Had a fight with my virgo finace

Hey so my fianc? had this sort of an appointment with me where he was suppose to handle this thing regarding my car "it was his idea" we agreed that he will pass by and do this thing after I reach home & he gets his car from his friend... We had the talk at 10 pm so I went home changed and I was there waiting for him, I waited till 1: 30 Am ! Still he didn't even call !! So typically I called him more than 3 times and there was no answer so I started to worry ! Where was he & why isn't he picking up his mobile ! Because we are always connected to each other & he calls to tell me his whereabouts all the time & am expected to do the same because he tends to freak out as well if am not answering my phone... Almost 4 & a half hours & am stressed worried about him coz we were suppose to meet & it's the first time that happened ! Then at 2 in the morning he called me 🙂 I was so angry at him coz somehow I knew he was alright & that he was with the guys ! So I didn't answer him & better yet I sent him the busy tone coz I had in mind why will I answer him whilst he was so careless to do this to me.. I managed to be cold blooded for another half an hour but gave up & had to give him a piece of my mind ! My gut was right he was with his friends & said that they came late & he got busy with them ! I said to him the obvious " you should have called ! Why did you leave me to worry !?? Why haven't u answered your phone !! " he replied with cold tone the same " i got busy" :o !!!! So I told him alright I will llesve you to get back to your friends " I could hear their voices in the background" & also told him don't tell me where you are period ! I won't do the same & that thing with the car I don't want you to do it either I will do it my self.. He simply replied "Okkk 🙂 bye !!" I replied "bye & hung up " ... I couldn't sleep the whole night & to make it worst the air conditioner in my room died ! So I was there in deadly heat & in total depression coz of his behavior.. & actually the Ac was dead since 11 pm that night & it almost electrified me when I tried to turn it back on but who cares I was there alone waiting for his majesty to freakin call or at least check on me 😢 sooo after i hardly slept at 5 am I made a decision I won't call Jim the next day & turn my phone off .. I woke up late in the afternoon the following day &'went straight to work no food nothing with my phone closed & here I am now in a coffee shop alone & not even one miscal from him ! Wtf

It's been a whole day & no call from him I didn't yell at him or anything I was talking with a cold tone we last called its 1'30am where the hell is he & why isn't he finding It in his heart to call me ?! Is that a Virgo thing if I don't call he won't. Call or is it something worst 😢 doesn't he love me anymore & wants out ? Coz he can simply say it to me "mimz I don't want you anymore" is that so hard ? Coz he is emotionless anyhow I know he loves me coz we fell I'm love & he proposed & he wants the whole thing to be quick & ge married sooner than I suggested but why do I feel he isn't responding to me anymore and for him not to call after he clearly hurt me is a bad thing & it's a bad sign.. Do virgos find it diffuclt to admit they have a change of heart & tend to push the person to cancel & change heart instead coz maybe he is doing that since he haven't called for a whole day !!!! Am so sad coz I love him I truly love him & want to have a family with him& it pisses me off he has done this coz he knows it's been difficult for me to let him in mylife this way love for me isn't a joke & it series I don't get involved with boys that much unless I calculate everything & he promised it's all going to be ok once we are together & I need not to worry.. But his last move speaks the opposite as if he don't care what am feeling 😢 plz is it a Virgo thing do I have to fix it all the time with him dont you virgos make the effort if u love someone ??

Uff am tired should I call him? Or wait? I feel our whole relationship depends on this.. As if he calls it wil prove to me that he loves me & is sure about this 😢

Or he is subconsciously testing you and how you handle the situation, and the limits of his power over you.

Posted by sv
Or he is subconsciously testing you and how you handle the situation, and the limits of his power over you.

Smart : $ & it sounds like him well the "A" hole called this morning at 9,20 " it felt as if he wanted to wake me up for my shift at 10" but I wasn't near my iPhone just saw a miscal & when I called there was no answer & again just now am at work he called at 2pm but I couldn't answer, he called again 45 minutes later but I couldn't answer as well but I called a minute after his miscal exactly & still no freaking answer :s he didn't answer although I followed his call by a minute & I think he might be going to work coz his pm shift start at 2,30 :I hell I don't even know if he is at work or not 😢 cold blooded freak he is torturing me

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this Tale gets longer and funnier

Posted by P-Angel
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this Tale gets longer and funnier

Kinda like noses...

"he called again 45 minutes later but I couldn't answer as well but I called a minute after his miscal exactly & still no freaking answer"

He called you but you couldn't answer, but you called him back a minute after? Were you only busy for a minute? I'm so confused.

Mimz,

You really need to reevaluate yourself, your emotions, and your self confidence. Are you stable and secure enough for a marriage? You're seriously all over the place. Love, hate, love, hate, love...

Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
"he called again 45 minutes later but I couldn't answer as well but I called a minute after his miscal exactly & still no freaking answer"

He called you but you couldn't answer, but you called him back a minute after? Were you only busy for a minute? I'm so confused.

Mimz,

You really need to reevaluate yourself, your emotions, and your self confidence. Are you stable and secure enough for a marriage? You're seriously all over the place. Love, hate, love, hate, love...

Nebulous-Cloud9 it happens to me sometimes and Mimz he will become your husband right? so this is a serious matter you need to talk to him about everything or cancel everything just saying you cant live with all this doubbts in your mind

Kill the doubbts 😛

He is not talkative :/
Well here is the development, he called at 11pm later that night I was asleep but managed to answer he said "ur sleeping Ahww ok get back to sleep" i said fine & hung up then at 7,30 in the morning i was still asleep & heard the MSG tone & it was him sending me a text saying "good morning my love" :/ I believe that's the only time since we met for him to send me a text.. I didn't have credit in my mobile to text so I miscalled him but still no answer I got it he was at work morning shift then he did call at 10 ! I answered "still sleepy" he said the same thing " u still sleeping ok get back to sleep told him what time is it am gonna wake up, told me that he as at work s we'll he cant really talk & told me to get back to sleep" sooo that's it :o no talk since that night.. Note that also he never calls when he is at work and this morning he called twice & even sent a MSG !!

You're just playing games with him ... a person would wake up to take that call, if it was important.

You made this thread, and babbled on and on about it, then when he does contact you, you have every excuse in the book not to talk to him .. then run your mouth about it, as if he is avoiding you.


Of course, I realize this is all bullshit anyway ... and those who aren't gullible, get that

Posted by P-Angel
You're just playing games with him ... a person would wake up to take that call, if it was important.

You made this thread, and babbled on and on about it, then when he does contact you, you have every excuse in the book not to talk to him .. then run your mouth about it, as if he is avoiding you.


Of course, I realize this is all bullshit anyway ... and those who aren't gullible, get that

Yes now i agree with her he is doing the effort to call you and you give excuses to not answer him the problem is not him its YOU

Posted by LoveSeeker

Posted by P-Angel
You're just playing games with him ... a person would wake up to take that call, if it was important.

You made this thread, and babbled on and on about it, then when he does contact you, you have every excuse in the book not to talk to him .. then run your mouth about it, as if he is avoiding you.


Of course, I realize this is all bullshit anyway ... and those who aren't gullible, get that

Yes now i agree with her he is doing the effort to call you and you give excuses to not answer him the problem is not him its YOU

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No I answered him when I did get the chance evan when I was asleep ! The first time I was really dizzy I did answer but seriesly couldn't talk so when he told me to get back to sleep I did & the second time he called when I was asleep I answered as well and intended to wake up & talk to him so when he told me to get back to sleep the time I told him " no am gonna wake up" he was the one who told me off and said he is at work anyways !! So I figured he will call when he does finish work at 2,30 pm if he really would like to talk or at least apologize ! Say something for gods sake.. & still it's 6,40 pm I know he is off duty & still no call !!! & I figure he just wants to get things back to normal without him having to face that he made a mistake or say sorry :o

All bullshitters change the story around when they don't make sense and need to backpedal .....

:s guys I did answer !!
Well the fight is over& there was one twist that I didn't expect :o actually on the second day of the fight I turned my phone off to freak him out right but the mobile company always sends a MSG contains numbers which have callled whilst your phone was off & exactly how many times so if he called I would have known.. & that entire day I did not receive any single MSG telling me I had calls :o. So that's how I came to the conclusion that he didn't.. We spoke & I told him " bravo how did you manage to forget about me for three days!!" he said what !!! The second day I called you but your phone was off !!" & I called many times not one or two.. Told him wel I got no msg saying you called :/ told me to go ask the phone company why that happened & I think he is telling the truth coz how else would he know my phone was off...

Mimz, just remember, games get old....

Well he started it :/ plus one time My battery died while I was out shopping with my baby sis I thought he will defiantly call at 10 when he gets off work so I sent s MSG from my sis mobile saying my battery died and then her mobile died as well but he at least knew am fine I just need a charged but when I reached home and put the phone on charge I called him right & what he did is not freakin answer till the next day :o as if he was punishing me ! Well my battery diesel I had a damn good excuse but when I told him that he replied that how come I left him to worry that night so he did that so he will give me a taste of it :o who is playing games me or him :s he told me that he had the phone in his hand and he was just not answering :/ vengeance !!

This is sadly immature.