How are other signs supposed to handle the criticism you dish out?

Posted by SoftMachine

He'll hit you with the

'I'm better at life than you.'

Posted by saggurl88

Ugh! I need help lol. We get along really great except for this small area. I don’t want to have to be a shithead back lol. I can be, but I’m trying to find the work around first before I go into “no fuccs given” mode lol

I sent him a link to something that someone did well and told him I’m going to practice this to improve my skills and he added a “while you at it, work on this as well” 🙄😒. WTF. lol

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He must really like you!

We usually criticize when we like/love/ care about someone...we don't do it to be mean or annoying. If he not criticizing...then it's time to worry because basically he's given up on the situation.

I would either ignore him and do what you want or just talk to him about it. He may not even be aware that he's doing it since its so natural for us to do so lol.

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Posted by saggurl88

Ugh! I need help lol. We get along really great except for this small area. I don’t want to have to be a shithead back lol. I can be, but I’m trying to find the work around first before I go into “no fuccs given” mode lol

I sent him a link to something that someone did well and told him I’m going to practice this to improve my skills and he added a “while you at it, work on this as well” 🙄😒. WTF. lol

Just let him have it. He’ll probably have something to say about that too.. hopefully it nips it in the bud. I would be annoyed too!

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by saggurl88

Ugh! I need help lol. We get along really great except for this small area. I don’t want to have to be a shithead back lol. I can be, but I’m trying to find the work around first before I go into “no fuccs given” mode lol

I sent him a link to something that someone did well and told him I’m going to practice this to improve my skills and he added a “while you at it, work on this as well” 🙄😒. WTF. lol

😂😂.

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Posted by -MadHatter-

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He must really like you!

We usually criticize when we like/love/ care about someone...we don't do it to be mean or annoying. If he not criticizing...then it's time to worry because basically he's given up on the situation.

I would either ignore him and do what you want or just talk to him about it. He may not even be aware that he's doing it since its so natural for us to do so lol.

I don’t even know how to approach the subject. I’m gonna end up blowing up on him. 😩😬

I don’t understand why he has to talk to me about improving myself. I’m fine with how I am! I am quiet and do try to ignore him but my passive aggressive side comes out and I start being petty.

I sent a text to him and said I had a great time with him and that he’s a cool person and he’s starting to be one of my favorite things in my life.

You know what he sent me? A meme that said “Friend of the year” so I sent another text telling him “Good thing the year is almost up!” Smh. The the next morning I got a “Good Morning, baby” text. 😏

Haha! He's trolling you

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He must really like you!

We usually criticize when we like/love/ care about someone...we don't do it to be mean or annoying. If he not criticizing...then it's time to worry because basically he's given up on the situation.

I would either ignore him and do what you want or just talk to him about it. He may not even be aware that he's doing it since its so natural for us to do so lol.

I don’t even know how to approach the subject. I’m gonna end up blowing up on him. 😩😬

I don’t understand why he has to talk to me about improving myself. I’m fine with how I am! I am quiet and do try to ignore him but my passive aggressive side comes out and I start being petty.

I sent a text to him and said I had a great time with him and that he’s a cool person and he’s starting to be one of my favorite things in my life.

You know what he sent me? A meme that said “Friend of the year” so I sent another text telling him “Good thing the year is almost up!” Smh. The the next morning I got a “Good Morning, baby” text. 😏

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by saggurl88

Ugh! I need help lol. We get along really great except for this small area. I don’t want to have to be a shithead back lol. I can be, but I’m trying to find the work around first before I go into “no fuccs given” mode lol

I sent him a link to something that someone did well and told him I’m going to practice this to improve my skills and he added a “while you at it, work on this as well” 🙄😒. WTF. lol

😂😂.

Laugh at my pain, why don’t you!!! Lol.

Seriously though. What do you as a Virgo expect as a response? Have you ever dated another Virgo?

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Posted by -MadHatter-

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He must really like you!

We usually criticize when we like/love/ care about someone...we don't do it to be mean or annoying. If he not criticizing...then it's time to worry because basically he's given up on the situation.

I would either ignore him and do what you want or just talk to him about it. He may not even be aware that he's doing it since its so natural for us to do so lol.

I don’t even know how to approach the subject. I’m gonna end up blowing up on him. 😩😬

I don’t understand why he has to talk to me about improving myself. I’m fine with how I am! I am quiet and do try to ignore him but my passive aggressive side comes out and I start being petty.

