Virgo, Do you let love go easily?

If you say you love someone and they tick you off (Not betray or really hurt, Just kind of tick you off) do you just let them go?
AND DO YOU SAY YOU LOVE WHEN YOU REALLY DONT?

Hi zodiac babe! Not a Virgo, but more than enough experience with them to spot one out of a crowd (: Virgo doesn't like to admit defeat, but will move on when they think the cause is lost and they are putting more into it than getting out of it. I say it all the time- if you want to know the true feelings of a Virgo, watch what he does and not what he says! Actions really DO speak louder than words with this sign, although all they like to do is talk, talk, and talk some more! When a Virgo is in love, they will go over the top and only focus on you, and make sure that everything in their life revolves around you or has you involved in it. After the honeymoon Virgo stage, they tend to take up their personal hobbies and develop a little bit of space with you, which can be healthy... But if you let them get too far... You might lose them. The best way to talk with a Virgo is to take them out to a restaurant with excellent food, not too crowded but with a good ambiance, and maybe a glass of wine or two. The truth starts coming out and they will open up to you. Always read between the lines. Good luck and good vibes~ feistypisces777

Clueless Cancer obviously doesn't let go easily

Posted by Feistypisces777
After the honeymoon Virgo stage, they tend to take up their personal hobbies and develop a little bit of space with you, which can be healthy... But if you let them get too far... You might lose them. The best way to talk with a Virgo is to take them out to a restaurant with excellent food, not too crowded but with a good ambiance, and maybe a glass of wine or two. The truth starts coming out and they will open up to you. Always read between the lines. Good luck and good vibes~ feistypisces777

How do you not let them get too far?

Imitation! If they decide they need to have a boys night out, have a girls' night out! It's hard work that I'm not willing to dish out, but keep it exciting and different! Get a new hair style , new clothes every couple weeks, plan a date, maybe a double date! Make suggestions, but let it seem like it's his idea. (:

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by SoInLOVE
But if you let them get too far... You might lose them. The best way to talk with a Virgo is to take them out to a restaurant with excellent food, not too crowded but with a good ambiance, and maybe a glass of wine or two. The truth starts coming out and they will open up to you. Always read between the lines. Good luck and good vibes~ feistypisces777

How do you not let them get too far?

Does this seem like a healthy way to form a bond with another human being? Always being worried about too far, too close, hurting someone feels, doing the right now.

sounds like a headache ...

Right, I don't understand. If you say you love someone, you can trust them, depend on them and you feel secure with them, why would you stray away from that? A person shouldn't have to "play a game" for life.

Virgo are not for me, they drain the life out of me... I deserve someone who doesn't constantly want to control me or use the guilt trip to make me do why they want. But they are human beings with a higher purpose and I respect them. They deserve as much a I do to find a soulmate(:

Posted by ieatpizzaforfree
Coming from an actual virgo, No, we don't let them go. Relationships take work and even though one may be pissed off, we're willing to talk it out or just forget about it because we love that person.

If we don't love someone, we're not gonna say it. We're polite but not that polite. We'll find a way around what they said so its not awkward.

Virgos don't use people either. Where are you guys getting that from? -.-

From my experience,

This is very accurate.

Pacifiers.

Myself, on the other hand, I'm no walk in the park in the realms of a relationship.

Where I'm rigid, they're more likely to compromise for the sake of the relationship.

Not present during the initial stages, but once invested, very evident.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I have never in my life met such flaky, annoying, fake people in my life.

It's absurd. The games you play. I'm tired of you ppl, i just want PEACE, and i hope to god i never meet another virgo in my life again.

male or female.

What if he's a Virgo Sun, CANCER Moon? 0:-) And some sort of ultra-adorable Rising, with super-compatible Mars?

Ya never know...

The only Virgo that I can say I put up with their behaviour is my mother. I love and hate her, but she's my mother. I owe her loyalty for that. Most people don't see the other side of Virgo, the side that scares me and makes me climb back into myself and not come out. I grew up with several Virgo and I have the most negative experiences with this sign. Every sign is necessary. They were all created with a purpose on this earth and although we may not like them, we need to respect them. CluelessCancer is right, in order to love a Virgo you must be a martyr. After years of abuse I learned to love myself and will not stand to be used by another, especially not a Virgo, ever again. I stand up for myself and they do not like me for it. They twist the situation and make me feel guilty in order to control me, and this was made known to me by a good Capricorn friend.

