Capygirl01
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How to get a Virgo man back after cheating?
Lol you were so lost until he found out! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
So you would’ve never stopped then? 🙃
So you would’ve never stopped then? 🙃
get over it and get therapy bc no one healthy cheats
Your lucky he didnt bury you.
From what I know of Virgos, you don't.
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
This isn't about being a Virgo. Coming from someone who's just been cheated on, he'll never fully trust you again.
Leave it and try to work on yourself. 😊
#NoJudgement
Leave it and try to work on yourself. 😊
#NoJudgement
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Oh, I just read your other threads.. you’ve been dating a sag on the side for 5-6 months. That’s more than just a few dates. Do you even really want the Virgo back or is just that the sag doesn’t want what you want so now you want to go back to what’s comfortable?
OMG 😱
I didn't even read her other threads.
Good lord Jesus.
Posted by Arielle83
You went on dates with other men?
Did you have sex?
No sex, no intimacy. Only one guy
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Oh, I just read your other threads.. you’ve been dating a sag on the side for 5-6 months. That’s more than just a few dates. Do you even really want the Virgo back or is just that the sag doesn’t want what you want so now you want to go back to what’s comfortable?
We started talking 5 months ago not regularly just once in awhile hey how are you. We were friends before but I’ve always kept a distance. A work even brought us together again in October. We hung out 3 times after that. Once every 2-3 weeks. No intimacy.
Posted by PhoenixStorm
Oh, I just read your other threads.. you’ve been dating a sag on the side for 5-6 months. That’s more than just a few dates. Do you even really want the Virgo back or is just that the sag doesn’t want what you want so now you want to go back to what’s comfortable?
No the sag is fine nothing happened and nothing is wrong if anything the sag wants more now. I took the time to reflect and the Virgo is who I truly love and want to spend my life with.
Posted by Foot_In_Mouth
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
Posted by Capygirl01Posted by Foot_In_Mouth
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank youclick to expand
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatchPosted by saggurl88
Lol you were so lost until he found out! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
So you would’ve never stopped then? 🙃
That stuck out to me too. The word choice!click to expand
Honestly that told me all that needed to be said.
I don’t know why people treat others this way and expect them to stick around or come back when they’ve broke trust and had a full blown relationship on the side for months. (Based on other comments here)
Any type of feelings of not getting attention or needs being met, should’ve been talked about, so things could get back on track.
But trying to do something after the fact is wack.
This is the risk when a person cheats. So it must’ve been worth it.
Posted by Capygirl01Posted by PhoenixStorm
Oh, I just read your other threads.. you’ve been dating a sag on the side for 5-6 months. That’s more than just a few dates. Do you even really want the Virgo back or is just that the sag doesn’t want what you want so now you want to go back to what’s comfortable?
We started talking 5 months ago not regularly just once in awhile hey how are you. We were friends before but I’ve always kept a distance. A work even brought us together again in October. We hung out 3 times after that. Once every 2-3 weeks. No intimacy.click to expand
There has to be more to it then this.
No intimacy with a Sag? 🧐
If you were friends before, you would still be friends when you went out to eat lunch or dinner or whatever you were doing on the “dates”, it wouldn’t have been considered cheating.
Either way. I guess it’s a lesson learned for you. I hope thinks work out and both of you can get some closure or figure it all out.
Posted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by Capygirl01Posted by Foot_In_Mouth
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?click to expand
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by Capygirl01Posted by Foot_In_Mouth
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIPclick to expand
Wait....is that true?
Posted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by Capygirl01Posted by Foot_In_Mouth
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Wait....is that true?click to expand
No idea 😅
She said the Virgo was the one to find her out tho, so I was imagining him going through her phone or computer and finding her threads about dating the sag
shit on his bed he will love that
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by Capygirl01Posted by Foot_In_Mouth
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Wait....is that true?
No idea 😅
She said the Virgo was the one to find her out tho, so I was imagining him going through her phone or computer and finding her threads about dating the sagclick to expand
I feel like that would make it worse if that's how he found out but either way, I still say leave it be. It would never be as good as it once was and I'm sure he'll bring it up way more then she would like. Consider it a lesson learned and try not to do it again to someone else.
Posted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by Capygirl01Posted by Foot_In_Mouth
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Wait....is that true?
No idea 😅
She said the Virgo was the one to find her out tho, so I was imagining him going through her phone or computer and finding her threads about dating the sag
I feel like that would make it worse if that's how he found out but either way, I still say leave it be. It would never be as good as it once was and I'm sure he'll bring it up way more then she would like. Consider it a lesson learned and try not to do it again to someone else.click to expand
5 months is a long time. She’s obviously missing something in her relationship if she’s looking outside it and entertaining another man.
I don’t buy that she suddenly had a come to Jesus moment when he found her out. Unless she addresses the core reason of why she chose to step out on her relationship she will likely be a repeat offender.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Foot_In_MouthPosted by Capygirl01Posted by Foot_In_Mouth
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Wait....is that true?
No idea 😅
She said the Virgo was the one to find her out tho, so I was imagining him going through her phone or computer and finding her threads about dating the sag
I feel like that would make it worse if that's how he found out but either way, I still say leave it be. It would never be as good as it once was and I'm sure he'll bring it up way more then she would like. Consider it a lesson learned and try not to do it again to someone else.
5 months is a long time. She’s obviously missing something in her relationship if she’s looking outside it and entertaining another man.
I don’t buy that she suddenly had a come to Jesus moment when he found her out. Unless she addresses the core reason of why she chose to step out on her relationship she will likely be a repeat offender.click to expand
5 months without sex too! 😆
Posted by saggurl88
Lol you were so lost until he found out! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
So you would’ve never stopped then? 🙃
Right! This.
I want to know more about what was going on with sag and what does being lost mean exactly
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