HELP.... What should I do?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Atalostforwords on Tuesday, October 31, 2006 and has 2 replies.

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@Atalostforwords
19 Years

Okay, I met a virgo man two weeks ago, as of today, and met him only once last week. We spend about three hours talking. In the last two weeks, he calls every day and more than five times a day. We live about 5 hours apart, in different states.

He is coming to see me on the weekend and has been talking about it for the last two weeks. We talked about going out of town, now I am having second thoughts (I am a pisces). I told him about my thoughts and that we have only known each other for two weeks and I did not think we should share a room. I volunteered to pay for my own room.

He said he was not going to do that. What do everyone think? I have only known him for two weeks and knows nothing about him other than what he tells me on the phone? HELP ME PLEASE.....

I would ask my friends but I did not want to tell them I met him on a dating website. :-)

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Oh boy....you expressed your feelings of feeling uncomfortable and volunteered to pay for your own room and he says, he is not going to do that?

Personally, that would scare the hee-bee-jee-bees outta me and I'd be seein' a RED FLAG waving in my eyes...no go for me!

Why? first of all, he did not honour my feelings
second, I do not know him.

Your instincts say get your own room, you feel uncomfortable with it - that is your best guide right there...trust it and listen to your inner being - it NEVER lies.

Trust yourself Lady

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@sophie68
20 Years500+ Posts

Agree with Freebird....if he has any respect for you...he would agree to a seperate room or no weekend at all. why would you want to spend a whole weekend w/ him anyways if you only have known him for 2 weeks? He could be a psycho! Please be careful and make the right decision for your own safety.