Clueless babe, you deserve to be loved! I love cancer sooooo much! They're one of my favorite signs! Also my brother's fave sign bc he's a Cappy and that's all he seems to date lol. Honestly cancer makes me feel loved and secure, something that other signs fail. They are loyal and that's one of the MOST important quality any sign can have. (: don't let one sign upset you, bc there are so many others ready and willing to scoop you up babe(:

Oh yeah, IEatPizzaForFree? Is that why you are so butthurt? Because someone sees through you? Calm your tits and go somewhere. Like 75% of the posts on here are about people complaining about Virgo. Literally just joined dxpnet yesterday and the thread with the most problems is Virgo. If you don't want to hear about astrological bs then go somewhere nice with flowers and pixiedust and where everyone loves Virgo, but please leave this thread bc obviously several people have a problem against Virgo.

I admire that about Cappies too, they don't change! They act the same around their parents and their friends. They're mature individuals from day one and they dish it out like it is, with no hidden meaning or intentions. I believe Cancer and Capricorn are opposing signs? Maybe looking for a Cap could result in a better match(:

Posted by virgoyum
No. I may find out later I wasn't that into the person but I don't let it go easy in my head.

What do you mean? Even if you find that you weren't that into them, you still don't let it go easily?

Posted by CluelessCancer

that's the problem...so makes me wonder what is it about me that brings virgos into my world cause i don't want them in it.

You have Virgo Mars, so maybe Virgo reminds you of what you do when you're angry.

And you've got Virgo as North Node, so... maybe they really are showing up to push you. If you're into fate or anything like that.

What's your Rising sign? Is it anything that would attract a Virgo? You're right that in some ways Virgo is not entirely earthy -- always pushed by Mercury, Virgo likes airy debaters, intellectuals, and analysts. Cuz fun. Also people who seem 'perfect' and can be looked up to, or people who seem to need 'fixing' which gives Virgo a sense of purpose. Even if it's a misperception, it can still be an initial attraction.

Sorry if TMI.

Off-topic: I've never seen a Cancer/Leo before and it just occurred to me; your sun is ruled by your moon, and your moon is ruled by your sun... that's probably pretty balancing or something, right? Or at least less confusing. Cool!

Posted by Feistypisces777
Oh yeah, IEatPizzaForFree? Is that why you are so butthurt? Because someone sees through you? Calm your tits and go somewhere. Like 75% of the posts on here are about people complaining about Virgo. Literally just joined dxpnet yesterday and the thread with the most problems is Virgo. If you don't want to hear about astrological bs then go somewhere nice with flowers and pixiedust and where everyone loves Virgo, but please leave this thread bc obviously several people have a problem against Virgo.

Calm down you emotional yucky Pisces.. You and CC Both! You emotional water creatures! Virgo's are humble and know what the hell they want, they see through people, and the reasons why you both had problems with Virgo's is because you scared them away with your icky PITY emotions. Live and let live, I can go on and on about you water signs but I'm a air sign and it takes a lot go get to me. 😛

If I truely love you ...I will do everything in my power to make it work even when most would give up or should give up. If there is nothing left to give ...I will have no choice but to walk but I would never fully be able to let it go. It takes us a long time to fall for someone...so when we do, its pretty much a forever thing...at least for me.

I'll give you the gift of making your own choices in life. Nice, right?

If you want to go away, I won't stop you.

I'll say it if I love you, I'll also back it up with actions.

Hey Virgo here, in the past I have let go quite easily, I care for the person but like someone posted earlier we dont like admitting defeat............. HOWEVER with my break up with a sag i've been with I just cant let go and she is doing everything in her power to make me hate her but I just cant leave although I am more distant now but there is not a second I dont think about her and us.

When I love I accept them for all of who they are. The good days, the bad days, the downright ugly days. I will remain when they haven't a friend in the world because I know and remember who I chose. Virgos might be fickle when they've not truly given their heart, but I think when we love, we do so with the belief that even if it fell apart, we'd not regret giving all of ourselves.

Well takes someone from the same planet to defend someone from the same planet, Gemini! I don't hate Virgo, I said I've had several negative experiences. You should imitate your sister sign Virgo and do your thorough research on the entire thread because it seems to me like you didn't even read it from start to finish and chimed in just for fun. Typical Gemini. No signs in real life have issues with me. I don't have enemies, and I try to make people happy. Just like clueless cancer sometimes online message boards help to air out frustrations. Get your facts straight pesky Gemini.

