give virgo her space ?

it's been almost 3 weeks since we talked, she disappeared won't returned my calls nor texts. i found out that a member of her family has a terminal disease, plus she has some personal problems. What should I do ?, do I wait for her to make contact ?, give her space ?, call her send her messages but I know she wont answer me... I kniw its a tough situation for her so I want to make the best decision that is why I ask you Virgos to help me out.. Thanks! !

Id just let her know she's thought of and you're there if she needs anything. Then go about your business. I personally think three weeks is two weeks past acceptable for keeping in touch. But let your morals and heart be your guide. I'm just a scorp with a virgo female in my life. I'm learning how single minded they are in their approach to everything. if they have a task, picture a task in a room. Then stand outside with door closed and look thru the keyhole at this task. If your not in view then she's probably not going to give you much thought. Its hard to handle for those who are not that way. I like to say all weman are multitaskers unless she's virgo! Sorry I can't be of anymore help. Still going thru it myself.

"Out of site out of mind" && "Can't see the forest from the trees"
Describes Virgo to the T

It's not that she doesn't want to speak to yu it's just that she can't
handle everything that's going on. Your the only thing that's disposable
so your TEMPORARILY getting kicked to the curve. Please don't take it
personal it's just the way virgos are. Wen were in the middle of a situation
we often make it alot more difficult than it really is because we're over thinking
-another bad habit of a virgo. that's wen the "can't see the forest from the trees"
comes in. @shawnman79 is so rite he just pissed me off lol but I acknowledge
the truth wenever I come across it no matter how much it hurts.. Like he said,
let it be known your here for her go find something to do. The more yu call the
more you'll bother her.

&btw to a virgo, 3weeks = 3days

Try sending her a text like " Hey, worried about you. Want to make sure you're ok. If you want someone to talk to you, text/call me anytime." - After that stop the calls and texting, and when's she ready you'll hear from her. I don't know if you guys are dating, or just friends, you were being a little vague. What's your sign? - out of curiosity :I

Everyone has their dramas, and I know I definitely need my "loner" time to recoup myself, and figure things out - I'm always analyzing nonstop! So... If I were to recieve a nice message notifying me that I'm being thinked about, and concerned, I would be really touched, and appreciate the person even more. Ya dude, just do what I say, you'll be alright.

I'm a taurus sun, asc cancer, leo moon.. yesterday I sent her a text well telling her that I was there for her whenever she felt ready to talk again.. to my surprise she told me that she disappeared because she was tired, stressed out, that it had nothing to do with me, but with school work & family.. that she was not mad at me, she just needed some time for herself .. we talked for a while, we joked,laughed etc..

That's awesome. Good for both of you! Nice to see the advice and the outcome both work out to satisfaction.

Posted by Betaurus85

.... she told me that she disappeared because she was tired, stressed out, that it had nothing to do with me, but with school work & family.. that she was not mad at me, she just needed some time for herself ..

How selfish !!!!


You best keep this in the forefront of your mind ... she doesnt' mind letting you fear you've done something wrong, and will ignore your feelings until you plead with her to believe you are there for her at her bidding.

Until you did this .. she didn't seem to mind that she left you in the dark.

This is Her Actions! You'd do well to keep that in clear mind.

P-angel has a very good point. I think its nice that you got what it was you were looking for at this time, but I too, would be very cautious with the trust. Don't give more then she proves she can be caring with. I still feel three weeks was two past acceptable. Be careful and best of luck to you.

Posted by shawnman79
P-angel has a very good point. I think its nice that you got what it was you were looking for at this time, but I too, would be very cautious with the trust. Don't give more then she proves she can be caring with. I still feel three weeks was two past acceptable. Be careful and best of luck to you.

He still hasn't mentioned if their "together", or just friends. If just friends, then it's really not much to get worked over UNLESS he has strong feelings for her. I'll admit, I've gone a month w/o contacting a friend. I do agree, if they are together, 3-weeks is torture w/o any communication. I would go nuts!

Hey, I am a Virgo woman and I do like support in challenging times without being pushed though. It's a good idea to text but also don't talk much around the bushes. I like when my man is straight forward. Virgos are usually very uncomplicated, we just complicate things for ourselves, in our minds. I would suggest that you show her that you care and maybe suggest that you'd like to take her out or organize something "simple" for her so she can change her mood and scenery. Do this whenever she is up for it though.

Give her a little time and space, her independence gets in the way. She doesn't want to burden you with her problems and she still has you in her thoughts. We tend to daze away when under pressure but when we see you text that you care we smile. Don't over do it though and know that she will come around sooner or later. I do that a lot to my friends but if they understand me they wont take it personal. Just try to be understanding and strong....

Posted by RomancingA
Just let her know you want her....that you are into her, that you wanna hear from her when she finds the time. Give her space...but don't drag it out in any kind of dramatic fashion that you want her to know you are giving her space lol...like don't make it a big deal...just let her do her thing.


One mistake people seem to make with Virgo people is that they are constantly questioning each and every single move...they are not aliens, just very calculated people. They are not that complicated....they like good food, relaxation, sex, snuggles, laughing, someone that makes them relax and also tons of time to think and be nerds.

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