So guys if anyone knows virgo men well please help. In December I started talking to my virgo lover. Things went exceptionally well. He wooed me and made sure to see me frequently at times he knew i would get out of work just so he could drive me home. Eventually we kissed and I was in it fully. The sex was great, he's fun and knowledgeable of course which made him more desirable, and of course as a Pisces giver I just wanted to spoil him so i know for sure i went over the top to a point where he might have felt overwhelmed since it was all so fresh. Although we had great communication i began to noticed that he never really officially asked me out on a date even though he immediately started calling me his girlfriend. I loved his desire for me and it all seemed like a fantasy. Eventually he started to become aloof and in the beginning he would text me constantly, than things became dry. I started to feel like he was pushing me away and became insecure. I addressed him about it and he actually confessed to pushing me away. He said sometimes he gets to a place where he feels like he doesn't have the energy to invest in a significant other the way he should and he just needs time. he expressed how he needed to learn how to communicate better when that happens to him. I wanted to be understanding however i felt like i had already given him so much space and i took it as a breakup that he was to coward for. I asked him if there was someone else he said there wasn't. After that weeks had passed and id reach out every now and than but his responses would be so dry and one worded. Eventually i gave up and noticed on Instagram he would consistently like this one girls pictures. she was out of state so i didn't get too insecure about it but my intuition told me he was trying to get her attention and even might have. I noticed one night he liked a load of her old posts as if her were stalking her page at 6am. (talk about stalking, lol. I just need to know the truth about someone in order to really let them go. I'm hopeful always and so being an investigator really gives me the truth I need in order to move on fully) after a month an a half he messages me and tells me he misses me. Did not expects that at all .. i of course embraced it however after talking he tells me he had a wet dream about me and had been in a mood about it. SO now i'm thinking does he miss me or the sex?. low and behold i find out the same week he said he missed me the girl had traveled to come here and train with him. I noticed she didn't travel alone and was accompanied by male friends however it had me thinking...He saw her in person clearly connected with her because he likes EVERY SINGLE thing she posts (and not mines, not that that matters however patterns tell a story) however because he couldn't have her physically or emotionally during that time hes come back to me to fulfill his needs? I don't plan on giving it up to him so easy this time nor have i kissed him. at one point when i wanted to see him he asked me if it would be inappropriate to come over his house. I told him it WAS inappropriate but i really wanted to see him so i was willing to go. He replied and said in all honesty he felt like he was booty calling me and when i said it felt like that and instead ill wait, he agreed we should wait and I respected his honesty. I'm just so confused as to why he would come back. I feel like second best.
