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Do I still have a chance with this virgo man?
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Posted by BlackMambaWow, thanks for your reply!
Time
Yeah I guess time is the ultimate cure. How do I keep his interest in me when he's healing though?
Our workplaces are pretty close so I basically see him everyday.
That small fight probably triggered things from his past he didn't even know was there...I would not pressure him or wait for him.
If you decide to be there and faithful during this time...that's on you...he gave you the facts right up front.
Sometimes these situations work out for the ones who stick around and sometimes they don't.
He may see you as a truth that he's not really ready to date at the moment when he thought he was.
If you decide to be there and faithful during this time...that's on you...he gave you the facts right up front.
Sometimes these situations work out for the ones who stick around and sometimes they don't.
He may see you as a truth that he's not really ready to date at the moment when he thought he was.
Posted by happyface1Yeah I actually appreciate that he is being honest with me rather than just keeping me around and wasting my time.
That small fight probably triggered things from his past he didn't even know was there...I would not pressure him or wait for him.
If you decide to be there and faithful during this time...that's on you...he gave you the facts right up front.
Sometimes these situations work out for the ones who stick around and sometimes they don't.
He may see you as a truth that he's not really ready to date at the moment when he thought he was.
It's been a month since we broke up, and we are sort of back to friends now. I will not pressure him or wait for him, but I can't stop thinking of him. And seeing him every day makes it really hard for me to get over him... I'm not American, sometimes I wonder that I didn't know American dating rules and screwed things up.
Posted by leow31Thank you very much. Yeah it is so freaking hard, I basically cried every day for two weeks. Why are virgos so unforgettable?
Havent had the best experience with virgos...but usually ..when they make a decision they usually stick up with it. Just give him space, don't chase him. The old cheesey saying sometimes makes sense " if you love someone ... let them go bla bla bla " If he wants you he'll find you again. Sorry this is happening to you - break ups are hard =/
I don't know about him. But I'm a Virgo and once i decide it's over then it's over. What's your sign btw?
Posted by Nathan912Ouch. Even though you still like that girl?
I don't know about him. But I'm a Virgo and once i decide it's over then it's over. What's your sign btw?
I'm an Aries, a very typical one.
Posted by BlackMambashow him that I live better without him?
Date others but be his good friend!
Where he can talk to you about anything
Posted by BlackMambaThat sounds like a hard game to play. Thank you BlackMamba.
Look he needs a good friend now more than a relationship. He just got out of a long term one!
You might meet someone even more interesting while you're dating but you keep him in the circle... U know!
Around the periphery. It's like subtle stalking a prey!
It will take time...
Posted by twinkletwinkloeDon't mind what I'm said, I'm not him. So don't assume we're going to have the same thinking and decision hahahaPosted by Nathan912Ouch. Even though you still like that girl?
I don't know about him. But I'm a Virgo and once i decide it's over then it's over. What's your sign btw?
I'm an Aries, a very typical one.click to expand
I only have one ex. When I broke up with her long ago I don't love her anymore. I guess you gotta be that person that I'm gonna be so afraid to lose it.
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Posted by BlackMambaI meant to send you a private message but I can't figure it out. So I guess I'll just write it here.
Look he needs a good friend now more than a relationship. He just got out of a long term one!
You might meet someone even more interesting while you're dating but you keep him in the circle... U know!
Around the periphery. It's like subtle stalking a prey!
It will take time...
Thanks again for your suggestions! I really appreciate it. I've been suffering from the break up for a month, my friends obviously are taking my side and talking shits about him. I needed someone outside of this to give me some opinions. I guess as time goes by, I'll eventually move on (hopefully he will too!). Just don't know how long it would take, and until then, every day is a torture.....
Posted by Nathan912Phewwww~Posted by twinkletwinkloeDon't mind what I'm said, I'm not him. So don't assume we're going to have the same thinking and decision hahahaPosted by Nathan912Ouch. Even though you still like that girl?
I don't know about him. But I'm a Virgo and once i decide it's over then it's over. What's your sign btw?
I'm an Aries, a very typical one.
I only have one ex. When I broke up with her long ago I don't love her anymore. I guess you gotta be that person that I'm gonna be so afraid to lose it.
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I'm not one to forget. 🙂
I've known this Virgo guy for ~2years. He liked me, I liked him but because of his ex (I guess he had a very bad breakup) so he doesn't want to commit anymore, like forever... so it doesn't work out for us.
Posted by twinkletwinkloeThis ^^^.
