Out of all the guys I?ve dealt with (and yes I know quite a few LOL), these men have been the most subtle, sensible, and practical -- and if the virgo man is mature, it even harder for other signs to compete! There?s absolutely nothing superficial about them -- just because they like to dress well and/or have confidence doesn?t classify them as being shallow ? THEY ARE FAR FROM IT and they really have harsh words for those who they feel are flashy or flamboyant (well, in my experience anyway). They are indeed emotional men (contrary to popular belief) but it?s extremely difficult for them to show it because they don?t like losing control over themselves . Also, theie realistic approach to life makes the act of showing emotions even harder because they don?t want to believe that they are whining about the difficulties of today and tomorrow -- they see too much whining from others and they don?t want to put themselves in such a state.
From what I?ve seen, there are five men of the zodiac that don?t qualify as the best when it comes to being boyfriend material, but the came five men would make great husbands and fathers --- Virgos, cancers, Aquarius, Capricorns and Leos/ Scorpios (it?s a tie between the two). Virgo men are in front of cancer men for a very GOOD reason *** Although, a cancer man?s love can be very deep and enchanting, their moods can be took erratic with their mates at times, this can create utter turmoil for the one involved with him. Virgos are more reserved with their hearts because they are DON?T give of Eros love that easily -- hahaha, just because a women gives them ?booty? doesn?t guarantee Eros emotions (?booty? can only keep them around for so long until that THING starts to burn out) Plus, Virgo men are stable, they do like to argue but give them a good exchange and they won?t be as harsh next time π. No, they are not prince charmings (who wants him any way) but their subtle emotions can rival the passion of the infamous Taurus and Scorpios π Also, I can appreciate their realness because there are sooooo many people that put on false images -- if I?m real! Then I think it?s only far that my significant other is real too.
Yes, they do have a tendency to want "perfect" women -- this is there biggest flaw and part of the reason why many I still single in their forties?. BUT there are some women(and they will remain nameless, I?m far too diplomatic to start THIS kind of debate π) of the zodiac that have the same tendency t
BUT there are some women(and they will remain nameless, I?m far too diplomatic to start THIS kind of debate π) of the zodiac that have the same tendency to want ?perfect? men too, sooooo the ?pots can?t really call the kettles black? (LOL, I love that quote)
Recently, I reminisced about a friend guy friend (I was chatting with a friend and he just came to mind out of the blue β?) . Unlike my ex-Virgo, he didn?t have a temper, but he was HIGHLY intelligent and rather shy. After transferring from another school I belief I was the first person he spoke to ---- HAHAHA, there?s was just something about him ?. I just couldn?t live him alone for one second*** He and I studies together (we wouldn?t do any homework unless I pushed him -- he felt he was too smart for school LOL), I ate lunch with him and his other guy friends, we were each others confidents (we were sooo very close, and developed feeling along the way). However, his father thought I was a terrible influence on him for some ODD FREAKING reason ? hahaha and my father thought HE WAS A BAD INFLUENCE ON ME β?? In addition, he was shipped away somewhere up north immediately, so I never saw him again ~sign~ π’ But I remember the bond that we shared before things became sooooo weird!
Anywho, NO, this isn?t a suck up post (not by a long shot) before I left for work and class, I felt the need to EXPRESS MYSELF *** Just like any woman with meat on her bones and blood in her veins. True!!! You Virgo men are no picnics ? you are some harsh, lazy(in an unmotivated sense), and critical to a fault (HAHAHA the devil would run from your cynicism LOL!!) You are also some of the biggest talkers EVER (next to Taurus) and you refuse to back down from a challenge because you have sooooo much darn confidence in your on freaking abilities. DARN YOU VIRGOS! THIS IS WHY I THINK YOU ALL ARE SOOOOOOO ? WONDERFUL!
This post was created so I can express just how much I ADORE YOU . The world would not be intact with you. Now please, for the sake of this cappy? Take A Bow ππππππ
