Do I still have a chance with this virgo man? (Page 2)

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Posted by twinkletwinkloe

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Posted by twinkletwinkloe
So we had lunch on 12. 30, after the lunch we took a walk by the water, just chatting. He told me that his current girlfriend was mad at him because he didn't tell her that his ex (that would be me) was his coworker, meaning that we still see each other every single day, he seemed pretty sad.
All of a sudden he got a message, he took a look at his phone and went 'Sorry, my girlfriend just sent me this long message I need to go." And then we walked up to his car he just drove off, leaving me on the street. He left me for a woman that he's been dating for less than two months, that he's not serious with (according to what he said).
It felt like the last straw on the camel back, it reminded me that when we were together, we had that small fight, I texted him, asking if we could talk, he rejected me coldly, saying he was with his friends. Now I'm his friend, his girlfriend had a fight with him, wanting to talk, he went back right away without even considering my feelings. I feel like every time if he needs to hurt someone's feelings, that 'someone' must be me, cause he knows that I love him, I will always forgive him. I went back home, made the decision to stop being friends with him.

He's a loser! I know that loser made you feel all kinds of beautiful things, but he's a list nonetheless.

Remember the devil uses so many tactics ! You're free.

Fuk him. His life.

He's a pathetic weak man. A real man would have been upfront!

After we broke up, I still think he's a good person, it's just that we didn't work out. But after all these drama, I started to doubt if he's a worthwhile human being.
Why was I so stupid that I loved him so much? what's wrong with me?

Nothing! We've all fallen for this guy. I ask same questions about my ex

We expect ppl to behave as we would

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Is your ex also a virgo? Did he cheat on you?
My friend had similar experience with a virgo guy. He's been with his girlfriend for two years, whenever they had a fight, he just calls my friend to hang out, tells my friend that they broke up. And his girlfriend comes back, he's all like 'sorry my girlfriend is back, i can't see you anymore.' this went on and off a few times, my friend finally decided to block him.

Posted by Greentea
That's why I only prefer friendship with them. That's it.

I have a few virgo guy friends, they are very nice and kind, one of them is my best friend. That's probably why I just like virgos in general.
But this guy treats me like shit even when we are friends.

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
What's his new girls sign?

I don't know. I know that she's older than him, I'm 26, he's 34, and this women is 40.
hahaha.

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what does this hahaha means? 🙂

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
What's his new girls sign?

I don't know. I know that she's older than him, I'm 26, he's 34, and this women is 40.
hahaha.

what does this hahaha means? 🙂

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I didn't mean anything disrespectful to older women. It just really feels funny to me that he'd rather choose an older woman, who has been married before, than me. Honestly, I feel frustrated/defeated.

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Posted by Greentea
That's why I only prefer friendship with them. That's it.

I have a few virgo guy friends, they are very nice and kind, one of them is my best friend. That's probably why I just like virgos in general.
But this guy treats me like shit even when we are friends.

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Because you weren't JUST friends.

Posted by twinkletwinkloe

Posted by Greentea

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He lied to you to make himself look better, then he kisses you probably while dating this girl you saw at the airport. Leaves that flow like the wind. Whoever is in front of their faces or talking to them.... smh.

Yeah he kissed me when he was dating that woman, he drove me home while she was texting him.

Sorry I didn't get the last sentence you said.

They flow like the wind..Whoever is in front of them they give attention to.

Why would you want to be with someone who most.likely was cheating on you while you were with him with this new chick, then cheats on this new chick with you... he's a cheater. He's obviously delusional amd doesn't know what he wants.

She will be in your position amd he'll cheat on her again

From what I read on the internet, the only one good thing about virgo men is that they are very faithful and would never cheat. I guess I don't know them very much then. Or they won't cheat if they are serious about you.

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Lol! That's what THEY SAY...it says about Sags that they aren't but I find them to be more faithful, amd if they're not they'll be honest about the relationship and.let you go. Honesty is taken as a bad thing, until you're caught lying then everyone screams...WHY WASN'T HE JUST HONEST WITH ME!!! Virgos seem to hide the truth until it's too late.

Posted by magma
Unfortunately, when a person says "I'm not ready for a serious relationship" they leave out the words "with you", but that's the rest of the story.

bingo.

Wow, sounds like the Virgo I was with for 8 years, starts acting weird, says its nothing, then, bam I think I want to be out of a serious relationship and find myself on my own. 1 week later, sending kissy face messages to the co-worker side bitch, which I found after the fact. Aquas arn't stupid, I hacked his phone to prove the validity of my "side bitch" argument that he says never existed. It's fine, side bitch is a Gemini, good luck there Earthy Virgo.

Posted by Gennie
Wow, sounds like the Virgo I was with for 8 years, starts acting weird, says its nothing, then, bam I think I want to be out of a serious relationship and find myself on my own. 1 week later, sending kissy face messages to the co-worker side bitch, which I found after the fact. Aquas arn't stupid, I hacked his phone to prove the validity of my "side bitch" argument that he says never existed. It's fine, side bitch is a Gemini, good luck there Earthy Virgo.

Yeah, I guess he forgot that I followed him on Instagram, which means I can see every picture the other woman tagged him while we were still together. And I asked him with the evidence, he still denied....

Posted by twinkletwinkloe

Posted by Gennie
Wow, sounds like the Virgo I was with for 8 years, starts acting weird, says its nothing, then, bam I think I want to be out of a serious relationship and find myself on my own. 1 week later, sending kissy face messages to the co-worker side bitch, which I found after the fact. Aquas arn't stupid, I hacked his phone to prove the validity of my "side bitch" argument that he says never existed. It's fine, side bitch is a Gemini, good luck there Earthy Virgo.

Yeah, I guess he forgot that I followed him on Instagram, which means I can see every picture the other woman tagged him while we were still together. And I asked him with the evidence, he still denied....

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It's all about semantics with Virgos, to validate a legal argument. I was always more about the Spirit of the Rules, but he liked the fine print.