Hi,
My virgo man just ended a long term relationship (7~8 years) before we started to date. He told me that he was not ready for a serious relationship and I said I totally understood.
When are women going to learn to LISTEN to what a man says?
He doesn't want a serious relationship. This means he wants to date and have fun that's it.
If you allowed yourself to fall for him or get hurt, that's on you because he told you right off he doesn't want this.
Posted by twinkletwinkloeThen you don't need to be friends with him. Cut your losses and move on. Otherwise, you're not going to be able to get over him.Posted by happyface1Yeah I actually appreciate that he is being honest with me rather than just keeping me around and wasting my time.
That small fight probably triggered things from his past he didn't even know was there...I would not pressure him or wait for him.
If you decide to be there and faithful during this time...that's on you...he gave you the facts right up front.
Sometimes these situations work out for the ones who stick around and sometimes they don't.
He may see you as a truth that he's not really ready to date at the moment when he thought he was.
It's been a month since we broke up, and we are sort of back to friends now. I will not pressure him or wait for him, but I can't stop thinking of him. And seeing him every day makes it really hard for me to get over him... I'm not American, sometimes I wonder that I didn't know American dating rules and screwed things up.click to expand
Posted by twinkletwinkloeFirst and foremost, respect his wishes and move on. Secondly (after I read this whole thread), having your friends shit on him is the furthest from respect and sounds like a pity party. No points there with the Virgo, I can guarantee you that. Third...he's not a prize to "win".. Get a grip, catch your falling ego and realize he's not the only male out there. He knows you still want him, he doesn't want you. If he did, you wouldn't be wanting him back, he'd be with you!
But I really really like him, is there anyway I can win him back?
Posted by usernameqwerThat's sad. I hope you have moved on.
I've known this Virgo guy for ~2years. He liked me, I liked him but because of his ex (I guess he had a very bad breakup) so he doesn't want to commit anymore, like forever... so it doesn't work out for us.
Posted by BlackMambaWho's p angel?
I'm waiting for p angel to tear you a new one.
Where is that lady?
Posted by starwarsYeah. I understand. I wanted to help but he refused. I guess everyone has his own way to repair himself.
give him time. I'm gonna expect that he's truly damaged that he needs time to fix and deal with his own issue then he may comeback or not.
Posted by Nathan912Do you mind if I ask you why you broke up with your ex? Just curious.Posted by twinkletwinkloeDon't mind what I'm said, I'm not him. So don't assume we're going to have the same thinking and decision hahahaPosted by Nathan912Ouch. Even though you still like that girl?
I don't know about him. But I'm a Virgo and once i decide it's over then it's over. What's your sign btw?
I'm an Aries, a very typical one.
I only have one ex. When I broke up with her long ago I don't love her anymore. I guess you gotta be that person that I'm gonna be so afraid to lose it.
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Posted by truecapLook, he didn't say he doesn't want a serious relationship at all. He just wanted to start slowly, but we made it clear that we were going somewhere. So my understanding is that we keep dating until we both agree that we want to commit to each other. In fact I never rushed him to anything, I didn't know why he got the idea that I wanted to go serious, I was having fun too!Posted by twinkletwinkloeThis ^^^.
Hi,
My virgo man just ended a long term relationship (7~8 years) before we started to date. He told me that he was not ready for a serious relationship and I said I totally understood.
When are women going to learn to LISTEN to what a man says?
He doesn't want a serious relationship. This means he wants to date and have fun that's it.
If you allowed yourself to fall for him or get hurt, that's on you because he told you right off he doesn't want this.click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by twinkletwinkloeIt's not a game if you're sincere in being his friend, not a potential love interest. If you can't differentiate the two, you're setting yourself up for disaster.Posted by BlackMambaThat sounds like a hard game to play. Thank you BlackMamba.
Look he needs a good friend now more than a relationship. He just got out of a long term one!
You might meet someone even more interesting while you're dating but you keep him in the circle... U know!
Around the periphery. It's like subtle stalking a prey!
It will take time...click to expand
Sorry, wrong metaphor. I'm trying to be pure friends with him. I know that I can't have unrealistic *hope* about him, about us.
Posted by LetltBTrue. Enough for all the tear and grief. Time to pick up my dignity and move on with my life. Thank you!Posted by twinkletwinkloeFirst and foremost, respect his wishes and move on. Secondly (after I read this whole thread), having your friends shit on him is the furthest from respect and sounds like a pity party. No points there with the Virgo, I can guarantee you that. Third...he's not a prize to "win".. Get a grip, catch your falling ego and realize he's not the only male out there. He knows you still want him, he doesn't want you. If he did, you wouldn't be wanting him back, he'd be with you!
