How would a Virgo/Cancer go about asking someone to be his girlfriend?

Like I’m well versed in Taurus love language but not in Virgo males so I’m just curious on how other Virgos have asked. I know it can be this or that with virgos & I’ve only interacted with the ones who were obsessed from the beginning lol. This one is more of the slow and steady type. Free feel to just share stories of how you’ve asked your girlfriends of the past out. I like reading love stories lol.

They come to me. I mind my own business don't know what's going on till...

Posted by Weeds

They come to me. I mind my own business don't know what's going on till...

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IM DEAD!

They don't even ask you out unless you make the first move. You just magically become bf/gf and get comfortable and then taken for granted

Posted by besarlalluvia

They don't even ask you out unless you make the first move. You just magically become bf/gf and get comfortable and then taken for granted

Lmaooooooooo! But like how does the conversation even come up that you found out y’all are officially together? Lol

It doesn't, until one day they make a comment like "I was talking to Joe the other day about you and I told him , my girlfriend said there's a sale on big screen tv's at Walmart." Then you're like "what?" "when did I become his girlfriend". I dated one for a long time but I didn't know how to handle him. Wish I had studied astrology back then because I didn't know about the Cancer moon.

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It doesn't, until one day they make a comment like "I was talking to Joe the other day about you and I told him , my girlfriend said there's a sale on big screen tv's at Walmart." Then you're like "what?" "when did I become his girlfriend". I dated one for a long time but I didn't know how to handle him. Wish I had studied astrology back then because I didn't know about the Cancer moon.

Yeah see I assumed it would be this way like some secret induction they’ve decided on their own and never mentioned to you til one day you’re casually being introduced as his girlfriend lol 😒... how romantic 😐🥱😂

Posted by DonnaLibra

It doesn't, until one day they make a comment like "I was talking to Joe the other day about you and I told him , my girlfriend said there's a sale on big screen tv's at Walmart." Then you're like "what?" "when did I become his girlfriend". I dated one for a long time but I didn't know how to handle him. Wish I had studied astrology back then because I didn't know about the Cancer moon.

Cancer moons are a horrible placement on a Virgo man. They are master manipulators and act like a baby if you don’t give them the response that’s worked in the past with previous people.

I’ve come in contact with Leo and Scorpio guys that were amazing with this moon.

But Virgos? Nah. Maybe they are better on the women.

As for OP

I agree with weeds. They need you to admit it first. They do throw hints though. It’s up to you to pick them up and go with it. I ignore all hints 😂😅🤣

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It doesn't, until one day they make a comment like "I was talking to Joe the other day about you and I told him , my girlfriend said there's a sale on big screen tv's at Walmart." Then you're like "what?" "when did I become his girlfriend". I dated one for a long time but I didn't know how to handle him. Wish I had studied astrology back then because I didn't know about the Cancer moon.

Cancer moons are a horrible placement on a Virgo man. They are master manipulators and act like a baby if you don’t give them the response that’s worked in the past with previous people.

I’ve come in contact with Leo and Scorpio guys that were amazing with this moon.

But Virgos? Nah. Maybe they are better on the women.

As for OP

I agree with weeds. They need you to admit it first. They do throw hints though. It’s up to you to pick them up and go with it. I ignore all hints 😂😅🤣

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I had bad luck with leo/cancer lol. But yeah I figured it would have to be me saying it & I refuse lol. Yeah fire signs hate hints. I ignore all hints too lol. I do kinda feel like I’m being hinted to but I’m okay with ignoring it lol. I just was hoping I wasn’t gonna have to take hints etc. that’s wack.

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Posted by besarlalluvia

They don't even ask you out unless you make the first move. You just magically become bf/gf and get comfortable and then taken for granted

Lmaooooooooo! But like how does the conversation even come up that you found out y’all are officially together? Lol

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It doesn't. One day you are called friend, a few days later it is girlfriend

Posted by Ixi

We smashed after a few months of talking...I told her then I meekly asked her when I realized my Leo Venus was getting out of pocket.

Lmaoooooo! He has a venus in Libra so that’s a bit different but I would respect that type of boldness lol.

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They don't even ask you out unless you make the first move. You just magically become bf/gf and get comfortable and then taken for granted

Lmaooooooooo! But like how does the conversation even come up that you found out y’all are officially together? Lol

It doesn't. One day you are called friend, a few days later it is girlfriend

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I see the pattern smh lol

Posted by Weeds

They come to me. I mind my own business don't know what's going on till...

Never have related to anything more in my life than this right here 😆😆

Mine was cute how he asked me. He literally told me about his past and how I made him feel. And then he shyly asked if I would be his girl.

Funny enough I feel like being w a Virgo man is a dance in the beginning. Playing coy and just enough, keeping him right in the palm of your hand is key. I do those pretty well as a fellow Virgo so that’s probably why it worked.