I sent a text to him and said I had a great time with him and that he’s a cool person and he’s starting to be one of my favorite things in my life.

You know what he sent me? A meme that said “Friend of the year” so I sent another text telling him “Good thing the year is almost up!” Smh. The the next morning I got a “Good Morning, baby” text. 😏

😂😂. We are something else. Smh.

Remember we deal with logic...so approach him in a logical manner and just be honest on how it's making you feel. Don't blow up at him though...just come at him calmly and rationally...so he gets it and sees your side. If you blow up at him...he gonna think you are way to over emotional to deal with. Stupid...but it is the way it is.

I disagree.. she needs to hit him back with some sarcastic shit that puts him in his place.... followed by a hysterical STFU!

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Posted by -MadHatter-

You cant criticize a critic... it's a double negative. He'll criticize the way you criticize him, and lead you down that critical rabbit hole.

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Posted by LadyNeptune

Honestly if this is your first few dates with this dude then this kinda controlling commentary on what to wear and how to dress is a huge red flag. Ime it points to a controlling abusive pattern that’s only gonna get worse with time.

I agree.

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Posted by -MadHatter-

You cant criticize a critic... it's a double negative. He'll criticize the way you criticize him, and lead you down that critical rabbit hole.

Posted by Lionheart917

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He must really like you!

We usually criticize when we like/love/ care about someone...we don't do it to be mean or annoying. If he not criticizing...then it's time to worry because basically he's given up on the situation.

I would either ignore him and do what you want or just talk to him about it. He may not even be aware that he's doing it since its so natural for us to do so lol.

I don’t even know how to approach the subject. I’m gonna end up blowing up on him. 😩😬

I don’t understand why he has to talk to me about improving myself. I’m fine with how I am! I am quiet and do try to ignore him but my passive aggressive side comes out and I start being petty.

I sent a text to him and said I had a great time with him and that he’s a cool person and he’s starting to be one of my favorite things in my life.

You know what he sent me? A meme that said “Friend of the year” so I sent another text telling him “Good thing the year is almost up!” Smh. The the next morning I got a “Good Morning, baby” text. 😏

Lol you will end up cursing 🤬 his ass one way or the other. One thing sags hate most is negativity and also being told what to do.

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Posted by MademoiselleFisk

he's doing it on purpose knowing it's driving you nuts.

Posted by LadyNeptune

It’s simple really.

Next time he makes a comment on what your wearing smile sweetly and say, sure babe give me your cc and I’ll run out rn and get it.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Honestly if this is your first few dates with this dude then this kinda controlling commentary on what to wear and how to dress is a huge red flag. Ime it points to a controlling abusive pattern that’s only gonna get worse with time.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by -MadHatter-

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He must really like you!

We usually criticize when we like/love/ care about someone...we don't do it to be mean or annoying. If he not criticizing...then it's time to worry because basically he's given up on the situation.

I would either ignore him and do what you want or just talk to him about it. He may not even be aware that he's doing it since its so natural for us to do so lol.

I don’t even know how to approach the subject. I’m gonna end up blowing up on him. 😩😬

I don’t understand why he has to talk to me about improving myself. I’m fine with how I am! I am quiet and do try to ignore him but my passive aggressive side comes out and I start being petty.

I sent a text to him and said I had a great time with him and that he’s a cool person and he’s starting to be one of my favorite things in my life.

You know what he sent me? A meme that said “Friend of the year” so I sent another text telling him “Good thing the year is almost up!” Smh. The the next morning I got a “Good Morning, baby” text. 😏

😂😂. We are something else. Smh.

Remember we deal with logic...so approach him in a logical manner and just be honest on how it's making you feel. Don't blow up at him though...just come at him calmly and rationally...so he gets it and sees your side. If you blow up at him...he gonna think you are way to over emotional to deal with. Stupid...but it is the way it is.

I disagree.. she needs to hit him back with some sarcastic shit that puts him in his place.... followed by a hysterical STFU!

Sarcastic I can agree with but being over emotional about it will just cause him to walk away....in his eyes he's really doing nothing wrong and will think she is over reacting over nothing.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Posted by LadyNeptune

Honestly if this is your first few dates with this dude then this kinda controlling commentary on what to wear and how to dress is a huge red flag. Ime it points to a controlling abusive pattern that’s only gonna get worse with time.

