I'm DYING inside. Help me please! I made mistake.

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dragongolden
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I send the picture of frozen pond to my crush (virgo guy) because he's a hockey player.
Then I texted him "Wanna play hockey on the pond?"
He texted me back "Wow that's awesome. I wish we could!"
I texted "Haha I know! But you need to teach me how to skate first so I can beat you. lol"
He texted "Haha I wish ice time was free at the rink and I would"
I texted "Deal! Is it for free right? It would be very expensive lesson for a hockey player to teach me ice skating for sure! HAHA"
Him "Haha well there are other times when people have the ice"
Me "For ice skating? I think that we need to pay for ice time. It's $ 40"

And he didn't text me back for 5 hours now.
What did he mean? I don't quite understand.
Did he blow me off?


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I texted him "Haha I just noticed that you said you wish the ice time was free. My bad. I shouldn't text anybody while playing game for sure Sorryyy"

Is it bad? I regretted that I should not text him at all 😢

😭 I know I sounded stupid! My friend said I should NOT text him the last text at all.

NOW I'M SO SAD!
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SelenaKyle
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Again I am curious as to your age.

It was a simple mistake but you are making it be a bigger deal then it is. just breath , calm down and relax. You mentioned collage in your other thread, so I am thinking early 20s for him.. but you?

Friends can give good and bad advise, same with random people on the internet.

I don't understand how people think 5 hours is an ungodly time frame to not hear from someone. What if he was at work, with his family. at work, in class. I think a day or 2 with no contact from someone that is just a friend is normal. he isn't your boyfriend, you actually have not even really interacted with him much from your own post. Even my SO in my pasts at time I wouldn't for periods of time, its normal especially if you have work/school/studies.

Again, take a deep breath and calm down. It's going to be ok.
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Nala
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If this is how you act after not receiving a text how are you going to act after a date or dare I say after sex.

Chill out. You are not dying inside. You are not dumb. You are a bit neurotic. What's your sign?

Think about his behavior up to this point. Why do you want to subject yourself to more threads devoted to him not giving you what you apparently need? You are on a college campus with hundreds maybe thousands of guys. Dress cute, do your hair, wear some perfume, smile and wait until one finds you. You have created a situation where the roles are reversed. You are the aggressor. He is a star on the hockey team. He has plenty of women after him. So now you have 2 strikes against you. If you add your freakoutness at the smallest thing that makes 3.

Right now there is a liitle voice talking to you from the inside. It is the voice of reason telling you to move on. Listen to it.
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Damnata
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We have the most swear words in the world...everything can be made into a swear word...we're creative like that.

"Stick your hand in my ass and jerk off with my shit" (Sa-mi bagi mana-n cur si sa-mi faci laba la cacat)

Who Said That? Romanians.

Dear God Why?

Romanian cursing is a bawdy, imaginative mix of the perverse and the profane. Modern linguists have determined that its roots originated from a time-traveling John Waters upon realizing there was still an entire history of people not grossed out by Pink Flamingos yet.

Other helpful Romanian phrases:

"Shampoo my dick-hair with your saliva" (Shampona-mi-ai flocii cu saliva)

"Brush your teeth, my dick will be inspecting soon!" (Spala-te pe dinti ca vin cu pula in inspectie)

Mothers are another favorite target in this region. However, rather than indulge the classic "Yo Mamma" insult architecture, they prefer to taint her sanctity in a round-about way. For example, "Usca-mi-as sosetele pe crucea ma`tii" (I dry my socks on your mother's cross) is blasphemous, but really only as a vehicle to get at the mom. You really have to applaud the balls it takes to assault God just to slam someone's mother.

Another example of this is "Futu-tzi coliva ma~tii" (Fuck your mother's funeral meal). We're not sure if this meant to simply show disdain for the deceased or demonstrate intent to fornicate with the sarmalute cu mamaliga plate, but neither is particularly polite.



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SelenaKyle
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Posted by Damnata
We have the most swear words in the world...everything can be made into a swear word...we're creative like that.

"Stick your hand in my ass and jerk off with my shit" (Sa-mi bagi mana-n cur si sa-mi faci laba la cacat)

Who Said That? Romanians.

Dear God Why?

Romanian cursing is a bawdy, imaginative mix of the perverse and the profane. Modern linguists have determined that its roots originated from a time-traveling John Waters upon realizing there was still an entire history of people not grossed out by Pink Flamingos yet.

Other helpful Romanian phrases:

"Shampoo my dick-hair with your saliva" (Shampona-mi-ai flocii cu saliva)

"Brush your teeth, my dick will be inspecting soon!" (Spala-te pe dinti ca vin cu pula in inspectie)

Mothers are another favorite target in this region. However, rather than indulge the classic "Yo Mamma" insult architecture, they prefer to taint her sanctity in a round-about way. For example, "Usca-mi-as sosetele pe crucea ma`tii" (I dry my socks on your mother's cross) is blasphemous, but really only as a vehicle to get at the mom. You really have to applaud the balls it takes to assault God just to slam someone's mother.

