Help me with my Virgo woman love interest please :-(

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I read about Virgo women being attracted to scorpio men....but also Taurus men being great matches for them. I'm a Taurus sun/Scorpio Rising. Not that I expect instant attraction, drooling, or whatever but I try to look for anything in her actions that tip me off. We have a distance thing but its not a relationship. It's been more about building and establishing a foundation of trust because we do have some history.

With this said, she confuses me and I seriously don't know what to make of it. Leading up to last week, we'd talk a lot. Every day. But last week we spent the entire week conversing for hours, every day. The weather made it so she was at home for the entire week. So talked a lot....Staying up until 2-3am. It was honestly incredible. I view her as my dream girl and conversation with her just feels so natural. We talked about everything, some incredibly deep conversations at times. Laughed a lot. Things I've never had the comfort to talk to anyone else about but with her it just all came out. This past week, though, I didn't get anything. We texted twice all week. No video chatting or anything. Naturally, the taurus and scorpio in me(yikes) automatically thinks the worst and thinks that someone else has her attention, which if it is the case it would suck but it's fair. I mean she's quite literally the most gorgeous woman I think i've laid eyes on and we just vibe. But after spending what were tons of hours building as we did, why would she have just turned away in such a way?
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.

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Hmph. He’s not a noob, he’s in luvvvv (maybe idk) 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.

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yeah.

keep that negative shit on your side of the laptop. dont bother pressing "post message" again please and thanks.
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Don’t try to force things. I’d wait a little while and see if she reaches out. Or go with @Sierra_’s idea.
I can't lie....while I'd love to tell her how I feel about her, I innately feel like waiting. And if she is processing everything, I'd definitely not wanna feel like I'm forcing anything. I'm just kind of caught off-guard by the behavior.
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As a good rule of thumb, never give Virgos time to make up their minds. It will seldom go in your favor.

We need actions that shortcircuit us or we will talk ourselves out of absolutely anything.

Somewhere in this world there is a Virgo woman who never heard from her husband to be the night before the wedding so didn't attend the next day cuz she assumed it was called off.
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.


yeah.

keep that negative shit on your side of the laptop. dont bother pressing "post message" again please and thanks.
You’re the one writing walls of text because you have no game. So please, cry more. 🙌🏼

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I mean...the website is kind of built for this.....not moody, unhappy ass trolls. Please, project your pain more.
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.


yeah.

keep that negative shit on your side of the laptop. dont bother pressing "post message" again please and thanks.
You’re the one writing walls of text because you have no game. So please, cry more. 🙌🏼


I mean...the website is kind of built for this.....not moody, unhappy ass trolls. Please, project your pain more.
You’re the one that attacked me when I didn’t say a word to you. You’re projecting onto me because your Virgo is a difficulty for you. That’s why you’re here. You can’t get her so you made an account on a message board and are begging for scraps of advice. I was talking to sunsetvirgo and you decided to be a cunt. I wouldn’t have even opened this thread again if you had a brain one in your head to realize when someone is seeing themselves out of a thread. Dumbass.

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wait....i went from being called noob to being the aggressor? lol. please...tell me more.
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I mean if you want to give yourself time for this...that's good. But if it's for her? No. Be decisive and determined.
how's he gonna do that though if he's not ready?
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That's why I said if he waits for himself...that's good. He has to do what is most logical/comfortable for him.

Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.


yeah.

keep that negative shit on your side of the laptop. dont bother pressing "post message" again please and thanks.
You’re the one writing walls of text because you have no game. So please, cry more. 🙌🏼


I mean...the website is kind of built for this.....not moody, unhappy ass trolls. Please, project your pain more.
You’re the one that attacked me when I didn’t say a word to you. You’re projecting onto me because your Virgo is a difficulty for you. That’s why you’re here. You can’t get her so you made an account on a message board and are begging for scraps of advice. I was talking to sunsetvirgo and you decided to be a cunt. I wouldn’t have even opened this thread again if you had a brain one in your head to realize when someone is seeing themselves out of a thread. Dumbass.


wait....i went from being called noob to being the aggressor? lol. please...tell me more.

Lawl you got in your feelings cuz I called you a noob 😂😂😂

I call EVERYONE I have a fondness for a noob. I call my MOTHER a noob.

