I'm at a crossroad here...

My Virgo asked ME tonight where we stand. In my typical style (not sure if it a Cap thing) I threw it back at him... "Where do YOU think we stand?" He said "Well, I haven't committed to you"... I told him no, he's not married to me... but other than that I really couldn't get an answer out of him. He tried to change the subject, but I reminded him that he broached the subject and I asked about us being exclusive... he threw it right back at me "Are we?" I told him I didn't want anyone else and I wanted to be his only woman. He said he didn't want to talk about it... :/

(he is more affectionate as of late though if that means anything)

I don't know. Perhaps he wants to officialize things between the two of you.

Or maybe he doesn't and simply wants your take.

Talk to the man.

Jason, that's great advice, but he "doesn't want to talk about it" :/

Then you know what? Just let things flow and just feel the moment. Not what "could be".

Yeah, that's what I've been doing... he brought it up though. BLAH! Damn men! Love ya Jase!

Although right now I have a tiny feeling that he feels bad because you threw the question back at him seeming as if you didn't want anything serious. But thats probably just my hopeful romantic, side. =/

But its something to think about.

oh, but I followed up with exactly what I envision us to be at this point in time... exclusive! Although, all along I have told him I don't date multiple men. And with him, how could I, I see him daily and love every minute of it!!!

told him I didn't want anyone else and I wanted to be his only woman.

Oh. I totally missed that.

My reading comprehension sucks....How sad for someone who likes writing romance.

But then again I never even remember exactly what I wrote myself. I only remember how I felt.

I'm not good at remembering words, pictures, actions, or names for a long time...only feelings. =/

Sounds like he doesn\'t want to give an answer until you give yours...Make\'s no sense, it\'s not so hard. I swear sometimes...

Where are all the Virguys? 😢 I want their input too!!

Sounds like he wants you to say it first so he doesn't have to put his 'feelings' on the line.

@Pesca, A relationship is something that grows and develops, but having direction along the way is important (at least to me). I'm suspecting for My Virgo as well (makes sense as an Earth sign). The question only shocked me because it was not something I expected coming from a man - I've thought it myself. But, I wouldn't want to be going through the motions w/out a purpose and knowing that it is moving forward (otherwise, no reason to continue), I'm hoping the question arose because he is leaning the same way. I ventured down this same form of questioning with a certain Pisces not too long ago (me questioning about the same length into the relationship), didn't go over well, wanted me to simply go with the flow. My Virgo wants me to go with the flow too, but with that question, at least seems to be seeking a foundation.