How to know if a virgo girl loves you?

I am a virgo guy in love with my best friend and she is also a virgo. We have known each other for the last 11 years. When I told her that I love her she said that she wasn't really ready for a relationship but asked for a bit of time and said that if the two of us were in a relationship together sometime in the future then she would love it.I am waiting for her answer right now.After that everything was cool and normal for a few days and then she started becoming detached. She seems uninterested in talking when I call her at her free time but when she calls me she is all cool. She even likes posts on facebook I post for her and trusts me a lot. She even shared her facebook password with me even before I told her that I love her. Being a virgo, I know I get detached sometimes but I don't get this mixed emotion thing. Advices?

^Ditto.

I'd assume she's weighing her options. To escalate from friendship to relationship is taking a high risk considering you two have been best friends for over a decade. It's not as simple as making a choice. In the offset, if she does proceed to pursue a relationship with you and it doesn't work out she may lose you as a friend.

Give her plenty of time to think it through, not a wise decision to put her under pressure.

Posted by ScorpG
it's not very easy to hear "I love you" from a Virgo lady

Not easy for you to hear it, or for her to say it?

Virgo female here. It sounds like she is thinking about it. Try asking her out somewhere casual. Hold her hand. Don't try to kiss her. Let her make the first move for your first kiss. Hug her, sit close to her, hold her hand. Let her get comfortable. I always had a huge fear of first kiss. Guys who were too aggressive would freak me out.

Run away. I'm very Virgo and if in 11 years, or even 1 year, I haven't decided to pursue anything with you, it will NEVER happen. She's being detached because she's terrified of how clingy you'll be once you've said something about your feelings. She doesn't want to let you down. She should have been more honest. I know how us virgos take honesty. As a Virgo woman, I have cut man friends I didn't want to date out of my life entirely with ease because the relationship changed into something I didn't want. Watch out...