LOL, in conclusion I will sing to you to these wonderful virgo men
****clears throat ***** Here I go ......
"Take A Bow" (Madonna)
Take a bow, the night is over This masquerade is getting older Light are low, the curtains down Theres no one here [theres no one here, theres no one in the crowd] Say your lines but do you feel them Do you mean what you say when theres no one around [no one around] Watching you, watching me, one lonely star [one lonely star you dont know who you are]
Ive always been in love with you [always with you] I guess youve always known its true [you know its true] You took my love for granted, why oh why The show is over, say good-bye
Say good-bye [bye bye], say good-bye
Make them laugh, it comes so easy When you get to the part Where youre breaking my heart [breaking my heart] Hide behind your smile, all the world loves a clown [just make em smile the whole world loves a clown] Wish you well, I cannot stay You deserve an award for the role that you played [role that you played] No more masquerade, youre one lonely star [one lonely star and you dont know who you are]
Ive always been in love with you [always with you] ..... πππ
Hey Strings! I had Stats to do along with my job (well to try and comprend π), that's why I had to get off so quickly. Sense, I can't track down my professor ... looks like I'm going to have to figure out some stuff on my own DARN IT! Plus ... my 'zaniness' doesn't kick into high gear until the evening/ evening -- I'm all helpless and stupidified by then LOL!!! π
But I posted my these thoughts of mine really early because I just could hold them back ANY LONGER!!!! I told you, I'M AN EMOTIONAL WORMHOLE, I just couldn't help it -- as I get older I find the need to express my feelings more urgently!!! LOL (just kidding, I'm not bad). Three other factors propped this thread:
1. All the negative on virgo men just was getting too much for me (it was just as bad as thinking about that 'beloved' water sign I was having trouble with). I will not explain because I don't want any flames but virgo are not that complicatied once you figure them out (both the sensible ones and the asses!!!!), but you can't let them know you understand them ... they wouldn't know WHAT to do with you LOL Mystical and I can agree on this π
2. Thinking of my buddy I spoke about in the original post ...
3. At the time, I was listening to one of the most loveliest and SAPPIEST songs ever recorded ... BUT I COULDN'T GET OUT OF MY MIND, DARN IT ALL! It described the completed nature of a virgo man to a T!!! Along with the feelings of the female involved ... I never heard a song like it ... I still can't get out of my mind!!!!!
So there, for those of you who don't understand virgos ... YOU DON'T HAVE TO! There enough of us that do, and they are awesome ... just as long as you can argue with them π Oh yeah, and let them win every once and a while.
"May a wonderful Virgo man with the physical endowment of Atlas Himself rock thy world forever!"
LOL!!!!! Strings you are a MESS (that means really funny). Hmmm, Atlas .... oh my ... what if he damages an organ LOL!!!! You know I'm sensitive Strings *** wink ***wink ***
I think I should get a virgo man with the endowment of Mickey Mouse ... he'd be easier LOL!!!!!!! π J/K
Thank you very much for including me. Yeah, I totally agree with you. I learnt that the hard way but a lesson well worth learning. Virgo guy in my case has done a complete turn around so I've given up and will just let him think I'm not on to his game which I really am. I just won't let on and let him carry on the way he does since he has issues he has to deal with.
"Oh, are you kidding? If we don't win an argument, we never give up trying and it just makes us all the kinkier! Talk about having a lifelong Love Machine at your disposal!"
Ohhhh, that's good to know. No wonder my Ex became SOOOO sweet after I argued with him and LET him win **** giggles **** He fed me after our dispute LOL!!! That was really unexpected!!!! *** nearly fell on the floor at the time ****
That's good to know later on too .... THERE SOOOO SEXY WHEN THEIR MAD -- there's a song out right now about that -- it's called "When You're Mad" π I just heard it!
"Thank you very much for including me. Yeah, I totally agree with you."
You're welcome Mystical ^_^. We both had issues at the same time but mine just happened to come with a lovable little water sign -- LOL, maybe your virgo guy has plenty of water in his chart!
Dy:"Yes, we do get our Blood Up - just don't get us so worked up that we storm outta the House! - but, if you want us to drag you to the House from the Pool, just get us a little jealous.........."
OH HO, I need to get the virgo man jealous huhβ? LOL, Dy you deserve another bow my dear for giving me that cute little tip π JUST KIDDING π
I will never attempt to get a man's blood boiling using jealous ... that would probably put me in danger. I wouldn't want to deal with an angry virgo man -- I'm suppose to want him near me ... not away from me π
Of all the rising signs this can be the most difficult to 'know'. He keeps his friends at a distance and never reveals much of his needs or his true life to them. Scorpio rising tends to intensify the moon and sun sign energies but it also keeps them relatively distant from the surface. He has an unquenchable hunger to 'know' things but will never be overt in his investigations. He usually knows exactly what is going on in his world and with his friends and he has an uncanny way of knowing the truth in any given situation. He is generally quiet and doesn't like attention being drawn to him. His style of dress and personality will be muted versions of his deeper energies. He has an incredible fixed focus when he is interested in something and once attached will not veer from his goal. His outer temperament depends entirely on other chart indicators and can be deeply peaceful and understanding or volatile and explosive. Scorpio intensifies the extreme range of emotions and energies that are found within his sun, moon and other chart indicators. There is always a certain mystery about him and others can find him hard to get to know.