But I really really like him, is there anyway I can win him back?click to expand
Posted by twinkletwinkloeYour words. How does it change from "He told me he was not ready for a serious relationship" to "He didn't say he doesn't want a serious relationship"?Posted by truecapLook, he didn't say he doesn't want a serious relationship at all. He just wanted to start slowly, but we made it clear that we were going somewhere. So my understanding is that we keep dating until we both agree that we want to commit to each other. In fact I never rushed him to anything, I didn't know why he got the idea that I wanted to go serious, I was having fun too!Posted by twinkletwinkloeThis ^^^.
Hi,
My virgo man just ended a long term relationship (7~8 years) before we started to date. He told me that he was not ready for a serious relationship and I said I totally understood.
When are women going to learn to LISTEN to what a man says?
He doesn't want a serious relationship. This means he wants to date and have fun that's it.
If you allowed yourself to fall for him or get hurt, that's on you because he told you right off he doesn't want this.click to expand
You can't change it up just because someone calls attention to it.
Posted by twinkletwinkloePosted by truecapLook, he didn't say he doesn't want a serious relationship at all. He just wanted to start slowly, but we made it clear that we were going somewhere. So my understanding is that we keep dating until we both agree that we want to commit to each other. In fact I never rushed him to anything, I didn't know why he got the idea that I wanted to go serious, I was having fun too!Posted by twinkletwinkloeThis ^^^.
Hi,
My virgo man just ended a long term relationship (7~8 years) before we started to date. He told me that he was not ready for a serious relationship and I said I totally understood.
When are women going to learn to LISTEN to what a man says?
He doesn't want a serious relationship. This means he wants to date and have fun that's it.
If you allowed yourself to fall for him or get hurt, that's on you because he told you right off he doesn't want this.click to expand
Look, you're lying to yourself. You say "I don't know where he got the idea that I wanted to go serious". You do. You did want to get serious. Even the way you worded this above. You were going to keep dating until you both commit to each other? You thought he would come around and commit to you and you were going to date him until he did. You word it like there are no other options.
So, first of all admit to yourself that you DID want to get serious with him.
He made it clear to you from the beginning that he didn't want a serious relationship. Hell, he just got out of a serious relationship. He only wanted to date and have some fun. He was honest with you and made it clear from the get go.
And after 3 months of dating you, he realized you did want to get serious, he didn't, so he broke it off.
I'm sorry. It sucks. It hurts. You didn't do anything wrong except pick an emotionally challenged man. That's all. Timing was bad. It's not a reflection on you. You didn't do anything wrong. He just wasn't at a place where he could mentally take it further.
Truth is, you didnt keep his interest. You were short term, or a trial. He wants to be able to date around if he chooses. Not sure if any of this has anything to do with the ex, he could just be using it as an excuse.
Do yourself a favor and move on.
Do yourself a favor and move on.
Posted by twinkletwinkloeYeah sure.Posted by Nathan912Do you mind if I ask you why you broke up with your ex? Just curious.Posted by twinkletwinkloeDon't mind what I'm said, I'm not him. So don't assume we're going to have the same thinking and decision hahahaPosted by Nathan912Ouch. Even though you still like that girl?
I don't know about him. But I'm a Virgo and once i decide it's over then it's over. What's your sign btw?
I'm an Aries, a very typical one.
I only have one ex. When I broke up with her long ago I don't love her anymore. I guess you gotta be that person that I'm gonna be so afraid to lose it.
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Excessive Jealousy and Trust Issues. Basically she has massive insecurity.
Posted by truecapWhat I was trying to say is he didn't say he never wanted serious relationship ever again, just not yet. And my opinion is that if he's ready to be serious with me, I can too. But if he's not ready and just wants to date and have fun, that's fine by me too.Posted by twinkletwinkloePosted by truecapLook, he didn't say he doesn't want a serious relationship at all. He just wanted to start slowly, but we made it clear that we were going somewhere. So my understanding is that we keep dating until we both agree that we want to commit to each other. In fact I never rushed him to anything, I didn't know why he got the idea that I wanted to go serious, I was having fun too!Posted by twinkletwinkloeThis ^^^.
Hi,
My virgo man just ended a long term relationship (7~8 years) before we started to date. He told me that he was not ready for a serious relationship and I said I totally understood.
When are women going to learn to LISTEN to what a man says?
