Flirty Virgo - The Stare

Hi All,

In the past few months there has been a guy that I have always been intrigued by at work. Not anything more than that - Just intrigued. In my position at work, I am required to talk to people directly in which I needed to talk to him about work related matters - And to be honest, I talked to him, not because I needed to, but wanted to. Anyways, our work related conversation was very dry with a lot of nervousness from both parties. Whats weird for me is, I'm rarely nervous when talk to new people...

As the days went on, I passed him sporadically while walking to and from my desk. One day, he approached me out of no where and asked me a work related question. He seemed highly nervous and spoke in a very low volume. The next day, I went back to him to confirm his question and my answer for him - even though I really didn't need to.

Sporadic passings and a few eye smiles had been exchanged as the weeks went on. It wasn't until the past two weeks I noticed his eye contact with me had been different. It wasn't just a casual eye contact, but a deeper fixated contact. There were times that I purposely didn't look at him when walking by, however, I could feel him looking at me and trying to lock eyes with me.

Today, we locked eyes when I passed him. It was an eye contact that was familiar to me... The eye contact that I had experienced before with my fiance. Like within that split second of time, all movement and time froze around us... His stare was deep, sweet and soul touching... then a shy sweet smile followed the meeting of our eyes.

Its been only an hour since that experience, and I'm feeling confused and partially upset... Upset, that I shouldn't be thinking or experiencing this as I am engaged.

I did further research on him and found out his birth date. He too is a Virgo! And that his top five (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars) planet signs are more of a match than of my fiance's...

He is a Virgo Sun, Capricorn Moon, Virgo Mercury, Libra Venus and Gemini Mars

I am a Virgo Sun, Taurus Moon, Virgo Mercury, Libra Venus and Sagittarius Mars

Thoughts on any of this? Does it sound like he was flirting?

-Milani

He may have been flirting.

Sounds like he likes you.

But please keep your fantasies to yourself and behave.

I have experienced this on numerous occasions (being in a relationship while being attracted to someone else)...Gemini Moon here.

But they were kept in my fantasies, and nothing more.

But my gut instinct tells me you want to take this further....

You're asking TOO many questions, and you're doing TOO much research.

TaurusBull, you’re right. I should just let it go... but I will always wonder “if”

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