You know how I text my bff half the time when I wake up? “Good morning nublet 🙌🏼“

Just lmao.

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if this is how you want to justify it...
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.


yeah.

keep that negative shit on your side of the laptop. dont bother pressing "post message" again please and thanks.
You’re the one writing walls of text because you have no game. So please, cry more. 🙌🏼


I mean...the website is kind of built for this.....not moody, unhappy ass trolls. Please, project your pain more.
You’re the one that attacked me when I didn’t say a word to you. You’re projecting onto me because your Virgo is a difficulty for you. That’s why you’re here. You can’t get her so you made an account on a message board and are begging for scraps of advice. I was talking to sunsetvirgo and you decided to be a cunt. I wouldn’t have even opened this thread again if you had a brain one in your head to realize when someone is seeing themselves out of a thread. Dumbass.


wait....i went from being called noob to being the aggressor? lol. please...tell me more.

Lawl you got in your feelings cuz I called you a noob 😂😂😂

I call EVERYONE I have a fondness for a noob. I call my MOTHER a noob.

You know how I text my bff half the time when I wake up? “Good morning nublet 🙌🏼“

Just lmao.




if this is how you want to justify it...


You got insulted by something innocent. That’s not my fault. Honestly though you should work on your people skills if you’re gonna ask for help. I could’ve helped you and as a Taurus with a lot of Virgo experience I would’ve been better at it than 90% of the people posting in the thread.

Ask @Damnata how much Taurus experience she has for example.

The dynamic with Taurus AND Virgo is a thing of its own and unless you have experienced it long term you can’t really speak on it with any conviction.

I’ve had a Virgo in my life romantically speaking off and on from 19-32. I have more experience than most people on dxp with this coupling.

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I mean. Your actual fault is thinking everybody knows the intention behind a word that you used that is most commonly used with condescension. Even sunset had to clarify that I was no noob....you didn't correct her and tell her that you were being jovial. So I don't buy the posturing.

Also, don't tell me what you could have done. You simply could have just done it and I would have thanked you.
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.


yeah.

keep that negative shit on your side of the laptop. dont bother pressing "post message" again please and thanks.
You’re the one writing walls of text because you have no game. So please, cry more. 🙌🏼


I mean...the website is kind of built for this.....not moody, unhappy ass trolls. Please, project your pain more.
You’re the one that attacked me when I didn’t say a word to you. You’re projecting onto me because your Virgo is a difficulty for you. That’s why you’re here. You can’t get her so you made an account on a message board and are begging for scraps of advice. I was talking to sunsetvirgo and you decided to be a cunt. I wouldn’t have even opened this thread again if you had a brain one in your head to realize when someone is seeing themselves out of a thread. Dumbass.


wait....i went from being called noob to being the aggressor? lol. please...tell me more.

Lawl you got in your feelings cuz I called you a noob 😂😂😂

I call EVERYONE I have a fondness for a noob. I call my MOTHER a noob.

You know how I text my bff half the time when I wake up? “Good morning nublet 🙌🏼“

Just lmao.




if this is how you want to justify it...


You got insulted by something innocent. That’s not my fault. Honestly though you should work on your people skills if you’re gonna ask for help. I could’ve helped you and as a Taurus with a lot of Virgo experience I would’ve been better at it than 90% of the people posting in the thread.

Ask @Damnata how much Taurus experience she has for example.

The dynamic with Taurus AND Virgo is a thing of its own and unless you have experienced it long term you can’t really speak on it with any conviction.

I’ve had a Virgo in my life romantically speaking off and on from 19-32. I have more experience than most people on dxp with this coupling.

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Oh, I misread the title as "Help me with my Virgo woman". On a second note I see it was "Help me with my Taurus woman".

I'll let you take over from here.
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.


yeah.

keep that negative shit on your side of the laptop. dont bother pressing "post message" again please and thanks.
You’re the one writing walls of text because you have no game. So please, cry more. 🙌🏼


I mean...the website is kind of built for this.....not moody, unhappy ass trolls. Please, project your pain more.
You’re the one that attacked me when I didn’t say a word to you. You’re projecting onto me because your Virgo is a difficulty for you. That’s why you’re here. You can’t get her so you made an account on a message board and are begging for scraps of advice. I was talking to sunsetvirgo and you decided to be a cunt. I wouldn’t have even opened this thread again if you had a brain one in your head to realize when someone is seeing themselves out of a thread. Dumbass.


wait....i went from being called noob to being the aggressor? lol. please...tell me more.