He doesn't want a serious relationship. This means he wants to date and have fun that's it.
If you allowed yourself to fall for him or get hurt, that's on you because he told you right off he doesn't want this.
Look, you're lying to yourself. You say "I don't know where he got the idea that I wanted to go serious". You do. You did want to get serious. Even the way you worded this above. You were going to keep dating until you both commit to each other? You thought he would come around and commit to you and you were going to date him until he did. You word it like there are no other options.
So, first of all admit to yourself that you DID want to get serious with him.
He made it clear to you from the beginning that he didn't want a serious relationship. Hell, he just got out of a serious relationship. He only wanted to date and have some fun. He was honest with you and made it clear from the get go.
And after 3 months of dating you, he realized you did want to get serious, he didn't, so he broke it off.
I'm sorry. It sucks. It hurts. You didn't do anything wrong except pick an emotionally challenged man. That's all. Timing was bad. It's not a reflection on you. You didn't do anything wrong. He just wasn't at a place where he could mentally take it further.click to expand
But anyways, it doesn't matter anymore. It took me a while to realize that I didn't fail this relationship, just wrong timing, tough luck for me, which makes me feel even worse, because there's nothing I can
do to turn around the situation. I am trying to move on with my life, going on trips, going to the gym, learning new stuff. He's a tough one to forget but I'll get over him eventually!
Don't feel bad about it. You're not the reason it didn't work. I'm sure you're great and good girlfriend material. You didn't do anything wrong, it's only that he wasn't in the right place at the time. Just keep in mind when a guy says he's not ready for a serious relationship, that's just a nice way to say he just wants to have some fun and a warning to protect yourself.
Anyone still on this thread? Interested in hearing some follow-up stories?
I guess it's the Mercury retrogading, I miss him a lot recently. We broke up a week before Halloween, and it was hard at first since we work together. We pretended that each other didn't exist. After a week I approached to him, saying that it's awkward to behave that way I the office, that we could start to be friends. I admit that I still had feelings for him at that time, I didn't want to disappear in his life forever. So we've been friends since then till Christmas. It was actually pretty nice, I started to like him as a friend.
Sometimes the universe will find a way to tell you something. I saw him with a woman at the airport on Thanksgiving, funny huh? I knew that he was going back to visit his family on Thanksgiving, so obviously I assumed that he took his new girlfriend to see his family. My first thought was like 'what? when we broke up you told me that you are still dealing with your break-up, that you need time and space to repair yourself, ALONE.so wtf is this?' Then I started to think that he might have been cheating on me when we were together ( we made it clear that we were exclusive to each other when we were together, so I guess if he was dating other woman it's considered cheating right?) So before Christmas I talked to him again.
I went straight ahead asked him if he's dating, if he was cheating on me when we were dating. He wouldn't tell me the truth, so after I changed 100 ways of asking with the things that I already know, here is what I believe the truth was. So this woman has been a friend of him for a long time, they and a bunch of friends had a dinner party in September that I didn't attend, that was when they started to connect frequently, when I was out of town on a trip (I went on vacation during the first week of October), he started to develop feelings for this woman, after I came back, we had that fight, which gave him a chance to break up with me and start with this woman. When he broke up with me, I asked him multiple times that if he was getting back with his ex, if there was another woman, he said no to both. He admitted that he lied to me to make a better image of himself on me.
We talked a lot at that time, about his last long-term relationship, about why we didn't work out. He said he still has feelings for me, and I said I still like him too. He drove me home and we kissed in the car. We agreed to do something during christmas break.
So we had lunch on 12. 30, after the lunch we took a walk by the water, just chatting. He told me that his current girlfriend was mad at him because he didn't tell her that his ex (that would be me) was his coworker, meaning that we still see each other every single day, he seemed pretty sad.
All of a sudden he got a message, he took a look at his phone and went 'Sorry, my girlfriend just sent me this long message I need to go." And then we walked up to his car he just drove off, leaving me on the street. He left me for a woman that he's been dating for less than two months, that he's not serious with (according to what he said).
It felt like the last straw on the camel back, it reminded me that when we were together, we had that small fight, I texted him, asking if we could talk, he rejected me coldly, saying he was with his friends. Now I'm his friend, his girlfriend had a fight with him, wanting to talk, he went back right away without even considering my feelings. I feel like every time if he needs to hurt someone's feelings, that 'someone' must be me, cause he knows that I love him, I will always forgive him. I went back home, made the decision to stop being friends with him.
