How do you approach a Virgo man being distant

I'm in a long distance relationship with a Virgo man. Being a scorpio woman I found the first few months of being away rather difficult. I do have trust issues but I fought with him for his time. I fought alot. I know I was wrong to fight, I was having a hard time adjusting to the new situation and he'd already adjusted to it. So,i left quite alone and misunderstood. He's going through a hard time socially and at his work place. I made it worse with my breakdowns. I just want to be there for him now. But he's quite distant with me presently. I don't blame him. But I don't want to force him to open up to me! He's a virgo! But I want to be there for him. I feel quite helpless. Having already messed up the relationship a little. What should my approach be? Is there a possibility he'll come around to me again or have I lost him for good?

I don’t think you messed up from my experience with Virgo man they like clingy woman lol They like the attention. I’m currently in a long distance friendship with a Virgo man and I make it work but training him to talk to me about everything! We talk after he gets off of work and while he works sometime but I understand that he is busy Virgo man likes to talk through problems so you don’t have to start a arguement just tell him you miss him everyday send a good morning text even if he forgets to send one you have to take control of the communication if you have a problem with it. But most of all just relax it’s hard being apart find something to do. My Virgo man only watch the news and I’m very interested in the news too so go on yahoo just to have something new to talk about try to be his friends every conversation shouldn’t be about relationship problems work on being his friend