I too need advice on virgo man!

Hi everyone! I'm an aquarius woman who is very confused about a virgo man! I know aquarius and virgo aren't usually a very good match, but my virgo guy and I get along so well and have so many things in common, it's almost eerie. So here's my story.

First off, he's 9 years older than I am. We work together but on different floors of the building. We started talking about a year and a half ago and things have been sort of building up since then yet they remain the same. When I look at his behaviour, all the signs are there that he is interested and attracted to me. But he told about 6 months ago that we're just friends. Yet things continue to build up and I'm about ready to explode!

The signs I'm talking about :
- "the" stare. He looks at me like he's trying to see inside me or trying to read what I'm thinking.
- he makes excuses to write or call or come to my office at work
- if I ask him for anything, he won't delegate it to someone else even if it's work-related and really someone else's job, he'll do it right away. He'll drop whatever he's doing to get me what I need!
- he always wants a taste or a sip of whatever I'm having. We have lunch together at least once a week, just the two of us, and we'll either share a meal or he'll pick my plate, have a sip of my drink using my straw. If I bake for my co-workers, he's my biggest customer!
- he touches me a lot. Hand on my back when we cross the street, sometimes he'll put his arm around my shoulders for a second, or he walks so close to me our shoulders touch. When he sits next to me, our legs touch.
- he's always asking me a zillion questions about everything and anything!
- compliments me a lot about my work. He' ll notice if I changed my hair or I'm wearing new clothes. He says I smell good.
- and the sexual innuendos... More and more as time goes by!

Anyway, you get the idea. People at work already think we're together and he doesn't seem to mind because he actually fuels that rumour sometimes. So you're probably wondering why I haven't made a move, right? Well, a couple of months ago, someone he had been seeing before came back into his life. He says she's not his girlfriend "yet". He never ever mentions her when I'm around. So I feel like he's pitting us against the other, he gets a work girlfriebd he can "interview" all week then spends the weekend interviewing her. Maybe that's not what he's doing but that's how it feels. I don't know what to do at this point! How to reac

Wow, didn't realize I'd blabbed on for so long till I got cut off lol Sorry! I guess my question is, would he act like this if he really saw me as just a friend? Should I wait? Or move on? I know you need to be patient with virgos. Any insight? Thanks!!

If i were in your place, then i would have asked for his phone making an excuse, then find this other girl's number from his phone and call her up afterwards. Only this girl whom he was seeing can tell you about their current relationship status.
So you find that out first and if you are not comfortable with his obsessive-compulsive behaviour towards you then just don't entertain him. He is your colleague after all.
Only talk to him when it's necessary.
From his actions what you have mentioned, i can say he dosen't see you as a friend.

Well I'm sure he really wouldn't appreciate me calling this woman. Ithink all I can do at this point is move on I guess. And tell him to start acting like a friend is that's really all that we are. :-/

Posted by Cel
Well I'm sure he really wouldn't appreciate me calling this woman. Ithink all I can do at this point is move on I guess. And tell him to start acting like a friend is that's really all that we are. :-/

When he does what he please then why should you care about him feeling bad if you call this girl? I was saying that for your safety incase you were interested in this guy. Yes i think you should better tell him to do so.

@busyeyes88, what has made you feel that the advice was not given out of best intentions?
When i have nothing against the asker and don't even know her.
I would have done that if i was her. The asker has mentioned about the other girl and has expressed her concern.
And this guy is also being super flirty with her, so i was just telling her how to know about his relationship with the other girl which will
actually help her to know more about this guy so that she can make necessary moves.
She created this topic 2 days ago. Where were you then with your brilliant advice?
Don't point out at other users here when you don't know me and i don't know you.

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Posted by Tanya Jones
If i were in your place, then i would have asked for his phone making an excuse, then find this other girl's number from his phone and call her up afterwards. Only this girl whom he was seeing can tell you about their current relationship status.
So you find that out first and if you are not comfortable with his obsessive-compulsive behaviour towards you then just don't entertain him. He is your colleague after all.
Only talk to him when it's necessary.
From his actions what you have mentioned, i can say he dosen't see you as a friend.

Looooooooool. OP do not do this. It's not your business. If you like him you can find a way to invite him out for happy hour or something w/o being to aggressive.

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Rofl, i was telling her what i would have done. She is the one to decide whether she wants to follow my advice or not. You are no one to tell her whether to follow it or not.
By the way don't give wrong advice to OP since she has already decided to move on.