Lawl you got in your feelings cuz I called you a noob 😂😂😂

I call EVERYONE I have a fondness for a noob. I call my MOTHER a noob.

You know how I text my bff half the time when I wake up? “Good morning nublet 🙌🏼“

Just lmao.




if this is how you want to justify it...


You got insulted by something innocent. That’s not my fault. Honestly though you should work on your people skills if you’re gonna ask for help. I could’ve helped you and as a Taurus with a lot of Virgo experience I would’ve been better at it than 90% of the people posting in the thread.

Ask @Damnata how much Taurus experience she has for example.

The dynamic with Taurus AND Virgo is a thing of its own and unless you have experienced it long term you can’t really speak on it with any conviction.

I’ve had a Virgo in my life romantically speaking off and on from 19-32. I have more experience than most people on dxp with this coupling.


I mean. Your actual fault is thinking everybody knows the intention behind a word that you used that is most commonly used with condescension. Even sunset had to clarify that I was no noob....you didn't correct her and tell her that you were being jovial. So I don't buy the posturing.

Also, don't tell me what you could have done. You simply could have just done it and I would have thanked you.
Uh I didn’t correct her cuz I wasn’t gonna be in this thread? Duh? Also I don’t give a flying fuck what you think. I know what I do and don’t do. Also if I was gonna insult you I wouldn’t be backtracking. I called you a cunt earlier. No apologies on that either.

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You're an incredibly unhappy person. Yikes.
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She may have been busy orrrr she’s scared of how it’s progressing so well with you and she needs time to think and analyze everything (how she feels, the outcome of moving forward etc).



@edgelord you know more about Taurus/Virgo than I do so
I’m too bitter and jaded to help with this kinda shit 🤔

I’m sure you’ll do a good job helping this noob with his problem.


yeah.

keep that negative shit on your side of the laptop. dont bother pressing "post message" again please and thanks.
You’re the one writing walls of text because you have no game. So please, cry more. 🙌🏼


I mean...the website is kind of built for this.....not moody, unhappy ass trolls. Please, project your pain more.
You’re the one that attacked me when I didn’t say a word to you. You’re projecting onto me because your Virgo is a difficulty for you. That’s why you’re here. You can’t get her so you made an account on a message board and are begging for scraps of advice. I was talking to sunsetvirgo and you decided to be a cunt. I wouldn’t have even opened this thread again if you had a brain one in your head to realize when someone is seeing themselves out of a thread. Dumbass.


wait....i went from being called noob to being the aggressor? lol. please...tell me more.

Lawl you got in your feelings cuz I called you a noob 😂😂😂

I call EVERYONE I have a fondness for a noob. I call my MOTHER a noob.

You know how I text my bff half the time when I wake up? “Good morning nublet 🙌🏼“

Just lmao.




if this is how you want to justify it...


You got insulted by something innocent. That’s not my fault. Honestly though you should work on your people skills if you’re gonna ask for help. I could’ve helped you and as a Taurus with a lot of Virgo experience I would’ve been better at it than 90% of the people posting in the thread.

Ask @Damnata how much Taurus experience she has for example.

The dynamic with Taurus AND Virgo is a thing of its own and unless you have experienced it long term you can’t really speak on it with any conviction.

I’ve had a Virgo in my life romantically speaking off and on from 19-32. I have more experience than most people on dxp with this coupling.


Oh, I misread the title as "Help me with my Virgo woman". On a second note I see it was "Help me with my Taurus woman".

I'll let you take over from here.
It’s about Taurus/Virgo. Aren’t 90% or your exes cardinal signs and the last I knew you were dating a Pisces.

Why do you think I got tagged on this thread despite not being a Virgo?

Because I’m just that nice?

No. My experience.

Anyway I am not arguing with anyone any further. Y’all have a nice thread. 🙌🏼
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You got tagged cuz sunsetvirgo erroneously believed you have smthg else to share other than bitterness and "I know Virgos better than Virgos know themselves lmao" attitude.

Rabbit has been married to one for almost two decades and doesn't act like this.