I agree.

I once went on a first date with this dude. Under 60 degrees outside, winter, and venue was outside.

He made sure to tell me that he prefers girls to wear dresses, not jeans and jackets. And if there is a second date he needs me to wear a dress.

Cool story bro 🙄🙄

Do you also like to jerk off alone? Cause your gonna be doing more of that tonight.

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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

Everytime he starts criticising you, make a face like you’re about to throw up and add in some gagging noises. When he asks you what’s wrong say something like “Oh nothing, it’s just your breathe isn’t the best. Don’t worry though, I’m used to it. Anyway, continue with what you were gonna say”.

And if/when he continues, keep making the face and gagging noises.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

Everytime he starts criticising you, make a face like you’re about to throw up and add in some gagging noises. When he asks you what’s wrong say something like “Oh nothing, it’s just your breathe isn’t the best. Don’t worry though, I’m used to it. Anyway, continue with what you were gonna say”.

And if/when he continues, keep making the face and gagging noises.

I agree with this.

Or shoot him.

whichever works.

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

Everytime he starts criticising you, make a face like you’re about to throw up and add in some gagging noises. When he asks you what’s wrong say something like “Oh nothing, it’s just your breathe isn’t the best. Don’t worry though, I’m used to it. Anyway, continue with what you were gonna say”.

And if/when he continues, keep making the face and gagging noises.

I agree with this.

Or shoot him.

whichever works.

I would never be able to be this mean lol Even if it is funny

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Posted by MademoiselleFisk

Don't blow up. Take one good, sarcastic and condescending stab at him... either he'll think you're a bitch and run the other way... or start to fall for you, lol.

This is how some men flirt, btw.

Posted by virgoth

sadly, it truly is because he cares I suggest being blunt with him in return

two things can happen: 1. he will appreciate it and have a new found respect for you 2. he will stop criticizing you in hopes that you stop it as well

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Honestly if this is your first few dates with this dude then this kinda controlling commentary on what to wear and how to dress is a huge red flag. Ime it points to a controlling abusive pattern that’s only gonna get worse with time.

Honestly, those were just examples. He's criticizes my personality and the way I talk to him lol That's even worse lol

It will work itself out one way or another, either we will work or we won't, either way it will get figured out fairly quickly 😄

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Posted by saggurl88

Hello! 🙂

I'm not trying to rag on you guys but I'm really just wondering how you expect someone to act when a Virgo criticizes. I'm currently dating a Virgo male and we get along great, except for when he has some snide remark about things that I do, or wear, really it could be anything. It's really off putting.

He says Sag women are his kryptonite but they ghost him a lot. I can see why 😢 We don't really like negativity and a lot of what he says is negative. I actually want to be blunt right back and tell him to stop doing this so much but I don't know how to approach the situation.

Do you Virgos date each other? Is it just a big criticizing fest? What exactly are you expecting the other person to say?

I'm not trying to rag on you guys but I would just like to be able to handle the situation better. He let's me in on a lot that could be improved, without me asking. It has to do with my personality, the way I handle situations, really just a form of not accepting my personality and trying to build a different person. I don't see the point to it. If I accept him, I feel he should accept me.

I could be wearing thin socks and he would tell me the next time I buy socks, that they need to be thicker and a different color. It's so annoying!!!!!

I think I'm gonna end up cussing him out and I'm trying to avoid that. I don't want to hurt his feelings. HELP PLEASE!!!

Posted by tctaap

Posted by saggurl88

Hello! 🙂

I'm not trying to rag on you guys but I'm really just wondering how you expect someone to act when a Virgo criticizes. I'm currently dating a Virgo male and we get along great, except for when he has some snide remark about things that I do, or wear, really it could be anything. It's really off putting.

He says Sag women are his kryptonite but they ghost him a lot. I can see why 😢 We don't really like negativity and a lot of what he says is negative. I actually want to be blunt right back and tell him to stop doing this so much but I don't know how to approach the situation.

Do you Virgos date each other? Is it just a big criticizing fest? What exactly are you expecting the other person to say?

I'm not trying to rag on you guys but I would just like to be able to handle the situation better. He let's me in on a lot that could be improved, without me asking. It has to do with my personality, the way I handle situations, really just a form of not accepting my personality and trying to build a different person. I don't see the point to it. If I accept him, I feel he should accept me.