But also he had a huge crush on me for a while

I've had two Virgo male encounters that I can think of at the moment. One was a Virgo at work who came up directly. (But, I'm the kinda girl you gotta be direct with.) I told him I was getting back with my Virgo husband and he snuck a kiss on me in the elevator at work just as the door was opening.

My Virgo Sun/Cancer Moon husband was direct too. He asked me to marry him within months of dating. He "researched" me before setting up what I thought was a casual meeting.

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We smashed after a few months of talking...I told her then I meekly asked her when I realized my Leo Venus was getting out of pocket.

Lmaoooooo! He has a venus in Libra so that’s a bit different but I would respect that type of boldness lol.

Lol we dated for near 2 years so she agreed/said yes lol... I have always been pretty bold about what I want even if I am shy in the lead-up.

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It’s been sorta 3 years on & off from when we met til now. And we’re more aligned & mutual right now. So it’s like cool. I wouldn’t be surprised if I’m just supposed to KNOW magically lol.

Posted by FactCheck

I'm a virgo sun cancer moon and I've only asked one person to be in a relationship with me lol. I prefer for them to take the reigns on that and ask me.

His ex-wife proposed & you see I’m not the type to do all that lol. Soooo yeah lol

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Everyone I've been with asked me like the second date and I said sure and then the one person I asked took forever so... but I'm never doing that again.

Y’all gotta stop that “not doing that again” shit. Y’all punish ppl who don’t even deserve to be punished lol

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Mine was cute how he asked me. He literally told me about his past and how I made him feel. And then he shyly asked if I would be his girl.

Funny enough I feel like being w a Virgo man is a dance in the beginning. Playing coy and just enough, keeping him right in the palm of your hand is key. I do those pretty well as a fellow Virgo so that’s probably why it worked.

But also he had a huge crush on me for a while

We have some majestic shit goin on so I couldn’t work my usual powers on this one lmao. We’re at a good place now. Lots of growth. Like I met his dad and it’s been 3 years of knowing him so I’m like okay I got a meet a parent so it’s rollin around lol

Posted by VenusAquarius

I've had two Virgo male encounters that I can think of at the moment. One was a Virgo at work who came up directly. (But, I'm the kinda girl you gotta be direct with.) I told him I was getting back with my Virgo husband and he snuck a kiss on me in the elevator at work just as the door was opening.

My Virgo Sun/Cancer Moon husband was direct too. He asked me to marry him within months of dating. He "researched" me before setting up what I thought was a casual meeting.

Yeah they can be very forward & have this I’m obsessed with you so mine behavior lol. I ruined that part in the very beginning by being a Scorpio lmaoooo. So we transitioned into this slow walk & now we’re doing pretty well 😅

Feel it out and lead the interaction in that direction. Read the feedback then make a move. Is standard Virgo procedure.

I've personal had this done to me by woman when I was younger. Now I can pick up on it and talk back to them in the same fashion. Basically having a between the lines discussion, so we can each save face and avoid open rejection. Also the banter is fun as hell!

With cancerish(sensitive & guarded) people I noticed it's a bad idea to be straightforward with them without them expecting it or leading up to it.

I guess you could say Throw a few soft balls to warm them up before you start throwing some fast balls their way?

Posted by besarlalluvia

They don't even ask you out unless you make the first move. You just magically become bf/gf and get comfortable and then taken for granted

Exactly this!

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Everyone I've been with asked me like the second date and I said sure and then the one person I asked took forever so... but I'm never doing that again.

Y’all gotta stop that “not doing that again” shit. Y’all punish ppl who don’t even deserve to be punished lol

The only time I asked someone was because they were a hoe and I didnt want them to hoe off and away. But I dont want to be with another hoe. That's why I said not doing that again. If he's been with you for awhile then hes probably acting like your boyfriend. Just lead him into that area of whatever your dreams are and he'll go along.

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Lmaoooo omg yeah no you deserve more than these hoes lol. Like we had a heart to heart earlier in the year and since then he’s been more openingly lovey dovey. I also met his dad a few weeks ago. It was on FaceTime but I think it counts lmao. But yeah I do kinda feel that he’ll go along with anything I want at this point. I don’t ask for anything though lmao.

Posted by Lostthoughts

Feel it out and lead the interaction in that direction. Read the feedback then make a move. Is standard Virgo procedure.

I've personal had this done to me by woman when I was younger. Now I can pick up on it and talk back to them in the same fashion. Basically having a between the lines discussion, so we can each save face and avoid open rejection. Also the banter is fun as hell!

With cancerish(sensitive & guarded) people I noticed it's a bad idea to be straightforward with them without them expecting it or leading up to it.

I guess you could say Throw a few soft balls to warm them up before you start throwing some fast balls their way?