So yeah, bye.
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@sierra_ & @damnata

i definitely don't feel ready to just make a move because so much just seems so unsure but I do understand that time is of the essence.
Don’t waste your time you’ll prolong the mind fkery

Virgo need adulation and have chronic daddy issues. You’re magnetised to that?
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she actually loves her dad but i see what you mean hahaha. thing is with this particular woman, she's feisty in general and I love it. part of me honestly believes if i pull back, myself, she'll want to know why. i mentioned us having history before, she's done this before but we didnt actually converse on this level before so things have sort of changed a bit. I dont necessarily feel comfortable putting the ball in her court...but that could be the taurus/scorpio in me talking
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
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We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
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So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
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I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

Disclaimer: Bitchy Virgos exist and she might be one of them who clued into your interest and will take you for a ride. Better to rule this out by confronting her. We can't dodge you on a direct question. Doesn't have to be some super serious moment but something that is CLEAR. For example if you tell her on Valentine's that you wish you were there and you'd have spent the day together, she will figure that out.
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

Disclaimer: Bitchy Virgos exist and she might be one of them who clued into your interest and will take you for a ride. Better to rule this out by confronting her. We can't dodge you on a direct question. Doesn't have to be some super serious moment but something that is CLEAR. For example if you tell her on Valentine's that you wish you were there and you'd have spent the day together, she will figure that out.
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I actually just took your advice and just asked her what the deal is. Depending on how this goes, I'll tell her how I feel.
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

Disclaimer: Bitchy Virgos exist and she might be one of them who clued into your interest and will take you for a ride. Better to rule this out by confronting her. We can't dodge you on a direct question. Doesn't have to be some super serious moment but something that is CLEAR. For example if you tell her on Valentine's that you wish you were there and you'd have spent the day together, she will figure that out.
I actually just took your advice and just asked her what the deal is. Depending on how this goes, I'll tell her how I feel.
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So you didn't put yourself out there, just asked her about what she thinks/feels. She'll be evasive.

Either way her behavior after will tell you everything. She'll come closer or back away.

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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

Disclaimer: Bitchy Virgos exist and she might be one of them who clued into your interest and will take you for a ride. Better to rule this out by confronting her. We can't dodge you on a direct question. Doesn't have to be some super serious moment but something that is CLEAR. For example if you tell her on Valentine's that you wish you were there and you'd have spent the day together, she will figure that out.
I actually just took your advice and just asked her what the deal is. Depending on how this goes, I'll tell her how I feel.
So you didn't put yourself out there, just asked her about what she thinks/feels. She'll be evasive.

Either way her behavior after will tell you everything. She'll come closer or back away.

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No I didn't put myself out there. I asked her if everything was OK. Told her that we'd spent so much time building and that she felt distant and wanted to know if things were good. She actually got snappy and I dont even know how to respond to it.
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I'm experiencing my first Taurus connection!! It just feels amazing

It's crazy because we're going thru the same thing.. Like we can be on the phone for hours all week and today I just didn't wanna speak....

I'm kinda going thru a rough patch in my life right now.. sometimes I just need to hear my own thoughts.. I really appreciate him being there.. when he tells me everything is gonna be ok and not to think negative, it sounds believable and I'm not offended lol. As if this was any other sign I'm like shutup... Lol

His words are so soothing..

As of right now, I have 5 unread text messages from him. I know if I respond, he's gonna call and then we'll be on the phone for 5hrs..

Just not today.. definitely tomorrow lol

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I'm experiencing my first Taurus connection!! It just feels amazing

It's crazy because we're going thru the same thing.. Like we can be on the phone for hours all week and today I just didn't wanna speak....

I'm kinda going thru a rough patch in my life right now.. sometimes I just need to hear my own thoughts.. I really appreciate him being there.. when he tells me everything is gonna be ok and not to think negative, it sounds believable and I'm not offended lol. As if this was any other sign I'm like shutup... Lol

His words are so soothing..

As of right now, I have 5 unread text messages from him. I know if I respond, he's gonna call and then we'll be on the phone for 5hrs..

Just not today.. definitely tomorrow lol




whats crazy is, when her and I talk about her goals and such, i try to be as encouraging and supportive as possible. even telling her to envision her success and go after it. i've never even talked like this to anybody. The silence and inconsistency makes me want to just leave her alone for an extended period of time though. I swear its the taurus/scorpio in me though.
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Well then... Lol



I'm experiencing my first Taurus connection!! It just feels amazing

It's crazy because we're going thru the same thing.. Like we can be on the phone for hours all week and today I just didn't wanna speak....

