I need help understanding this situation..

He's a Virgo I'm a Pisces... We met one year ago and we've been "friends" since then...We are not super close but there is some chemistry there... Any who...The problem is.. I do want more with him but I've never told him exactly how I feel about him...I haven't told him because I don't feel secure enough yet and HE has to make me feel secure enough to tell him.. I did tell him once that I wanted to be with him via text lol but that was it and I wasn't expecting him to answer right then. He never even said anything about it..actually... We hung out afterwards and that was it.. I don't know if he's waiting for me to make a first move or not but its not going to happen... And yes he and I both have our moments when we disappear..I have a habit of doing it but only because my feelings are getting stronger so I have to get my mind right then come back lol.. So I don't mind when he does the same... For whatever reason(s) And ive always had a hard time expressing my feelings so this is very difficult to me and maybe he gets the impression I don't like him because every time we hangout I pull away then he pulls away too...I need advice from men on this women are OK too but I'd prefer men...Thanks I'm advance

What this fuck is this?


Are you a teenager?


There's nothing here in what described that suggests he has any interest in you, other than friendship. Even when you got bold and told him you like him, he ignored it.

Just because you have feelings ... doesn't mean other people feel the same.


And an adult knows this.

My suggestion to you is to worry about school next year, since it's getting ready to start again .... because you are utterly clueless to how relationships actually work.

I'll give you a hint ..... both people will act like they want it. (and not just you, engrossed in your imaginings) ... of course, being a Pisces, you might stay in your bubble of delusion for quite some time.

You have already made the first move by texting him, that you wanted to be with him. To which he didn't reply. Now what else can you do? Either he is a fool thatswhy couldn't understand your signal or he is not into you.

I am not a fan of this union.
Seem to start as obsessiveness and end with one using the other.

Avoid texting the words "I'm interested."
It's a bit cold and impersonal.

Try this...
Tell him how you feel about him in person.
Approach it with a soft touch of the hands and direct eye contact.

If he draws his hand away and avoids eye contact, then you have your answer.

He's not interested.

Good Luck to you!