Had romance with a virgo man but no confession

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I am currently being confused by a virgo man. We are just friends, but he acted like more of a lover. Sadly, he already got a girlfriend before he met me. But he makes me feel like i am his girlfriend although no words said that he loves me. It has been 4 months we are like this. We do contact everyday and he will wish good morning to me everyday through whatsapp. Btw he works at the same company as mine but diff brunches. He always asks me out and always has reason to meet me and calls me especially at night. He likes to touch me and always do that. Always touches my hand and my neck and all over the body. And we have sometimes had romance in the car?. We have kissed and everything but not the sex. His fav my body parts are hands and thigh. He also likes being touched by me. He always open up to me. Shared his biggest secrets and fear. He likes my cookings and everything.But i can sense that he is someone who is really scared to talk about feelings and that's why i have never confessed to him that i like him but i know someday i need to do something. I am so confused please help me. What should i do?
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Posted by drunkghost
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but he has a girlfriend?
Yes, but she is abroad. Far away.
? would you like to be the gf abroad who is being cheated on?

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I did not. But we had started as friends in the first place. But suddenly things change as he is really care for me. And the gf knows that he is friends with me and constantly go out with me but not the romance

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Posted by TomSawyer
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Posted by TomSawyer
Whatever you're doing, it's working.

No reason to change tactics.

Not right now atleast.


So i just go with the flow? I mean is he falling in love with me but still in the mood of finding out. Since he already has a girlfriend. Once he did tell me that he doesn't care about who his gf's with. Even a boy friend. Aren't a virgo man getting jealous easily?
Yeah, go with the flow, you could spice it up a little bit if you want a faster result.

You two are practically together already.

He prolly won't fall in love with you until you have sex tho.

There's an old saying "Men find love through sex, women find sex through love"

Here's the formula:

1)She's gorgeous - X

2)She's got a good personality - X

3) I like her - X

4) She's girlfriend material - X

5) Sex - this will be the nail to the coffin

Once that happens - the ex is old news, you two have each other.

He's already broken up with his gf in his mind, you're taking her place either way.



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Thanks for the thought. But I choose sex is on the table only after marriage. I am very protective about this. Haha. Sometimes i don't think he is serious with his gf because once he told me it was her who chased him and locked him down but sounded worn him down to me. This made me thinks that he just accepted her because of the effort not because of the heart. Otherwise, he would never open the gate for me, isn't?
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Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by Zulidayu
Posted by TomSawyer
Whatever you're doing, it's working.

No reason to change tactics.

Not right now atleast.


So i just go with the flow? I mean is he falling in love with me but still in the mood of finding out. Since he already has a girlfriend. Once he did tell me that he doesn't care about who his gf's with. Even a boy friend. Aren't a virgo man getting jealous easily?
Yeah, go with the flow, you could spice it up a little bit if you want a faster result.

You two are practically together already.

He prolly won't fall in love with you until you have sex tho.

There's an old saying "Men find love through sex, women find sex through love"

Here's the formula:

1)She's gorgeous - X

2)She's got a good personality - X

3) I like her - X

4) She's girlfriend material - X

5) Sex - this will be the nail to the coffin

Once that happens - the ex is old news, you two have each other.

He's already broken up with his gf in his mind, you're taking her place either way.



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Although i said sex is out of the table but, i've given him an amateur oral sex though. He wants to give me one too but i am too protective about my private part so i just give him other than that. He always compliments me on that and has once said i am good at it. And i am the first woman who ever do that to him. I can say it's quite true because he was already turned on when i just kiss his lips and the heat was on between us. I can say he really likes my body because sometimes I caught him staring at me not only the face?. Just that i feel bad about the other woman
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Posted by MsBonfire
Posted by Zulidayu
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by Zulidayu
Posted by TomSawyer
Whatever you're doing, it's working.

No reason to change tactics.

Not right now atleast.




So i just go with the flow? I mean is he falling in love with me but still in the mood of finding out. Since he already has a girlfriend. Once he did tell me that he doesn't care about who his gf's with. Even a boy friend. Aren't a virgo man getting jealous easily?
Yeah, go with the flow, you could spice it up a little bit if you want a faster result.