I'm kinda going thru a rough patch in my life right now.. sometimes I just need to hear my own thoughts.. I really appreciate him being there.. when he tells me everything is gonna be ok and not to think negative, it sounds believable and I'm not offended lol. As if this was any other sign I'm like shutup... Lol

His words are so soothing..

As of right now, I have 5 unread text messages from him. I know if I respond, he's gonna call and then we'll be on the phone for 5hrs..

Just not today.. definitely tomorrow lol




whats crazy is, when her and I talk about her goals and such, i try to be as encouraging and supportive as possible. even telling her to envision her success and go after it. i've never even talked like this to anybody. The silence and inconsistency makes me want to just leave her alone for an extended period of time though. I swear its the taurus/scorpio in me though.
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I completely understand

Virgo sometimes lose people because of stuff like this..

She's probably analyzing everything. Like why is this guy so nice and supportive.. what's wrong with him... Lol

I know it's weird. But if she likes you, she'll definitely come back around. Keep supporting her!
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

Disclaimer: Bitchy Virgos exist and she might be one of them who clued into your interest and will take you for a ride. Better to rule this out by confronting her. We can't dodge you on a direct question. Doesn't have to be some super serious moment but something that is CLEAR. For example if you tell her on Valentine's that you wish you were there and you'd have spent the day together, she will figure that out.
I actually just took your advice and just asked her what the deal is. Depending on how this goes, I'll tell her how I feel.
So you didn't put yourself out there, just asked her about what she thinks/feels. She'll be evasive.

Either way her behavior after will tell you everything. She'll come closer or back away.


No I didn't put myself out there. I asked her if everything was OK. Told her that we'd spent so much time building and that she felt distant and wanted to know if things were good. She actually got snappy and I dont even know how to respond to it.
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How did she get snappy? Unless it was a hard day at work or anything I feel she might be a bit of a control freak?

Yeah, pull back a bit. Not for the vengeful scorpio/taurus part but moreso cuz you don't need the headache. People need to meet somewhere in the middle. Especially if you feel you invested more.

I'm flaky too but once we start talking and I like you I am more consistent than flaky. I wouldn't vanish for days at a time so idk.
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

Disclaimer: Bitchy Virgos exist and she might be one of them who clued into your interest and will take you for a ride. Better to rule this out by confronting her. We can't dodge you on a direct question. Doesn't have to be some super serious moment but something that is CLEAR. For example if you tell her on Valentine's that you wish you were there and you'd have spent the day together, she will figure that out.
I actually just took your advice and just asked her what the deal is. Depending on how this goes, I'll tell her how I feel.
So you didn't put yourself out there, just asked her about what she thinks/feels. She'll be evasive.

Either way her behavior after will tell you everything. She'll come closer or back away.


No I didn't put myself out there. I asked her if everything was OK. Told her that we'd spent so much time building and that she felt distant and wanted to know if things were good. She actually got snappy and I dont even know how to respond to it.
How did she get snappy? Unless it was a hard day at work or anything I feel she might be a bit of a control freak?

Yeah, pull back a bit. Not for the vengeful scorpio/taurus part but moreso cuz you don't need the headache. People need to meet somewhere in the middle. Especially if you feel you invested more.

I'm flaky too but once we start talking and I like you I am more consistent than flaky. I wouldn't vanish for days at a time so idk.
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Lol yeah im telling you its confusing. We've talked twice this week, briefly. She said that we'd spoken all week and asked if had occurred to me that maybe she may have been busy or out. I didn't even respond. I felt that she was putting in effort to invest during that week where we spent hours talking. But now I'm questioning the motives behind it.
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

Disclaimer: Bitchy Virgos exist and she might be one of them who clued into your interest and will take you for a ride. Better to rule this out by confronting her. We can't dodge you on a direct question. Doesn't have to be some super serious moment but something that is CLEAR. For example if you tell her on Valentine's that you wish you were there and you'd have spent the day together, she will figure that out.
I actually just took your advice and just asked her what the deal is. Depending on how this goes, I'll tell her how I feel.
So you didn't put yourself out there, just asked her about what she thinks/feels. She'll be evasive.