All of a sudden he got a message, he took a look at his phone and went 'Sorry, my girlfriend just sent me this long message I need to go." And then we walked up to his car he just drove off, leaving me on the street. He left me for a woman that he's been dating for less than two months, that he's not serious with (according to what he said).
It felt like the last straw on the camel back, it reminded me that when we were together, we had that small fight, I texted him, asking if we could talk, he rejected me coldly, saying he was with his friends. Now I'm his friend, his girlfriend had a fight with him, wanting to talk, he went back right away without even considering my feelings. I feel like every time if he needs to hurt someone's feelings, that 'someone' must be me, cause he knows that I love him, I will always forgive him. I went back home, made the decision to stop being friends with him.
He lied to you to make himself look better, then he kisses you probably while dating this girl you saw at the airport. Leaves that flow like the wind. Whoever is in front of their faces or talking to them.... smh.
And just when you think this person cannot be jerkier, on Jan 3rd, I was skiing, got his message :"before we start working tomorrow, I'm letting you know that we are not having any contact with each other unless it has to do with work at work", I kept falling on the snow after that LOL. I'm not a native English speaker, but I can feel that this message is very rude?
I don't what I did wrong to him to deserve this text message? I was struggling really hard when I tried to stop being friends with him, whereas he could just send me a message and cut me out of his life so easily. Why are virgos so cold? How can you hurt someone like this? Don't you feel guilty and bad?
Now I heard that he moved in together with his new girlfriend. The girlfriend that he said he didn't know what he was doing with, the girlfriend that he said he was not serious with.
I don't what I did wrong to him to deserve this text message? I was struggling really hard when I tried to stop being friends with him, whereas he could just send me a message and cut me out of his life so easily. Why are virgos so cold? How can you hurt someone like this? Don't you feel guilty and bad?
Now I heard that he moved in together with his new girlfriend. The girlfriend that he said he didn't know what he was doing with, the girlfriend that he said he was not serious with.
Posted by SensitiveBluesShell be in your shoes eventually. I'd focus on you. Let him live his life.
Well he's respecting his relationship.
He's obviously serious about her.
Virgos make it worse for people for the simple reason they're not honest until it's too late.
How can you kiss someone, saying that you love her and next week send her a text cutting her out of your life?
Posted by GreenteaYeah he kissed me when he was dating that woman, he drove me home while she was texting him.
He lied to you to make himself look better, then he kisses you probably while dating this girl you saw at the airport. Leaves that flow like the wind. Whoever is in front of their faces or talking to them.... smh.
Sorry I didn't get the last sentence you said.
Posted by SensitiveBluesI don't know. I know that she's older than him, I'm 26, he's 34, and this women is 40.
What's his new girls sign?
hahaha.
Posted by SensitiveBluesAfter we broke up, I still think he's a good person, it's just that we didn't work out. But after all these drama, I started to doubt if he's a worthwhile human being.Posted by twinkletwinkloeHe's a loser! I know that loser made you feel all kinds of beautiful things, but he's a list nonetheless.
So we had lunch on 12. 30, after the lunch we took a walk by the water, just chatting. He told me that his current girlfriend was mad at him because he didn't tell her that his ex (that would be me) was his coworker, meaning that we still see each other every single day, he seemed pretty sad.
All of a sudden he got a message, he took a look at his phone and went 'Sorry, my girlfriend just sent me this long message I need to go." And then we walked up to his car he just drove off, leaving me on the street. He left me for a woman that he's been dating for less than two months, that he's not serious with (according to what he said).
It felt like the last straw on the camel back, it reminded me that when we were together, we had that small fight, I texted him, asking if we could talk, he rejected me coldly, saying he was with his friends. Now I'm his friend, his girlfriend had a fight with him, wanting to talk, he went back right away without even considering my feelings. I feel like every time if he needs to hurt someone's feelings, that 'someone' must be me, cause he knows that I love him, I will always forgive him. I went back home, made the decision to stop being friends with him.
Remember the devil uses so many tactics ! You're free.
Fuk him. His life.
He's a pathetic weak man. A real man would have been upfront!click to expand
Why was I so stupid that I loved him so much? what's wrong with me?
Posted by twinkletwinkloeThey flow like the wind..Whoever is in front of them they give attention to.Posted by GreenteaYeah he kissed me when he was dating that woman, he drove me home while she was texting him.
He lied to you to make himself look better, then he kisses you probably while dating this girl you saw at the airport. Leaves that flow like the wind. Whoever is in front of their faces or talking to them.... smh.