This literally sounds like what I’ve observed from him & all of the cancer moons I’ve experienced lmao. I’m pretty straightforward but it’s like heading into TNT if you do that with them lmaooo

This is good advice though lol. I guess I gotta think up what would I even say to start 🤔. I mean we’ve talked about marriage and kids, I’ve met everyone cept his mom. He calls me boo, I call him babe. There’s a few other little cutesy things but yeah idk I just flow. I just get the feeling it may not come up officially without me prying lol

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Posted by Ixi

We smashed after a few months of talking...I told her then I meekly asked her when I realized my Leo Venus was getting out of pocket.

Lmaoooooo! He has a venus in Libra so that’s a bit different but I would respect that type of boldness lol.

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OMG, so did my Virgo/Cancer moon. Just forget him confessing his love unless you do it first. I never did and he tried to manipulate me into telling him ILY.

Posted by FactCheck

I'm a virgo sun cancer moon and I've only asked one person to be in a relationship with me lol. I prefer for them to take the reigns on that and ask me.

Why? Are you a man or a woman?

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Posted by Ixi

We smashed after a few months of talking...I told her then I meekly asked her when I realized my Leo Venus was getting out of pocket.

Lmaoooooo! He has a venus in Libra so that’s a bit different but I would respect that type of boldness lol.

OMG, so did my Virgo/Cancer moon. Just forget him confessing his love unless you do it first. I never did and he tried to manipulate me into telling him ILY.

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I already fell for that trick sis & I was kinda mad when I realized I fell into the trap lmaooooo. What kind of sick twisted jokes are virgos? Lmaoooo

What did he say when you first said it?

Posted by DonnaLibra

What did he say when you first said it?

He didn’t say it back. I think he sent a heart or some shit. He’s said things like I feel the same way you do and like before I actually said it he was eluding to it and he even did hand gestures n shit. I had no idea it was a trap lol

That's how mine was. We were dating about a month and a half when he said "tell me you love me" and I said "NO!". After that is was never brought up again by either of us in 2-1/2 years. I still don't know if he was ever in love with me. I knew I never wanted another man who couldn't tell me he loves me. Others said that they need you to tell them first. I don't buy that nonsense.

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That's how mine was. We were dating about a month and a half when he said "tell me you love me" and I said "NO!". After that is was never brought up again by either of us in 2-1/2 years. I still don't know if he was ever in love with me. I knew I never wanted another man who couldn't tell me he loves me. Others said that they need you to tell them first. I don't buy that nonsense.

I feel that he would’ve told me in the beginning but I kinda dropped him & went on to another relationship and he was like “when you like someone you wait for them” & I’m like hmm sounds like love & he said he’d only say in person. But at that time I had no interest in hearing that shit at all lmao. So I was like yeah yeah so you tryna get this friend zone or not lol. Fast forward I came back because I realized our connection was deeper than I originally thought. So you know he told me he was hurt & bleh bleh so I’m like okay I’ll be patient so he did this hand gesture thing that said “I love you” like a child would do lmao so I’m like okay if he’s too scared to say it I’ll say it lol. So I was drunk & texted him (it’s always when you’re drunk smh) & he sent a heart back. N then like I had eventually brought up how it made me feel but I just ended up letting it go. Like okay I got bamboozled great lol. Good job dude lol. I mean he’s not an asshole or anything like that. He’s a good guy & he’s opening up wayyy more now so I’m just gonna let it flow organically as I’ve been doing.

Mine cheated on me so I ended up dating someone else to try to get over him. When he found out he was livid and said "You were supposed to wait for me to make my choice before you started dating someone else". What? how selfish can he be. I ended up still dating him because of he connection I felt to him but after so long I couldn't take it anymore and quit him. He still brings it up to this day how I was the one that got away. Bullshit because if he had opened his mouth and heart and told me how he felt I would probably be with him to this day. Hope it works out for you guys.

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Mine cheated on me so I ended up dating someone else to try to get over him. When he found out he was livid and said "You were supposed to wait for me to make my choice before you started dating someone else". What? how selfish can he be. I ended up still dating him because of he connection I felt to him but after so long I couldn't take it anymore and quit him. He still brings it up to this day how I was the one that got away. Bullshit because if he had opened his mouth and heart and told me how he felt I would probably be with him to this day. Hope it works out for you guys.

Oh no yours sounds like a real dirtbag. I’m so sorry sis. Mine is more like the nice guy that ppl try to walk over. He’s also older than me & went threw a divorce with a harsh cheating ex-wife so like I’ve had more patience with him opening up then I usually do. I do think he’s a good guy. Never found him to be a liar or anything crazy. He does have some typical virgo tendencies though that ocd shit & the communicating his feelings. His mercury is in retrograde too. Venus & mars in libra.