I could be wearing thin socks and he would tell me the next time I buy socks, that they need to be thicker and a different color. It's so annoying!!!!!

I think I'm gonna end up cussing him out and I'm trying to avoid that. I don't want to hurt his feelings. HELP PLEASE!!!

he sounds like an annoying fucker

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Posted by SoftMachine

Honestly this is the best way to deal with Virgos

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo

Everytime he makes a criticism say ‘how dareth you, you whore’.

Then throw your chanclas again.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by -MadHatter-

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He must really like you!

We usually criticize when we like/love/ care about someone...we don't do it to be mean or annoying. If he not criticizing...then it's time to worry because basically he's given up on the situation.

I would either ignore him and do what you want or just talk to him about it. He may not even be aware that he's doing it since its so natural for us to do so lol.

I don’t even know how to approach the subject. I’m gonna end up blowing up on him. 😩😬

I don’t understand why he has to talk to me about improving myself. I’m fine with how I am! I am quiet and do try to ignore him but my passive aggressive side comes out and I start being petty.

I sent a text to him and said I had a great time with him and that he’s a cool person and he’s starting to be one of my favorite things in my life.

You know what he sent me? A meme that said “Friend of the year” so I sent another text telling him “Good thing the year is almost up!” Smh. The the next morning I got a “Good Morning, baby” text. 😏

😂😂. We are something else. Smh.

Remember we deal with logic...so approach him in a logical manner and just be honest on how it's making you feel. Don't blow up at him though...just come at him calmly and rationally...so he gets it and sees your side. If you blow up at him...he gonna think you are way to over emotional to deal with. Stupid...but it is the way it is.

I disagree.. she needs to hit him back with some sarcastic shit that puts him in his place.... followed by a hysterical STFU!

Sarcastic I can agree with but being over emotional about it will just cause him to walk away....in his eyes he's really doing nothing wrong and will think she is over reacting over nothing.

He has a Cancer moon like me. He's not as sensitive as a typical Virgo and he jumps to assumptions just as much as I do lol I think I may be more logical then him with the way I have to explain stuff to him!

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Posted by virgoth

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Honestly if this is your first few dates with this dude then this kinda controlling commentary on what to wear and how to dress is a huge red flag. Ime it points to a controlling abusive pattern that’s only gonna get worse with time.

Honestly, those were just examples. He's criticizes my personality and the way I talk to himlol That's even worse lol

It will work itself out one way or another, either we will work or we won't, either way it will get figured out fairly quickly 😄

he's trying to communicate with you, you must be communicating in a way that makes him insecure therefore he starts projecting, it won't work itself out maybe try asking him if he thinks something is wrong in your relationship if he says no bring up your concerns he might not be aware that how he communicates with you is bugging you and vice versa

this is fixable

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by tctaap

Posted by saggurl88

Hello! 🙂

I'm not trying to rag on you guys but I'm really just wondering how you expect someone to act when a Virgo criticizes. I'm currently dating a Virgo male and we get along great, except for when he has some snide remark about things that I do, or wear, really it could be anything. It's really off putting.

He says Sag women are his kryptonite but they ghost him a lot. I can see why 😢 We don't really like negativity and a lot of what he says is negative. I actually want to be blunt right back and tell him to stop doing this so much but I don't know how to approach the situation.

Do you Virgos date each other? Is it just a big criticizing fest? What exactly are you expecting the other person to say?

I'm not trying to rag on you guys but I would just like to be able to handle the situation better. He let's me in on a lot that could be improved, without me asking. It has to do with my personality, the way I handle situations, really just a form of not accepting my personality and trying to build a different person. I don't see the point to it. If I accept him, I feel he should accept me.

I could be wearing thin socks and he would tell me the next time I buy socks, that they need to be thicker and a different color. It's so annoying!!!!!

I think I'm gonna end up cussing him out and I'm trying to avoid that. I don't want to hurt his feelings. HELP PLEASE!!!

he sounds like an annoying fucker

I promise that’s the only thing that’s annoying 😅😂😂😂😂😂

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Posted by -MadHatter-

I feel like I'd like to be a virgo... "All the bitching is just how we show we love you".... Checkmate to your criticism, motherfucker.