Either way her behavior after will tell you everything. She'll come closer or back away.


No I didn't put myself out there. I asked her if everything was OK. Told her that we'd spent so much time building and that she felt distant and wanted to know if things were good. She actually got snappy and I dont even know how to respond to it.
How did she get snappy? Unless it was a hard day at work or anything I feel she might be a bit of a control freak?

Yeah, pull back a bit. Not for the vengeful scorpio/taurus part but moreso cuz you don't need the headache. People need to meet somewhere in the middle. Especially if you feel you invested more.

I'm flaky too but once we start talking and I like you I am more consistent than flaky. I wouldn't vanish for days at a time so idk.
Lol yeah im telling you its confusing. We've talked twice this week, briefly. She said that we'd spoken all week and asked if had occurred to me that maybe she may have been busy or out. I didn't even respond. I felt that she was putting in effort to invest during that week where we spent hours talking. But now I'm questioning the motives behind it.
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If I spoke briefly to someone twice...that does not make a full week of nonstop talking and if they said that to me I'd be put off cuz why are you exaggerating so much. Wouldn't think they had an agenda at all, just dramatic flair. How does her chart look like? Does she have Leo placements?

I snap quickly if I feel I am getting guilt tripped but you say you didn't do it so yeah idk. Some of us have the emotional awareness of a spoon.
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Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

Disclaimer: Bitchy Virgos exist and she might be one of them who clued into your interest and will take you for a ride. Better to rule this out by confronting her. We can't dodge you on a direct question. Doesn't have to be some super serious moment but something that is CLEAR. For example if you tell her on Valentine's that you wish you were there and you'd have spent the day together, she will figure that out.
I actually just took your advice and just asked her what the deal is. Depending on how this goes, I'll tell her how I feel.
So you didn't put yourself out there, just asked her about what she thinks/feels. She'll be evasive.

Either way her behavior after will tell you everything. She'll come closer or back away.


No I didn't put myself out there. I asked her if everything was OK. Told her that we'd spent so much time building and that she felt distant and wanted to know if things were good. She actually got snappy and I dont even know how to respond to it.
How did she get snappy? Unless it was a hard day at work or anything I feel she might be a bit of a control freak?

Yeah, pull back a bit. Not for the vengeful scorpio/taurus part but moreso cuz you don't need the headache. People need to meet somewhere in the middle. Especially if you feel you invested more.

I'm flaky too but once we start talking and I like you I am more consistent than flaky. I wouldn't vanish for days at a time so idk.
Lol yeah im telling you its confusing. We've talked twice this week, briefly. She said that we'd spoken all week and asked if had occurred to me that maybe she may have been busy or out. I didn't even respond. I felt that she was putting in effort to invest during that week where we spent hours talking. But now I'm questioning the motives behind it.
If I spoke briefly to someone twice...that does not make a full week of nonstop talking and if they said that to me I'd be put off cuz why are you exaggerating so much. Wouldn't think they had an agenda at all, just dramatic flair. How does her chart look like? Does she have Leo placements?

I snap quickly if I feel I am getting guilt tripped but you say you didn't do it so yeah idk. Some of us have the emotional awareness of a spoon.
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As far as I know, Virgo Sun/Taurus Asc/Capricorn Moon/Virgo Mercury/Virgo Mars/Venus Leo. I don't think is super accurate though. I don't know her time of birth obviously lol.
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I'm experiencing my first Taurus connection!! It just feels amazing

It's crazy because we're going thru the same thing.. Like we can be on the phone for hours all week and today I just didn't wanna speak....

I'm kinda going thru a rough patch in my life right now.. sometimes I just need to hear my own thoughts.. I really appreciate him being there.. when he tells me everything is gonna be ok and not to think negative, it sounds believable and I'm not offended lol. As if this was any other sign I'm like shutup... Lol

His words are so soothing..

As of right now, I have 5 unread text messages from him. I know if I respond, he's gonna call and then we'll be on the phone for 5hrs..

Just not today.. definitely tomorrow lol




whats crazy is, when her and I talk about her goals and such, i try to be as encouraging and supportive as possible. even telling her to envision her success and go after it. i've never even talked like this to anybody. The silence and inconsistency makes me want to just leave her alone for an extended period of time though. I swear its the taurus/scorpio in me though.
You are making her feel insecure instead of accepting her and her life as she is, and it's making her not want to spend time with you.

