suppose to call this girl but I don't feel like it maybe later.

this is SO true. the only time i've felt excitement and anticipation with someone communicating through the phone was with a pisces. i DESPISE banal conversation and the pisces understood and reciprocated with his quirkiness.

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Yup it's only been two girls I like to talk to for a long time that was my first love a libra and one my best friend who is a girl (sag) I don't even like calling my mom lol she can really talk (Leo )

*sigh* the love from a virgo just seems so PERFECT!!!

f* $ &% them u take all the damn time u want

Posted by VirgoCupcake
*sigh* the love from a virgo just seems so PERFECT!!!

Is that so 😉

Posted by VirgoCupcake
*sigh* the love from a virgo just seems so PERFECT!!!

Which is why we're insufferable. People want to bond with humans..who are flawed..not with paintings and statues.

My love is so imperfect..

But I do take into account the other person, while most of the people are all about "me me me, my feelings my feelings my feelings, love me love me love me, lie to me lie to me lie to me"

So I guess there is something about Virgo love after all.

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Posted by Damnata
So I guess there is something about Virgo love after all.

The evolved kind, definitely.

But I personally think every sign has something valuable and unique to offer in relationships.

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Yeah, we're not unique snowflakes. It's like a department store, you need all the boutiques and shops and some signs are more adept at working another boutique.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I told my ex yesterday i'm probably going to die, it was nice knowing you.

He replies "Really? I'm a bad boy"

I responded with "You're going to talk about yourself, when i'm going through a difficult health crisis"

That's a virgo that doesn't care or love.

That's a Virgo that sees you as overdramatic. You were fishing for his emotional reaction, as always.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I had a huge health scare yesterday..

= Nothing bad diagnosed/confirmed yet, but I have no problems going dramatic and possibly scaring people who care about me because I'm all about being emotionally selfish and they should suffer my anguish.

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Posted by Damnata
My love is so imperfect..

But I do take into account the other person, while most of the people are all about "me me me, my feelings my feelings my feelings, love me love me love me, lie to me lie to me lie to me"

So I guess there is something about Virgo love after all.

Why are people about "lie to me..."?

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lie to me = project anything on me. people don't want different, individual relations with each other, they want the same script played out to infinity.

the dynamic changes with every person that walks on our path, there's no way to play the same scenario twice..you shouldn't even play one as well. but people have very fixed ideas about how things "Should be done" so...all individuality = up the window.

See... the Virgo I refer to... he wants to save the world, he spends a lot of time unhappy because he wants to make a difference and works damn hard in the process... sometimes he takes forever to reply. But when it comes right down to the wire, if I need advice or anything, he replies as fast as he can and then when his advice is helpful and amazing and I thank him, he gets coy and brushes it off, like ''It's what I am here for'' I sometimes feel like he wants to be a knight in shining armour and grabs any chance to save me even if it is just helping out on a piece of writing I had one time or something (his insight in his job was really useful and he took ages to compose a really in depth view that helped me write my piece from the middle)
Sounds like this guy is not like that, we don't know each other, CC but sorry about your health scare, hope you are feeling OK..

Dunno if CC will see this, I think she still has me blocked but if you can see it, I hope you are ok. Health scares are no small thing. You get the results yet?

Posted by justagirl
Dunno if CC will see this, I think she still has me blocked but if you can see it, I hope you are ok. Health scares are no small thing. You get the results yet?

I'm assuming if I quote you, she will? Fairly new to this particular forum... no clue about back stories etc... but still...

Thanks Jenova... 🙂I don't know how that feature works, but I appreciate you quoting it.

YW, justagirl.. it's no extra effort is it... and it's always nice to see that people care enough to express concern...

Well, I do hope it all works out and is something not too serious.

If you think your life is at risk, doing the ER is the best thing. But yes, it's expensive and insurances only cover up to a certain point....At least you got the scan done.

Can you call and find out the results? Don't wait on her ass.

Call them. Don't think of the worst. Thinking of the worst will put you in pain.

Everything will be alright.

Pick up the phone, woman!

See? Perfect 😄