I got his Natal Chart (baby daddy!) LOL

For those following the SAGA of my (non)relationship with my kids dad, I have managed to get his time of birth and Natal chart. A friend of mine says there was a LOT in his chart that explains his patterns of infidelity. And that he's at the mercy of his planets (in a way) unless he were to either become more aware of these things and desires to change them, or have some kind of life altering spiritual gestalt that exerts enough guilt to ground him. (I was like, OH MY!). But that he also has a lot of positive things for me "specifically" that are perhaps un-Virgo-ish, making us unusually compatible for a "marriage" (although, never a truly traditional one- and if that's what I want, run for the hills.) She didn't however, give me a thorough analysis or any tips on fortifying weaknesses. And she warned that some of his qualities may come off as negative, even to himself, and therefore cause denial and ultimately no seriousness as changing them. He might actually find himself a conundrum.

I'm going to paste the charts below, but I had a few questions...

Where can I go to get a THOROUGH analysis of both of our charts, and have some specific questions answered?

And, what (if anything) do you (reading) know about him, or me, from these charts?

And, is there a better message board on DXP to post these charts for review/feedback?

Here goes: (see comments)

His Natal chart 8/26/1975 12:03pm

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Virgo 2.48 Ascendant Scorpio 11.50
Moon Aries 25.41 II Sagittarius 11.05
Mercury Virgo 24.06 III Capricorn 15.15
Venus Virgo 4.11 R IV Aquarius 21.33
Mars Gemini 7.04 V Pisces 24.09
Jupiter Aries 24.28 R VI Aries 20.36
Saturn Cancer 27.45 VII Taurus 11.50
Uranus Libra 29.26 VIII Gemini 11.05
Neptune Sagittarius 9.02 IX Cancer 15.15
Pluto Libra 7.47 Midheaven Leo 21.33
Lilith Pisces 22.33 XI Virgo 24.09
Asc node Scorpio 25.34 XII Libra 20.36

Aspects

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Trine Moon 7.07 21
Sun Conjunction Venus 1.23 293
Sun Square Mars 4.16 -46
Sun Sextile Uranus 3.22 41
Moon Conjunction Jupiter 1.13 492
Moon Square Saturn 2.04 -60
Moon Opposition Uranus 3.45 -140
Moon Trine Midheaven 4.08 44
Mercury Sextile Saturn 3.38 23
Venus Square Mars 2.53 -34
Venus Square Neptune 4.51 -9
Mars Opposition Neptune 1.58 -125
Mars Trine Pluto 0.43 64
Jupiter Square Saturn 3.16 -29
Jupiter Opposition Uranus 4.58 -72
Jupiter Trine Midheaven 2.55 32
Saturn Square Uranus 1.41 -35
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.15 41
1051 -550 501

Asteroids & Chiron

Chiron Aries 27.47 R
Ceres Gemini 9.24
Pallas Aries 2.13 R
Juno Leo 5.07
Vesta Aries 3.24 R
Fortune Aries 0.00
South node Aries 0.00

My Chart 5/24/77 7:44am

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Gemini 3.11 Ascendant Cancer 9.01
Moon Leo 13.40 II Cancer 28.02
Mercury Taurus 8.52 III Leo 19.09
Venus Aries 19.39 IV Virgo 15.43
Mars Aries 20.32 V Libra 20.57
Jupiter Gemini 11.07 VI Sagittarius 2.14
Saturn Leo 11.34 VII Capricorn 9.01
Uranus Scorpio 8.46 R VIII Capricorn 28.02
Neptune Sagittarius 15.06 R IX Aquarius 19.09
Pluto Libra 11.38 R Midheaven Pisces 15.43
Lilith Gemini 3.30 XI Aries 20.57
Asc node Libra 23.47 XII Gemini 2.14

Aspects

Sun Conjunction Jupiter 7.55 87
Moon Square Mercury 4.48 -34
Moon Trine Venus 5.58 28
Moon Trine Mars 6.51 32
Moon Sextile Jupiter 2.34 71
Moon Conjunction Saturn 2.06 43
Moon Square Uranus 4.54 -22
Moon Trine Neptune 1.26 90
Moon Sextile Pluto 2.02 98
Mercury Square Saturn 2.43 -46
Mercury Opposition Uranus 0.06 -218
Mercury Sextile Ascendant 0.09 154
Venus Conjunction Mars 0.53 498
Venus Trine Neptune 4.33 27
Venus Opposition Pluto 8.01 -12
Mars Trine Neptune 5.26 39
Mars Opposition Pluto 8.53 -3
Jupiter Sextile Saturn 0.28 78
Jupiter Opposition Neptune 3.59 -55
Jupiter Trine Pluto 0.31 39
Jupiter Square Midheaven 4.37 -8
Saturn Square Uranus 2.48 -26
Saturn Trine Neptune 3.31 24
Saturn Sextile Pluto 0.04 69
Uranus Trine Ascendant 0.14 29
Uranus Trine Midheaven 6.57 4
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3.28 8
Neptune Square Midheaven 0.38 -18
Pluto Square Ascendant 2.38 -6
1418 -448 970

Asteroids & Chiron

Chiron Taurus 3.25
Ceres Virgo 29.06
Pallas Leo 23.32
Juno Scorpio 20.09 R
Vesta Leo 2.44
Fortune Aries 0.00
South node Aries 0.00

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal<BR>
Yu need his birthdate, time, location [state or coast pretty much]
and it'll break down everything. I just did mine lastnite 😉

I'm going there. Still, any other feedback is awesome too. 😄

Ellesque- Yes, I analyze my past/present relationships AND myself. I do not point the finger away from myself. I just don't point the finger at myself to strangers (online, in public) much.

