30 Things To Know: Understanding Confusing Virgos!

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Virg916 on Tuesday, June 5, 2012 and has 32 replies.

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Maybe this will clarify and alleviate some of the uncertainties, confusion, and frustration others have with us crazy Virguys/gals. =)

1) Virgos thrive on constant activity because a virgo with an idle mind, is a virgo who is worrying.
2) Virgos will often hold back their feelings to avoid hurting other peoples feelings.
3) Despite an inherent tendency to stress and worry, Virgos are terrific under pressure.
4) You may never know a virgo is worried or stressed because of their ability to display a cool and calm demenour.
5) Virgos have a sensitive interior with a strong shield of protection exterior.
6) Virgos are never completely satisfied with themselves. They always want to be better, go higher and have more for their life.
7) Virgos are compassionate yet critical, generous yet skeptical and practical yet complex.
8) Virgos are quick to pick out mistakes, even if they don't mention it.
9) A Virgo's silence is always judged as being stuck up or arrogance.
10) A virgo can cut u with words. They can be brutally honest.
11) If a virgo doesnt like you, they are more prone to have feelings of indifference than hate toward you.
12) It is very hard to read a virgo, they are illusive with emotions and are secretive.
13) Virgos are not trusting with sharing much of who they are with everyone; they're a mystery to a lot of people.
14) Virgos are only affected by the people who matter to them. If you hate them, they probably don't care.
15) Virgos are perfectionists and whatever they do, they need to do it thoroughly and get it exactly right or they feel dissatisfied.
16) A virgo always has something smart to say, even if they don't say it.
17) Virgos hate being asked to do something they already said "no" to.
18) Because virgos dont attach easily, moving on can be fairly easy.
19) Virgos take pride in being useful, but when unappreciated, they feel used.
20) A virgo will not stay where they are not needed.
21) Virgos are instinctively responsive to the needs of others.
22) Virgos emotions can run the warmest warm and the coldest cold; even for the same person.
23) Virgos make no pretenses; Exactly what they say is exactly how they feel.
24) Sometimes the littlest things people do, can irritate a virgo. The big things that irritate everyone else, virgos can shrug off.
25) Virgos are hard to fool. They are very good at picking up on what is really going on and putting together clues.
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26) A Virgo doesn't need anyone to agree with them. They are usually comfortable enough with themselves to stand alone if they have to.
27) Once a virgo has their mind made up, there's probably nothing u can do to change it.
28) Never ask a virgo their opinion if you don't want the frank truth.
29) Most Virgos hate chaos, but may be drawn to it because they love a good challenge.
30) Virgos are very much aware of their faults and get annoyed when reminded of such.
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I love it..You are so right about this list..every one of them is so true. To be honest I have never met anyone more intriguing and challenging to me..So refreshing to have someone that can challenge my mind. He is the most amazing man I have ever met in my life.

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TaurusBadGirl, you always know how to make us Virgo boys blush. Thank you. We love you awesome Tauruses as well.
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Posted by Virg916
TaurusBadGirl, you always know how to make us Virgo boys blush. Thank you. We love you awesome Tauruses as well.




Awww thank you Virg916 you are making me blush. I only say the truth. Virgos are super amazing. We tauruses love that you Virgos love usπŸ˜›
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@ Decan, You always have interesting things to say. You're a real-ass dude. You seem really cool. Oh, and intelligent of course haha.

@SassyVirgo, it could be the whole Virgo and Gemini are both ruled by Mercury thing. We're alike at times. They have that same mercurial energy. Now that I think about it...my Gem friends usually tell what I'm thinking before I say it. They just look at me and we burst into laughter simultaneously. haha. Good times.
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^ Oh trust me, there's plenty much more we can do or say. Holding back feelings to avoid hurting others doesn't mean not being critical. If I'm criticizing, when asked mind you, I tend to do so with tact. If someone takes offense to anything I said, they should really look inside themselves to see why they're actually upset, because I know for damn sure it ain't because of me. Haha. Thanks for visiting. Glad I could be of service to you.πŸ™‚
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Posted by SagChick411
How does one know if a Virgo likes you? Cause I am confused by a Virgo I know.

Either he'll tell you or he'll be subtle and do a lot of nice shet for you. Hell, he might even disappear on you. Confusing, I know. lol. It's better if you both communicate. That's the only way to know for sure...unless you acquire telepathy.
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26) A Virgo doesn't need anyone to agree with them. They are usually comfortable enough with themselves to stand alone if they have to.
27) Once a virgo has their mind made up, there's probably nothing u can do to change it.
28) Never ask a virgo their opinion if you don't want the frank truth.

^^ This is so much ME!^^
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Wow most of those are pretty dead on. I love how OP said that s/he grammatical issues. I think thats a common place mentality all Virgos have. We are slight grammar Nazis...or it may just be myself and my Virgo friends lol!!! I cosign this HARD. But since I have alot of "air" in my chart some of it doesnt apply lol
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this is 100% truth ... especially the part about emotions , i can love you so much and hate you at the same time lol crazy but true and i hate when i say no and someone keep pushing me and asking the same thing its so annoying reason and 1 of the reasons why as a Virgo i don't get along with Aries lol
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The virgo list is spot on ,thats me to the letter,i couldnt disagree with anything on that list WOW :0)
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"Could you maybe give us some details about the way he acts around you?

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A list of things since I met this Virgo (I know this was for someone else, but I too am a bit puzzled by my Virgo interest.)
2nd day of meeting although I think he was a little tipsy at the BBQ. Offered to massage my hurting feet.

Did it, and left me feeling like I was his woman he did such a good job. LOL We hadn't exchanged numbers yet at this point.

I was given his number by a mutual friend about two weeks later. I text he did respond. We text consistently at first. He expressed that their was a vibe about me he liked. Told me I am beautiful. Then he disappeared at some point.

Went to a party and he was there. We danced most of the night. He was pretty touchy feely not in a gross way. When I sat near him we were close and he even had he hand on my leg.




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To continue and fast forward a little.

There was a party we were going to with a group of friends. We all were killing time and he asked me to go for a walk as I think he was bored at this point. We talked about quite a bit of stuff and I expressed that I was going to Vegas He asked me not to cheat while I was there. Which I thought was hilarious as we hadn't established anything and this is only like week 3.

So I said I wouldn't but the same rules applied to him. He agreed to the terms.

We were due to go on a date prior to my leaving, but with an ill relative that didn't happen. At some point on my trip though I contacted him and he responded at some point. He also asked if I was behaving as I asked him as well and we both were good. I asked will I see him when I was back and he said of course, but I have not seen him yet. Still within the week I have been back, but remember we never had our date either which has yet to be brought up again and I refuse to bring it up again.

OK last thing. We were at the party that we were waiting to go to and a few things occurred.
1. at some point he was playful and said what you doing? where you been? etc. rapidly in a joking way and I said minding my business and he said I am your business. So you need to mind me. LOL
2.towards the later part of the party we were not up on each other and he was watching me I guess and then tapped my hand for my attention and I walked over to him and we were cuddled standing for a bit.
3.he came to check on me at one point rubbed my stomach and asked if I was alright?
4.he was leaving and I got two hugs and two kisses on my cheek.

Also a lot of the time aside from dancing we both kept our distance from each other. I never wanted him to feel smothered. However, I felt from time to time we both were eyeing each other from a distance.