Ahh, I've been there. It IS really frustrating, and completely emotionally exhausting. However, usually when they're hot and cold like this, it means they're deliberating over what to do. They get caught up in their feelings, which they don't particularly like since feelings rob one of control, and distance themselves. In this distance, they try to get their head to outweigh their heart again. He might be trying to decide if he really does want to only be friends. If you like this guy and think he's worth the wait, you're going to have to practice a great deal of patience.
Good luck, girl!
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It IS really frustrating, and completely emotionally exhausting.
However, usually when they're hot and cold like this, it means they're deliberating over what to do. They get caught up in their feelings, which they don't particularly like since feelings rob one of control, and distance themselves. In this distance, they try to get their head to outweigh their heart again. He might be trying to decide if he really does want to only be friends. If you like this guy and think he's worth the wait, you're going to have to practice a great deal of patience.
Good luck, girl!