How to cope seeing him with her

So I'm going to an event where I will see someone I have strong feelings for. We've known each other for a long time but I was emotionally distant and let him do his own thing and see other girls. My feelings came back until I saw him with someone else. My heart broke when he drunkenly kissed another girl last month and I saw. She will be there too tomorrow. I need to stop caring as I know I can do better but it's so difficult seeing them. Mostly it is difficult because he gives me false hope - he gave me something that belonged to his grandfather as a gift ? He blushes when I am around. He creepily took a photo of me at a party when I was speaking to another guy. But I can't expect him just to ditch her. Part of me wants to bail and the other part thinks I need to live my life and see other people. Has anyone been in a similar situation ?

Bail AND see other people. These childish games don't belong.

Wait what's his sign

You should return the gift to him, the one that belongs to his grandmother.

Certainly, he only gave that to you because he though you two were in it for the long haul, but, since that isn't the case, then that token is longer yours.

He probably blushes because he wants to ask for it back.

What if he bought her a bra? Return?

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Im with P_Angel on this. Give the gift back.

Gifts are not returnable! It's not an engagement ring which is the only gift that goes back IF she broke an engagement.

So he had to think before parting with family heirloom. He wanted to buy her and she wasn't selling herself! So it's his loss.