I'm a Taurus man seeing a Virgo woman. Need help!

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Taurus1992
@Taurus1992
10 Years

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Hey guys and gals. THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG BUT PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING! Let me give you the whole story between me and this virgo female. I met this girl maybe 5 or 6 months ago at a retail store and I thought she was the most beautiful women ever. I instantly wanted to get to know her better so I made some small talk with her and left her my number. I didn't hear from her for a few weeks but then she messaged me on FB saying she lost my number and she remembered my name and found me. At that point we kicked it off really well we went out twice but I would stop by her job from time to time. we would call and text almost all the time till it started slowing down and then stopped. I tried reaching her with no luck and the times she did text back it was maybe 2 or 3 texts then shes gone again so I just completely ignored her after I felt she did me wrong a few months later and she messages on facebook(I deleted her when I stopped talking to her and she sent me another request and I added her) she proceeded to tell me she was sorry about how she treated me and that she was always treated so bad by her exs and when I treated her so nicely and was always a gentleman she got scared. I accepted her apology and we started to talk again this time we got to see each other more than before and after a couple of dates we held hands and hugged. I thought we were making good progress because she would always tell me about how her parents like me and they talk about me all the time and that her parents say she should date me as well as her telling me a lot of personal things. I told her I want to take things at her pace and that i'll be there for her and that i don't want to rush. Then we went to the mall because her moms bday was coming up so I told her lets go find her a bday gift so we shopped and shopped I loved spending the time with her, we spent hours at the mall and I loved every second of it after we went to her house we said our goodbyes hugged and she told me to text her when i got home. as soon as i got home i texted her saying I had a great time, sleep well princess. she replied saying she had a good time too sweet dreams. after that night i didnt hear from her even though i texted her first. It's been a week and I really like this girl and I'm willing to wait for her but I can't wait forever. What do you guys thing I should do at this point? She's the only girl I want and I have no other love interests besides her because it's really hard to catch my ey
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AbbyNormal
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12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

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make a decision. wait or dont. you say she's worth the wait and you want to go at her pace so do it and go with the flow. or since she admittedly has commitment issues due to not getting over past ex shit, leave her be and do your own thing. but the whole in and out thing wont do. be there for her or dont. i know its scary either way since real feelings are involved but it's best to be consistent if you say you want to be there for her.