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How are other signs supposed to handle the criticism you dish out? (Page 3)
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Y’all probably don’t match. The foundation of the relationship isn’t even set in stone if he doesn’t already accept your personality.
You could talk to him about it and see what happens. If you cuss him out, he may respect you. Or the relationship may end idk you’ll just have to see
Yah, never been attracted to Sags even with a packed 9th house and Sag rising... don't know any Sag/Virgo couples either.
Y’all probably don’t match. The foundation of the relationship isn’t even set in stone if he doesn’t already accept your personality.
You could talk to him about it and see what happens. If you cuss him out, he may respect you. Or the relationship may end idk you’ll just have to see
Ha! I'm willing to chance it. I've already told him I have no problem cutting people off it doesn't work out and he said that's not the solution to everything, sometimes it's just misunderstandings.
I agree, but he doesn't have to say things so sarcastically and annoying. Maybe I will have a talk about that. He says the way I talk to him is irritating and rubs him the wrong way. lol He doesn't like my confidence in the way I say stuff, like I expect him to agree with me. OH WELL. We shall see!
And there is no relationship or foundation, yet.
Yeah, this doesn't sound good at all if he's starting out this way. My virgo-ness comes out when I start cooking and cleaning for you, not criticizing. Tell him straight up he's being a douche next time he does it, maybe he doesn't realize what it sounds like? If that doesn't work dump him...
I think he is aware, I think he enjoys the behavior. I'm so chill and laid back, it just seems like he's trying to get some sort of reaction out of me. He does cook for me btw. He's a great cook. He's actually not even a clean freak, he has maids that clean for him.
But you know what they say about playing with fire,
Since he likes "teaching", next time wear a full-on school girl outfit, plaid skirt, braids, the whole thing...
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I wore some other lingerie the other night and was annoyed by his reaction to it. He said the lingerie looked satanic cause it was all black and had some strappy stuff across my body. -_- Sometimes words don't need to be said when someone is standing half naked in front of you. Just do something about it!
maybe all Sags are athletes, hence the drive for positive mindset at all costs.
I like being in a good mood. I don't like my energy shifting much. It's easier to be happy for me then it is too be sad or upset. I think it has to do with or optimism as a sign. Always looking for brighter days and trying to make them happen.
Some people feel more comfortable with negative energy, I don't. I like good energy flow. Good energy bounces off people like sunshine. It just feels good.
I agree with those saying he’s controlling.. You guys are still getting to know each other and he’s already telling you what you should do, and not in a suggestive way either.
Is he even trying to get to know you or is he molding you into whatever he wants you to be?
I don't know. He asks question and I tell him the answers but he takes my answers too literal. I've told him I'm contradicting too. My actions are based off how accepting I am of the person. So I can change my opinion and adjust pretty well in any circumstance. It's only been like a month and a half. Not long at all.
6 months is a good point in where I will want to know exactly whats happening. So we have some time.
2 different Sags
- Athlete type
- Yoga pick up artist type
"evolved" Sags combine both in one
I do yoga horizontally 😄 I think I'm pretty evolved, my pimp hand is pretty strong too! 😛
maybe all Sags are athletes, hence the drive for positive mindset at all costs.
I like being in a good mood. I don't like my energy shifting much. It's easier to be happy for me then it is too be sad or upset. I think it has to do with or optimism as a sign. Always looking for brighter days and trying to make them happen.
Some people feel more comfortable with negative energy, I don't. I like good energy flow. Good energy bounces off people like sunshine. It just feels good.
You're out and about working crazy hours so that's how I make sense of it. Negativity would only slow you down.
I'm going to call you a Sag athlete. yup.
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I think it's in my chart that I like to work. My moon in my 10th house. I never mind working cause I like staying busy. I meant to message you last night too and ask about the friends to lover thing but I ended up drinking a bunch of wine and was trolling this site instead. 🙂
2 different Sags
- Athlete type
- Yoga pick up artist type
"evolved" Sags combine both in one
I do yoga horizontally 😄 I think I'm pretty evolved, my pimp hand is pretty strong too! 😛
"I do yoga horizontally"
Hahaha that's a great line
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😄 Best type!
maybe all Sags are athletes, hence the drive for positive mindset at all costs.