Sorry I didn't get the last sentence you said.click to expand
Why would you want to be with someone who most.likely was cheating on you while you were with him with this new chick, then cheats on this new chick with you... he's a cheater. He's obviously delusional amd doesn't know what he wants.
She will be in your position amd he'll cheat on her again
Posted by twinkletwinkloeBecause he told you you camt talk anymore, so it's making it seem to you that he's a good bf...but he already messed that up by cheating on you amd his new.girl..just because they're nicd.dosent meam they're good.Posted by SensitiveBluesAfter we broke up, I still think he's a good person, it's just that we didn't work out. But after all these drama, I started to doubt if he's a worthwhile human being.Posted by twinkletwinkloeHe's a loser! I know that loser made you feel all kinds of beautiful things, but he's a list nonetheless.
So we had lunch on 12. 30, after the lunch we took a walk by the water, just chatting. He told me that his current girlfriend was mad at him because he didn't tell her that his ex (that would be me) was his coworker, meaning that we still see each other every single day, he seemed pretty sad.
All of a sudden he got a message, he took a look at his phone and went 'Sorry, my girlfriend just sent me this long message I need to go." And then we walked up to his car he just drove off, leaving me on the street. He left me for a woman that he's been dating for less than two months, that he's not serious with (according to what he said).
It felt like the last straw on the camel back, it reminded me that when we were together, we had that small fight, I texted him, asking if we could talk, he rejected me coldly, saying he was with his friends. Now I'm his friend, his girlfriend had a fight with him, wanting to talk, he went back right away without even considering my feelings. I feel like every time if he needs to hurt someone's feelings, that 'someone' must be me, cause he knows that I love him, I will always forgive him. I went back home, made the decision to stop being friends with him.
Remember the devil uses so many tactics ! You're free.
Fuk him. His life.
He's a pathetic weak man. A real man would have been upfront!
Why was I so stupid that I loved him so much? what's wrong with me?click to expand
That's why I only prefer friendship with them. That's it.
Posted by SensitiveBluesThe sad thing is even though I know he's such a jerk, I still cannot stop thinking about him, I don't want to delete his photos and messages on my phone.Posted by twinkletwinkloeYou should block his number
And just when you think this person cannot be jerkier, on Jan 3rd, I was skiing, got his message :"before we start working tomorrow, I'm letting you know that we are not having any contact with each other unless it has to do with work at work", I kept falling on the snow after that LOL. I'm not a native English speaker, but I can feel that this message is very rude?
I don't what I did wrong to him to deserve this text message? I was struggling really hard when I tried to stop being friends with him, whereas he could just send me a message and cut me out of his life so easily. Why are virgos so cold? How can you hurt someone like this? Don't you feel guilty and bad?
Now I heard that he moved in together with his new girlfriend. The girlfriend that he said he didn't know what he was doing with, the girlfriend that he said he was not serious with.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesI thought one definition of 'being practical' is that men always chase for the younger women.Posted by twinkletwinkloeWell Virgos aren't into love or intimacy! They're into practical investments!
How can you kiss someone, saying that you love her and next week send her a text cutting her out of your life?
He probably needed a place to stay
Lolclick to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesYeah, I guess I was too nice and tolerating to him. It seems like he is very afraid of this girlfriend, he was very scared when he saw her long message, he sent me that very rude text (even made me think that she looked over his shoulder telling him what to say), now they are moving in together, everything seems so strange!
My x dated am Aries after he disappeared on me. Well we started dating again I saw some texts of things her wanting him back!
I threw a fit and kicked him out of my place! He had to have that conversation with her.
I wasn't going to tolerate that bs.
Older women wont be the side piece! They'll leave
Posted by GreenteaFrom what I read on the internet, the only one good thing about virgo men is that they are very faithful and would never cheat. I guess I don't know them very much then. Or they won't cheat if they are serious about you.Posted by twinkletwinkloeThey flow like the wind..Whoever is in front of them they give attention to.Posted by GreenteaYeah he kissed me when he was dating that woman, he drove me home while she was texting him.
He lied to you to make himself look better, then he kisses you probably while dating this girl you saw at the airport. Leaves that flow like the wind. Whoever is in front of their faces or talking to them.... smh.
Sorry I didn't get the last sentence you said.
Why would you want to be with someone who most.likely was cheating on you while you were with him with this new chick, then cheats on this new chick with you... he's a cheater. He's obviously delusional amd doesn't know what he wants.
She will be in your position amd he'll cheat on her againclick to expand
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