But under that veneer there is a great stability and usually an attachment to tradition and responsibility. He does not love easily but once attached he is loyal and faithful almost to a fault. His sexuality and sensuality tend to be earthy and encompassing and rarely ever truly exotic or kinky (although his personality and rising may insinuate that) He has an amazing reservoir of patience and tolerance for his partner and yet when pushed too far can show a flash of temper that brings everything quickly back into order. He does not forget...ever...but he can learn to forgive given time and sincerity. He likes feeling stable and will prefer a traditional arrangement with his mates. He cannot be forced into doing anything he does not want to do and is likely to need a certain material reality in place before he can truly enjoy his life partnerships
Sun in Virgo -- you already know about his sun sign π
Moon in Pisces (WELL HIS MOON EXPLAINS PLENTY ... VERY EMOTIONAL GUY)
The man with a Pisces moon has usually spent a great deal of time trying to adjust to his emotions and feelings. He is sympathetic and empathic, fluid and receptive and usually feels things on a far deeper level than his peers and counterparts. He experiences the world through the senses that are subsurface, etherea
Venus in Libra When your Venus is in Libra, you have an irresistibly pleasing romantic demeanor, no matter what you look like. The sign of Libra is intimately connected with partnerships, so you are particularly sensitive to the give-and-take associated with any kind of pairing that is one-on-one. You are a romantic, and will spend much of your attention and focus on relationships in your lifetime. You vibrate to the concept of harmony, and peace is your ultimate goal. However, along the road to that goal, you can certainly stir a pot or two!
You are a pleaser, that is for certain. In fact, because you are so sensitive to the needs of others, you may be accused of adapting your manner or even your personality to "suit" the object of your affection! The truth is, you can easily lose your identity in partnership because of your natural ability to see things from your partner's point of view. Libra is the sign of balance, and in your attempts to keep the scales balanced, you may wear your partner down by a natural tendency to "keep scores". You should watch out that you don't give away power to your partner, and then resent your feeling of powerlessness.
You view partnerships as fundamental to a fulfilled existence, and you work hard at supporting your partner's individuality. Togetherness is so extraordinarily important to you that your partner might find you quite dependent, and even clingy. In most cases, however, your deep need for togetherness makes you an exceptionally companionable person. You redefine the word "charming", and you are an expert at smoothing ruffled feathers. Compromise comes easy to you, and your ideal partner will appreciate your willingness to consider his or her needs and wants.
Mars in Libra The man with his mars in Libra often finds it difficult to know what he wants to go after and even when he has solid ideals and goals he can have trouble orienting the energies necessary to reaching them. Ultimately fairness, equality and balance will push him forward..but only after the scales have become so tilted that he is forced into action.
He tends to go along with things which does not make him an active go-getter. He may find it difficult to express his true feelings but don't ever doubt that he does have them. Libra is an air sign and is intellectually oriented and he is usually in touch with what he 'really' feels but hesitant about the proper methods to express those feelings. He would rather that life and goals unf
CB:"YesM HA HA HA...and "Take a Bow", was what I sang to my X lying, cheating, control freak x virgo bf..
Take a bow, the night is over, this masquereade is getting older, ..... say your lines, do you feel them, do you mean what you say, when theres noone around, watching you watching me, one lonely star....)and the best...
THE SHOW IS OVER SAY GOOD BYE >>VIRGO>>>...By all means... Take a freakin bow!"
Actually, I choose this song because it's soooooo beautiful but melancholy at the some time. That's the way my friendship felt with my virgo buddy because I had developed feelings for him. If crtain things didn't interfer, things would have been much better but .... Vurgos, they are so GOOD with that subtle persona of there's ... that's why it hurts sooo much when everything's over, but that's why we are strong human beings and we move on π
So you like the song too, you have good taste π
"Why Oh my God regarding Ascendant in Scorpio? Is that a problem?" Oh sorry, some involvement with a scorpio and just felt the need to say "OMG" regarding them π
I agree with you. I was completely shocked to see his Ascendant in Scorpio. Nothing against Scorpios (my grandma is one) but I don't get along well with Scorpios at all. I'm far too much of a social butterfly for their liking and what ever. Thank you very much for finding the information. His Ascendant in Scorpio fits HIM perfectly. When the Virgo guy in my case loves he LOVES.
Yes, I understand now how this Virgo guy ticks a bit better. He never forgets anybody or anything. Never thought I would encounter a guy that remembers everything. Seems like he'll be around for a long time to come. Wonder how I'll handle it though. Time will tell.
"Seems like he'll be around for a long time to come. Wonder how I'll handle it though. Time will tell."
Until he gets more stable in your life, put down boundraies and stick to them. If you act like those other women then .... HE WON'T LEARN HOW TO BE A MAN! Remember what I said before, somebody's got to teach these dudes something or else ... they won't learn nothing LOL!!! Maybe one day (after he's gotten his act together) you can tell him to come to DXP and "Take A Bow" π
Speaking of that, there's a few more virgos that need to do some bowing here ... we all know who they are π Maybe they feel unworthy βββ? I hope not!
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