How to understand a Virgo man

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Yoctapra on Thursday, January 19, 2017 and has 4 replies.

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

I am a Libra n been dated by a Virgo man.but i just told him that i cant see him anymore bcz it seems dont work between me and him.He is so busy working or doing something else i dont know but he seems never have times just to text me or check me out.If i contact him first he will just answer with short answer.So i always have to wait and wait untill he has time or remember me just to talk or meet up.Apparently i really like this guy n might in love with him but i need somebody who willingly give his time in his busy time for me,want to know me better and can be somebody to share stories n everything with.But he doesnt give all of that..i am so sad but i think its best.

I sent him long message about it and he just answered "i feel sorry". Thats it.

I expected him to say something...now im confused i want to know what is on his mind now.is he sad,angry,upset,or just fine..

I want to understand him but it is not easy for me... 😢

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@RemixGeneralFishy
10 Years1,000+ Posts

You're a glutton for punishment. Didn't we do this song & dance last week? Gave you tons of info on it.

If it's not working out, then it's not working out. Beating the horse won't make it any less dead.

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

I know.i am just trying to move on...but it is not easy you know.but at least i have taken the action by telling him n decided to leave him.now im feeling just sad..and kinda broken hearted.

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@RemixGeneralFishy
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Sorry about that. Kinda sucks for me too actually because I feel like I'm headed down the same path. Except I have much lower chances of success than you. You're straight and he's straight, he's a man & you're a woman.

But for me, it's sausage all around.

I know exactly what it feels like to give up on someone you love or at least deeply care about. The only advice I can give you is to not do what I did, lock yourself away from everyone & everything.

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@Yoctapra
9 Years

😢 im sorry baby..but im sure u will meet someone who loves u and u love him someday ??

I am just feeling sad bcz he didnt try to say something about it he just said he felt sorry..maybe he is still analizing all of this or he just doesnt care ? 😢 He didnt say goodbye or something.i really need that 😢((