Posted by Ixion

I've dated another Virgal lol...for the most part it was chill. Very little in the way of criticisms from me to her....or from her to me and the ones that were given were critical to relationship survival... otherwise it was live and let live.

We naturally did not criticize the other....If it wasn't something that affected the relationship dynamics then we tended not to bring it up.

That is the key...is being honest with yourself and him about what really would affect those dynamics.

Like if her or I did off the wall stuff...like breaking a dress code where clearly there is one, or acting like a child where its expected for you to exhibit maturity..OR (and her personal sin) breaking cultural codes that you know damn well are in place...there really shouldn't be a cause for criticism.

Things that are matters of personal taste i.e. your hobbies, your style of dress, your interests, your friends, your mannerisms, religious beliefs and personal habits....so long as they don't negatively impact the relationship by BOTH (yes both) of your standards then its stuff he needs to stay out of.

While not everything is up for discussion, there are some areas where you will have to bend, there are some areas where he will....and don't be afraid to tell it like it is...kudos if you can do it dispassionately...let a Virgo know he is putting his relationship at risk by being a prick and if he cares bout you he will listen and move to repair.

Posted by Gobby

LOL! I was waiting for this to happen... 😆

Posted by Gobby

Posted by saggurl88

I think I'm gonna end up cussing him out and I'm trying to avoid that. I don't want to hurt his feelings.

No, no, no!!! Cuss him out! Do it! Do it! Just don't forget to record it and send the video to me, which I'll save for when I can't find a decent comedy movie to watch...

😄

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Posted by Lionheart917

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He must really like you!

We usually criticize when we like/love/ care about someone...we don't do it to be mean or annoying. If he not criticizing...then it's time to worry because basically he's given up on the situation.

I would either ignore him and do what you want or just talk to him about it. He may not even be aware that he's doing it since its so natural for us to do so lol.

I don’t even know how to approach the subject. I’m gonna end up blowing up on him. 😩😬

I don’t understand why he has to talk to me about improving myself. I’m fine with how I am! I am quiet and do try to ignore him but my passive aggressive side comes out and I start being petty.

I sent a text to him and said I had a great time with him and that he’s a cool person and he’s starting to be one of my favorite things in my life.

You know what he sent me? A meme that said “Friend of the year” so I sent another text telling him “Good thing the year is almost up!” Smh. The the next morning I got a “Good Morning, baby” text. 😏

Lol you will end up cursing 🤬 his ass one way or the other. One thing sags hate most is negativity and also being told what to do.

EXACTLY! 😆

lol virgos like things their way or the highway. That’s an automatic NO with sags lol

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by virgoth

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by LadyNeptune

Honestly if this is your first few dates with this dude then this kinda controlling commentary on what to wear and how to dress is a huge red flag. Ime it points to a controlling abusive pattern that’s only gonna get worse with time.

Honestly, those were just examples. He's criticizes my personality and the way I talk to himlol That's even worse lol

It will work itself out one way or another, either we will work or we won't, either way it will get figured out fairly quickly 😄

he's trying to communicate with you, you must be communicating in a way that makes him insecure therefore he starts projecting, it won't work itself out maybe try asking him if he thinks something is wrong in your relationship if he says no bring up your concerns he might not be aware that how he communicates with you is bugging you and vice versa

this is fixable

When I said it would work itself out it would be because we would be done 😄.

I will try. I notice that he does take a lot of things negatively. I can ask him a random question like “where do you want me to put this” and he will tell me he doesn’t know what type of person I think he is! Lol WHAT?? I’m confused lol

He said I was too confident when I say stuff to him. Lol. I’m like uh, so, that seems like a personal issue buddy. 😂😂😂

if the relationship is new he's going to be cautious he's probably trying to read you and because he can't he suggests things you should work on to make himself feel more at ease if you're not patient enough for him to let his guard down I think yes move to the next but if you see yourself with him long-term I say try to understand his neurotic behavior most of the time its virgo trying to make sense of things overanalyzing and overthinking especially with a cancer moon making him more sensitive to your comments, too confident when you speak to him can translate to condescending although it may not be the case

sounds to me like its miscommunication all that is needed is effort

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Posted by saggurl88

I sent him a link to something that someone did well and told him I’m going to practice this to improve my skills and he added a “while you at it, work on this as well” 🙄😒. WTF. lol

Ouch! 😢

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