I met a virgo man in 2011. In 2011 we met for coffee and hit it off. Over the next few months I'd hear from him randomly but he never asked me out. Eventually contact stopped. In 2012 I heard from him again and we started seeing each other again. Things seemed to be going ok, but after a couple of months he disapeared again. Last year he text me out ofthe blue and acted as if nothing had happened. I was a little cautious, but We started hanging out again,this time we stayed in touch for about 4 - 5 months. It seemed to me that things were going better this time around. The last month or so he was very busy with a new project he was getting off the ground. While I missed seeing him, I was very supportive of his new business venture. I wasn't needy and made no demands whatsover, but I'm a Leo and I'm very passionate. I know that I should keep my feelings to myself, but at times I definitely said too much. Our last conversation was over text messages. It was playful and fun but I basically said that I knew he was the one for me. He basically said he was "all in" and I'm sure I was a bit over the top in my enthusiasm. I heard from him the next morning. I replied and that was that. I never heard from him again. I wrote him a couple of times - radio silence. He's been gone now for 10 months. I just don't get this behavior. Is this normal?
Gone For Good?

Hell no this aint normal. It honestly sounds like he has a gf.
Be careful
Stop making excuses for his selfish behavior.
I will not say he has a girlfriend because I don't know that from this text.
But it's clear based on you're description that he is being selfish and some issues need to be addressed.
A friendship/ relationship requires a sense of security and his vanishing moments don't offer you any safety .
Stop making excuses for his selfish behavior.
I will not say he has a girlfriend because I don't know that from this text.
But it's clear based on you're description that he is being selfish and some issues need to be addressed.
A friendship/ relationship requires a sense of security and his vanishing moments don't offer you any safety .

Posted by ladyleo69
I basically said that I knew he was the one for me.
So the last 4 years this man drifts in and out of your life and you "know" he's the one for you?
Posted by ladyleo69
Is this normal?click to expand
Yes. He'll be back and this will keep up for years and years. You certainly don't seem to want it to stop.

Posted by ladyleo69
I met a virgo man in 2011. In 2011 we met for coffee and hit it off. Over the next few months I'd hear from him randomly but he never asked me out. Eventually contact stopped.
In 2012 I heard from him again and we started seeing each other again. Things seemed to be going ok, but after a couple of months he disapeared again.
Last year he text me out ofthe blue and acted as if nothing had happen, this time we stayed in touch for about 4 - 5 months. I never heard from him again.
He's been gone now for 10 months.
I just don't get this behavior. Is this normal?
—Really? You don't get this behavior? You taught him for the last three years this behavior was accpetable and just fine with you. You kept taking him back.

*correction 4 years
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