I don't know where you get the idea that I let myself get into "these situations".... this is the FIRST time I've EVER been in such a situation (hence why I am bent on understanding it).

No attitude, just saying.

And

Mars or Venus in hard aspect to Neptune.

Moon in hard aspect to Uranus.

Mars in Gemini

Uranus in the 7th House.

Neptune in Venus.

I was told these are all very strong indications.


FishyPisces, I nowhere indicated that I wasn't flighty. Nor was I making a comparison between he and I of who is more flighty, him or I. I can say this much, no way in high hell he'd ever think me to be flighty (even though I am very Airy).

On another note, what's really good with you people?

Can you give anything an objective look without just snubbing? Really? On other forums I go on, people don't just talk sh*t. Really? It's like half the feedback I get is AUTOMATICALLY disgusted that I give a damn about my kids father- jerk or not. Or that I even care to figure him out is gross. So what?! Why be insulted? Do you really care? It's like you're 'emotionally involved' and it's super weird, because I go on forums for objective answers to simple questions, not opinions of my worth or analysis of my relationship skills. Never claimed to be perfect or better, and the FACTS are what they are.

Let me clarify, I am NOT looking for ANYTHING other than ASTROLOGICAL related answers.

If you don't really believe in Astrology, your points are irrelevant. Not necessarily irrelevant to my situation (in fact, you may have the #1 wise answer), but irrelevant to the discussion- because I'm asking about ASTROLOGY.

If this is the wrong place for that, cool.

If you have advice based on male/female, dominant/submissive, bitch/nice-girl, self-respect or anything else... it's irrelevant, because I'm asking ONLY about astrology.

That's all.

And bash me for being in denial about the truth or not wanting to know what's really going on- whatever. You don't know WHAT is going on in my mind. But again, I came here to discuss these issues astrologically, not therapeutically.

@Ellessque

venus in gemini has the "cheater" stigma attached to it but even then it's dependent on other aspects.

>>> What aspects would those be?

mars in gemini, never heard of that being a problem with faithfulness.

>>> http://sasstrology.com/2009/03/the-astrology-of-cheating-natal-chart-factors.html<BR>
how are we not being objective? nobody here knows you.

>>> Untrue. I know several members offline, several online, and I have at length conversations with several others since I officially registered. And I've read the forums a long time before registering. However, you, apparently, do not know me.

>>> Several people are not being objective because objective feedback would lack subjective phrasing... Obviously, I would not accuse Virgo's (or adults for that matter) of mere gramatical errors.

who is insulted here with the exception of you because you don't like what was said?

>>> Of course I am also insulted! Who likes when people are prejudice towards them? (Pre-judging)

you are hell bent in making him into the bad guy. your title says it all.

>>> LoL. In my last post which you graceiously bumped, (thank you btw), it was never a question if he was the bad guy. THAT dear girl is OBVIOUS. And since you don't know him, yah... he's a bad guy. BUT, I'm not saying I'm without flaws. In fact, some say I'm a good girl to fault- which isn't actually a good thing... relationship wise, (but at Church it is!) Good/Bad depends on each person's subjective internal rules of right/wrong. That's why that...is subjective. I didn't even attach a "bad" to "cheat", that is your own connotation.

someone obviously "gives a damn" (aka *you*) for you to blast his chart on here in order to have an "aha" moment of why he doesn't want to be with you.

>>> Okay--- lol.... That's also not an issue. He does want to be with me. Be with me "EXCLUSIVELY" is another question. He was here yesterday, today, he'll sit on the stairs in the freezing cold and wait for me to get home. But, he'll also disappear and ignore calls. And he has been caught cheating once, and flirting excessively, and has cheated in all his past relationships. He wants to MARRY ME. Right now we're just co-parenting and it's a struggle but, again..my point is ASSUMPTIONS... your presumptions are annoying me yes. And, they're making your input sound irrelivent because when you imply a value in a variable to begin with, one that is invalid to boot, obviously the expression is false and thus the solution is inaccurate.

I'm sorry if this comes off RUDE, it's not my intention- I just want to be clear.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy<BR>
I am (excessively, possibly) logical.

seems very childish and a bit unproductive.

>>> ^^^ That's called subjective phrasing. It's judgemental based on your personal definition of childish and non-productive, leading you to automatically root for the underdog (him)

therefore, there is no point to analyze the fuck out of his chart. It's irrelevant.

>>> If you find no point in analyzing his chart, why are commenting? THAT is irrelevant!

it's more important for you to understand your own.

>>> Thanks for your "advice"... I'm not saying I don't. Thanks for letting me know what you think is important. SMH

Posted by MelindaKane

He wants to MARRY ME.

Welp...seems like you have it all figured out. If you're so sure of his status with you, why are you dissecting his birthchart? If you know he wants to "marry you" his birth chart should be the least of your concern.

You should be planning your wedding, no?