Another example of this is "Futu-tzi coliva ma~tii" (Fuck your mother's funeral meal). We're not sure if this meant to simply show disdain for the deceased or demonstrate intent to fornicate with the sarmalute cu mamaliga plate, but neither is particularly polite.





not sure I will be saying any of those anytime soon🙂 Especially Sa-mi bagi mana-n cur si sa-mi faci laba la cacat.... No thanks on touching Shit. Maybe we should make a separate thread so we don't hijack this one?
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Damnata
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Romanian insults often involve the sexual behavior of men or women.

Women are usually insulted by comparison to prostitutes. There is a rich vocabulary of insults involving prostitution in Romanian. Curv?? is an insult meaning whore/prostitute, or, more generally, a sexually promiscuous woman. Synonyms or near-synonyms are t?rf??, traseist??, or pizd??. The words zdrean—, boarf?? and ??toarf?? are all used to refer to a woman of low moral fiber. A pimp is usually referred to as a pe??te, which literally translated to "fish".

Profanities directed at men include poponar, curist and g??ozar, all with the same meaning of faggot. Literally, these words refer to male homosexuals, although they are generally used as insulting words towards any male, no matter their sexual orientation. The words are derived from popou, cur and g??oaz??, which translate to "butt", "ass"/"arse" and "asshole", respectively. All three reference the anus, implying the person they are directed at practices anal sex.

A womanizer or vagina-chaser is known as a fustangiu (from fust??, skirt), or pizdar, a word formed in a similar fashion to poponar.

Bulangiu has quite a complex and contradictory formation. Bulan is slang for "luck" and also for "thigh". However, the word bulangiu is used to describe a man who is either not cooperative, a backstabber, or ungrateful, and has roughly the same meaning the English ass has in the phrase "don't be an ass!" (Nu fi bulangiu!). It also may be used as an equivalent of "faggot", in gypsy slang. The female version of bulangiu may be bulangioaic?? or bulangie, but feminine forms are rare.

L??bar and labagiu refer to a male person practicing masturbation. It carries the same meaning as "moron" or "jerk" in English. These words are derived from lab??, literally "paw", but referring to masturbation in slang. The expression "a face laba" means "to jerk off". Although they are literally connected to masturbation, in the spoken language they have the same meaning as "jerk", "asshole" or "ass" when referring to an individual.

Muist and its female equivalent, muist??, both mean "blowjob (taker)" often in reference to a whore. These words derive from the interjection muie!, loosely translating to "suck my vagina" or "suck my penis", or, generally, as "up yours!", which is itself derived from gypsy slang, muj ([muj]) meaning "mouth" in Romani.
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mfwb55
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Yeh maybe its just not the right time for you both to be together or maybe it is, no stress coz only time will tell if you two will be together or not.

Just get on with you own life and meet others so you keep your horizons broadened and open not only that it'll help in the long run to stop thinking about your stress of wondering if there is a chance or not.

As with most things in life once you have your life moving the way you want it to, realising all you dreams and everything and doing your thing no matter what others may think or not think of you is when you will realise what you need to and its only until this happens that things will start going the way you want them to.

Until then, you (like the rest of us), has much work ahead of us to do to accomplish you dreams like be the dream/s you always wanted to be, its your turn now go forth and do it you shall.

Thats an order too!
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Posted by dragongolden
I send the picture of frozen pond to my crush (virgo guy) because he's a hockey player.
Then I texted him "Wanna play hockey on the pond?"
He texted me back "Wow that's awesome. I wish we could!"
I texted "Haha I know! But you need to teach me how to skate first so I can beat you. lol"
He texted "Haha I wish ice time was free at the rink and I would"
I texted "Deal! Is it for free right? It would be very expensive lesson for a hockey player to teach me ice skating for sure! HAHA"
Him "Haha well there are other times when people have the ice"
Me "For ice skating? I think that we need to pay for ice time. It's $ 40"

And he didn't text me back for 5 hours now.
What did he mean? I don't quite understand.
Did he blow me off?


Additional Details
I texted him "Haha I just noticed that you said you wish the ice time was free. My bad. I shouldn't text anybody while playing game for sure Sorryyy"

Is it bad? I regretted that I should not text him at all 😢

😭 I know I sounded stupid! My friend said I should NOT text him the last text at all.

NOW I'M SO SAD!




He's making excuses not to see you... he's just not that into you so move on 😢
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Montgomery
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Posted by Nala13
You are on a college campus with hundreds maybe thousands of guys.

Dress cute, do your hair, wear some perfume, smile and wait until one finds you.




This ^^^ -- all day long.

🙂


You didn't "lose your chance"-- you created the exchange.

And the last text you sent wrapped it up nicely.. it was nothing to feel dumb about.


Your job is to act as though you aren't fazed, whatsoever-- and you shouldn't be.

But drop it-- and don't bring it up, or pay him an ounce of attention because then you will look like an ass.


Based on your ballsy-ness, alone, you're probably a cute girl who has doors held open for her on a regular basis.

Do what Nala said and don't waste another minute on someone who doesn't think the sun rises and sets at your command.

😉



@Damnata

Moon duly noted. *grin*