So my ex and I have been broken up for a year and6 months now and I was making terrific progress throughout the time. She had found herself a new bf while her and I were talking about us. In short terms, she basically kept me as her 2nd option, and when she found the guy she wanted she tossed me away. Throughout the one year and 6 months we had been broken up she was going out with her new bf but replied to me when I wished her a happy new year. Then in the beginning of this year we started to slowly talk more and more until we finally met up in person. Well she had told me that she was still with her new bf so we agreed to not see each other. Then she contacted me layer and we met up, talked, and then she told me that this was the last time we were ever gonna talk or meet because she was gonna start a famity with her bf. I respectfully told her I accept her decision and just hugged her and left. Then recently, she called me from a private number (which is how she contacted me before). Funny enough though, I had been thinking about her too so I was kinda shocked when I picked up the phone and heard her on the other side. Well, again we met up and she basically told me she had NOBODY she can confine in, and that she had been dreaming about me, thinking about me, and that she would catch herself almost calling her bf by my name. We only got to talk seriously for like an hour but the matter at hand was that when I asked her why she called, she basically told me that she missed me, she realizes that she took me for granted and that she is tired of her relationship because her bf is an marker to her and never wants to do anything. But weirdly enough, she told me that even if she were to break up with her bf, that she wouldn't go back out with me. So I'm fairly confused how she can ell me that I'm always on her mind but that she's not willing to give us another shot. Can any Virgo women give me some insight. I've tried to contact her but she still has me blocked off every social media app and I don't remember her ##
Help this Gemini understand what my ex Virgo wants
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What do you mean by "cookie monster "
I'm just trying to figure out what game she's trying to play
What do you mean by "cookie monster "
I'm just trying to figure out what game she's trying to play
Virgo women are like their male counterparts in a lot of ways. They usually take advantage of the people in their life who decided to stick around. As long as you're still available when she contacts you, she'll always play this game.
She likes to manipulate you too, telling you she wouldn't go back but still reaches out to you, she keeps her new BF around but won't cut you off completely.
If she calls or texts again just tell her you don't want to be an option anymore, tell her to leave you alone and she'll be shocked
She likes to manipulate you too, telling you she wouldn't go back but still reaches out to you, she keeps her new BF around but won't cut you off completely.
If she calls or texts again just tell her you don't want to be an option anymore, tell her to leave you alone and she'll be shocked
I rely appreciate all your words of wisdom. Really made me thing this week since I saw her. No need to wsit any longer. I should've let go a long time ago because loving somebody unconditionally only gets you fucked over. I appreciate all your advice thank you

The way you've worded this, it sounds like you've spent the last year and half waiting with baited breath for whatever fate she decides upon.
@P-Angel
I'll be completely honest that I've tried my hardest to move on and I even found myself a new gf that had broken up with me due to her moving to Fresno, 2 days before my ex called me.
I was feeling slightly happier every passing day but the thought of her calling me and reading me thru some other form of social media just threw me off
I'll be completely honest that I've tried my hardest to move on and I even found myself a new gf that had broken up with me due to her moving to Fresno, 2 days before my ex called me.
I was feeling slightly happier every passing day but the thought of her calling me and reading me thru some other form of social media just threw me off
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