She might not be the most ambitious in life or her kind of success is just to be happy ....and you seeing this as a flaw might make her feel bad ...

I don't think it's a scorpio taurus trait tho..most just accept peeps they like as they are...

Success looks diff to everyone...

You never know what someone is going thro...so i just take people as I find them If i like them then i take into consideration there own evaluation of themselves...and let them keep that.
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No she's ambitious. I've explicitly asked her what her dreams, goals, and aspirations were and they were quite lofty. Way off base.

we also share some of the same visions of success. down to the cars we wanna own.

with that said, I agree that you never know what someone is going through. Being snappy to someone being supportive to you isn't necessarily a way to show them what's what.
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Well then... Lol



I'm experiencing my first Taurus connection!! It just feels amazing

It's crazy because we're going thru the same thing.. Like we can be on the phone for hours all week and today I just didn't wanna speak....

I'm kinda going thru a rough patch in my life right now.. sometimes I just need to hear my own thoughts.. I really appreciate him being there.. when he tells me everything is gonna be ok and not to think negative, it sounds believable and I'm not offended lol. As if this was any other sign I'm like shutup... Lol

His words are so soothing..

As of right now, I have 5 unread text messages from him. I know if I respond, he's gonna call and then we'll be on the phone for 5hrs..

Just not today.. definitely tomorrow lol




whats crazy is, when her and I talk about her goals and such, i try to be as encouraging and supportive as possible. even telling her to envision her success and go after it. i've never even talked like this to anybody. The silence and inconsistency makes me want to just leave her alone for an extended period of time though. I swear its the taurus/scorpio in me though.
You are making her feel insecure instead of accepting her and her life as she is, and it's making her not want to spend time with you.

She might not be the most ambitious in life or her kind of success is just to be happy ....and you seeing this as a flaw might make her feel bad ...

I don't think it's a scorpio taurus trait tho..most just accept peeps they like as they are...

Success looks diff to everyone...

You never know what someone is going thro...so i just take people as I find them If i like them then i take into consideration there own evaluation of themselves...and let them keep that.
No she's ambitious. I've explicitly asked her what her dreams, goals, and aspirations were and they were quite lofty. Way off base.

with that said, I agree that you never know what someone is going through. Being snappy to someone being supportive to you isn't necessarily a way to show them what's what.
Maybe she didn't feel supported by the interaction. If it made her snappy ...it possibly didn't have the effect you intended. Whatever happened it wasn't a harmonious interaction.

Otherwise she was grumpy. Or something is going on.
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That's not it. We talked about them at length. Literally the 2 times we spoke this week, the brief convos started with something pointing towards her goals, to which my replies were both reassuring her that she'd reach them. So I don't know.
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Posted by Damnata
Was saying if he is waiting on her til he gets more clear signals...it's better not to wait.
So do Virgo women never give clear signals or do they just give up if they think their interest is not reciprocated?
We don't assume.

I know this is frustrating for men to deal with but to us it's disrespectful to assume that if a guy talks to us a lot he necessarily is into us. We get this mental image of a vain bitch. We also overthink a lot.

They'd also give up soon out of embarassment/shame. For me to hit on a guy who isn't into me is mortifying, not as a question of pride but..."what was I thinking? omg I insulted the poor man, I put him in an awkward position, fuck fuck fuck"

I thank the stars for the fire placements in my chart which help me with being proactive cuz otherwise..
So....me assuming that she should know that I like her is a no no, basically. I compliment her tons. I've not outright told her that I liked her but I thought that by the way I talked to her, flirted, complimented, etc. she'd get it? Like we were talking about her goals for the year, one of them was travel, so I was up thinking about her and looked into passport offices and such for her in her area. She asked why I sent it to her and I told her that i was thinking about her and she liked that. Would she not gather from all of this, how I feel?
I'll just go with the safe answer here and bet on "No".

Going by experiences in my life and other Virgo women I know.

We understand straight forward statements and/or physical moves. You mentioned distance so that removes the latter.

Just take care not to friendzone yourself here when out of the blue she goes "So this guy...". You'll think she is a bitch and she might not have a clue you were into her and be shocked at your reaction. People think we go mind games a lot but they are really playing themselves.

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