I like being in a good mood. I don't like my energy shifting much. It's easier to be happy for me then it is too be sad or upset. I think it has to do with or optimism as a sign. Always looking for brighter days and trying to make them happen.
Some people feel more comfortable with negative energy, I don't. I like good energy flow. Good energy bounces off people like sunshine. It just feels good.
You're out and about working crazy hours so that's how I make sense of it. Negativity would only slow you down.
I'm going to call you a Sag athlete. yup.
I think it's in my chart that I like to work. My moon in my 10th house. I never mind working cause I like staying busy. I meant to message you last night too and ask about the friends to lover thing but I ended up drinking a bunch of wine and was trolling this site instead. 🙂
I understand. Hope it was good wine!
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It was, thanks, I have a headache now though lol
Y’all probably don’t match. The foundation of the relationship isn’t even set in stone if he doesn’t already accept your personality.
You could talk to him about it and see what happens. If you cuss him out, he may respect you. Or the relationship may end idk you’ll just have to see
Ha! I'm willing to chance it. I've already told him I have no problem cutting people off it doesn't work out and he said that's not the solution to everything, sometimes it's just misunderstandings.
I agree, but he doesn't have to say things so sarcastically and annoying. Maybe I will have a talk about that. He says the way I talk to him is irritating and rubs him the wrong way. lol He doesn't like my confidence in the way I say stuff, like I expect him to agree with me. OH WELL. We shall see!
And there is no relationship or foundation, yet.
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So he criticizes and you expect him to always agree with you. And there isn’t even a relationship yet🤨
alright sis well I wish you good luck (:
Y’all probably don’t match. The foundation of the relationship isn’t even set in stone if he doesn’t already accept your personality.
You could talk to him about it and see what happens. If you cuss him out, he may respect you. Or the relationship may end idk you’ll just have to see
Yah, never been attracted to Sags even with a packed 9th house and Sag rising... don't know any Sag/Virgo couples either.
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Same. I see sag men as very platonic and brotherly even with all my sag placements. I can’t even think about dating one bc it would be weird
Y’all probably don’t match. The foundation of the relationship isn’t even set in stone if he doesn’t already accept your personality.
You could talk to him about it and see what happens. If you cuss him out, he may respect you. Or the relationship may end idk you’ll just have to see
Ha! I'm willing to chance it. I've already told him I have no problem cutting people off it doesn't work out and he said that's not the solution to everything, sometimes it's just misunderstandings.
I agree, but he doesn't have to say things so sarcastically and annoying. Maybe I will have a talk about that. He says the way I talk to him is irritating and rubs him the wrong way. lol He doesn't like my confidence in the way I say stuff, like I expect him to agree with me. OH WELL. We shall see!
And there is no relationship or foundation, yet.
So he criticizes and you expect him to always agree with you. And there isn’t even a relationship yet🤨
alright sis well I wish you good luck (:
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No, but thanks.
Y’all probably don’t match. The foundation of the relationship isn’t even set in stone if he doesn’t already accept your personality.
You could talk to him about it and see what happens. If you cuss him out, he may respect you. Or the relationship may end idk you’ll just have to see
Yah, never been attracted to Sags even with a packed 9th house and Sag rising... don't know any Sag/Virgo couples either.
Same. I see sag men as very platonic and brotherly even with all my sag placements. I can’t even think about dating one bc it would be weird
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Must be a sag thing, I'm the same way. Sag placements are too easy going, not really interesting to me cause they are too chill. This Virgo has no Sag placements.
If it bothers and annoys u that much already just move on. You won’t be able to change that it annoys you, he won’t be able to change the need to do it. Someone will always be uncomfortable
Simple solution
I mean virgo logic but🤷🏽♀️
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This is my first time dealing with a Virgo 😆 I don't know how to proceed! 😛