You two are practically together already.

He prolly won't fall in love with you until you have sex tho.

There's an old saying "Men find love through sex, women find sex through love"

Here's the formula:

1)She's gorgeous - X

2)She's got a good personality - X

3) I like her - X

4) She's girlfriend material - X

5) Sex - this will be the nail to the coffin

Once that happens - the ex is old news, you two have each other.

He's already broken up with his gf in his mind, you're taking her place either way.





Although i said sex is out of the table but, i've given him an amateur oral sex though. He wants to give me one too but i am too protective about my private part so i just give him other than that. He always compliments me on that and has once said i am good at it. And i am the first woman who ever do that to him. I can say it's quite true because he was already turned on when i just kiss his lips and the heat was on between us. I can say he really likes my body because sometimes I caught him staring at me not only the face?. Just that i feel bad about the other woman


Your private bits are not safe anymore...

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What do you mean? ?

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MissP
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Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by Zulidayu
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by Zulidayu
Posted by TomSawyer
Whatever you're doing, it's working.

No reason to change tactics.

Not right now atleast.


So i just go with the flow? I mean is he falling in love with me but still in the mood of finding out. Since he already has a girlfriend. Once he did tell me that he doesn't care about who his gf's with. Even a boy friend. Aren't a virgo man getting jealous easily?
Yeah, go with the flow, you could spice it up a little bit if you want a faster result.

You two are practically together already.

He prolly won't fall in love with you until you have sex tho.

There's an old saying "Men find love through sex, women find sex through love"

Here's the formula:

1)She's gorgeous - X

2)She's got a good personality - X

3) I like her - X

4) She's girlfriend material - X

5) Sex - this will be the nail to the coffin

Once that happens - the ex is old news, you two have each other.

He's already broken up with his gf in his mind, you're taking her place either way.





Although i said sex is out of the table but, i've given him an amateur oral sex though. He wants to give me one too but i am too protective about my private part so i just give him other than that. He always compliments me on that and has once said i am good at it. And i am the first woman who ever do that to him. I can say it's quite true because he was already turned on when i just kiss his lips and the heat was on between us. I can say he really likes my body because sometimes I caught him staring at me not only the face?. Just that i feel bad about the other woman


So he'll get access to the diamond cave after marriage?

I can't see how that can go wrong.

Here's the thing.

If you've never had sex, you don't know what you're missing and most likely will be thinking "wtf was I waiting around for so long..."

After the first 2-3 times, you won't be able to get enough of it (The older, the worse it gets).

Now, here's where it can get tricky.

With some dudes, it's like this : If you're not giving it up, someone else is (There's alot of good little sluts out there)

It's just a matter of time when a guy gets frustrated and says fuck it - "the chase isn't worth the catch", goes empty his sack in another chick and you're history.

Good thing you're giving him bj's tho, for now it might do, in the long run - I doubt it.

Okay, nothing wrong with feeling sorry for a person.

Know this tho, she's in that position for a reason,

but keep this in mind : Men don't really need women for anything.

It's nice to have one around but that's as deep as it gets.

Unless you're a feminine male, then it's a different story.

So even if he ends up breaking up with his "gf" and you're still not giving it up, he can easily be single and just go around town spreading his seed.

Prioritize everything and you should be good.





Last night, i was taking him out to a movie and dinner as he is not feeling well but wanted those. Usually, he will come to my house to pick me. Btw, we could not have romance as he got the flu ?. Too bad. I get your points. And you know what? He is kind of feminine guy. He is really sensitive. But the fact that he is the kind of walking around being single and not chasing any woman is true too. He is really stupid at chasing woman. Hahaha. He always confused by himself. He doesn't know what he wants in life most of the time. Really indecisive. This is something which he told me by himself. About the sex, hahahha he is still a virgin. Never had one. He doesn't know that much about sex. I can say i know better even though i never had one too. So sex is not the problem. It's his indecisiveness that makes me crazy. What he wants actually? If everything is okay with the gf what is he doing with me anyway? Let's talk about if he just messing around with me and eventually go with his gf, and what if the gf knows about our history, wouldn't that be unfair for her? He just can choose me or neither. ?







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