My mom is the best Virgo I've met. She's hard working, mostly trustworthy, and she cares about everyone in her life. She's a very conscientious person and a lot of people, like at her work and religious group really admire her. Like I said before, we might not personally like a sign, but they have a higher purpose on Earth, just like all the other 11 signs.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Yes to both. Virgos generally are users, why i say that because they're mutable, if they can change their mind so often, can you really trust they ever loved you?

I don't even know why they're an Earth sign, nothing grounded about them at all.

shut the f uck up you dont know s hit about virgos.

Just because a virgo played you doesnt mean u can speak on everyone under this sign. U dont know s hit about this sign. But go ahead and keep speaking out your ass... I will make note to ignore every one of your post because you are a dumbass who is obviously hurt so your only option is to bitch out on a message board... sad but tue.

true*

Posted by Feistypisces777
Well takes someone from the same planet to defend someone from the same planet, Gemini! I don't hate Virgo, I said I've had several negative experiences. You should imitate your sister sign Virgo and do your thorough research on the entire thread because it seems to me like you didn't even read it from start to finish and chimed in just for fun. Typical Gemini. No signs in real life have issues with me. I don't have enemies, and I try to make people happy. Just like clueless cancer sometimes online message boards help to air out frustrations. Get your facts straight pesky Gemini.

Lol, k 🙂

FiestyPisces,

I actually agree with GeminiVixxen on this one.

...And ironically too, I'm not too fond of her.

The astrology boards were designed and created to learn how to relate, understand and interact with a specific zodiac sign.

An individual posted on the Taurus board inquiring about their experiences with a Scorpio. I stated both pros and cons with my Scorpio ex. In some ways I was able to relate to him, and in some ways he annoyed the 'ish' out of me. But still, I was able to analyze the relationship a little more objectively.

Some water signs (not all) have a tendency to project their emotions to the point where they become oblivious to any sense of logic. Sometimes, it becomes all too consuming, too self absorbed, where you might actually miss out on the best traits about that other individual, or the best part of a blossoming relationship.

There were many Virgos who offered great feedback on this post, but as usual, always seem to fall on deaf ears.

There are also non-Virgos who have successful relationships with Virgos, and their responses also fall on deaf ears.

During the initial stages, Virgos at times, can be a piece of work, I'm not disagreeing with you.
The mutable disposition drives me nuts! I'm a fixed sign, so you can imagine.

But what the Virgos have posted on this board is very accurate.

They can be loving, dependable, and extremely loyal.

It's well worth it.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by SoInLOVE
But if you let them get too far... You might lose them. The best way to talk with a Virgo is to take them out to a restaurant with excellent food, not too crowded but with a good ambiance, and maybe a glass of wine or two. The truth starts coming out and they will open up to you. Always read between the lines. Good luck and good vibes~ feistypisces777

How do you not let them get too far?

Does this seem like a healthy way to form a bond with another human being? Always being worried about too far, too close, hurting someone feels, doing the right now.

sounds like a headache ...

Agreed, is it really worth it.

Posted by ieatpizzaforfree
Wow, you guys have obviously had bad experiences with virgos since you guys are hating on us so bad. :*

I know three virgos, two of which are very close to me, and in my opinion all they do is use people.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Starlover maybe its' just me then that's the problem, cause i can't stand Virgos, they make me want to harm them and myself...

i've had it up to here with them....I just don't have the patience,

i think God likes to punish me, because they keep coming into my life, and i don't want them around me at all.

i seriously can't stand their BS...

I was wondering if there is any sign you like, or not dislike..

Posted by CluelessCancer
why i say that because they're mutable, if they can change their mind so often, can you really trust they ever loved you?

Flawed logic.

Posted by Damnata
I'll give you the gift of making your own choices in life. Nice, right?

If you want to go away, I won't stop you.

I'll say it if I love you, I'll also back it up with actions.

best simplified version of what a typical virgo will do if they love you, in any way.

Posted by virgowithasoul

Posted by Damnata
I'll give you the gift of making your own choices in life. Nice, right?

If you want to go away, I won't stop you.

I'll say it if I love you, I'll also back it up with actions.

best simplified version of what a typical virgo will do if they love you, in any way.

click to expand

We are simple people...

I mean it's unmistakable. We hover around people we care about..like satellites.

Posted by Damnata
I mean it's unmistakable. We hover around people we care about..like satellites.

lol so true.