Is it the end or only a rough patch

Who these Virgo men are so similar.

When you say you know that what you found out would hurt you, do you mean he was with an ex partner or was it more innocent?

While I may not be able to answer your questions, I will tell you that I’ve had a similar experience with the beautiful connection at the beginning. I’ve never slept with anyone so soon. I’ve never fallen this hard, this quick for someone. These Virgos are smooth, they are charming, they know exactly what to say to reel you in and as soon as they know that you like them and have some feelings, they push right back.

I’m at a similar point now. Everything was amazing, especially when I’d see him. God forbid I ever wanted to see him more than once a week though. I’m used to seeing someone quite often, not just once a week. I too wanted him to either text or phone me daily. It’s a normal thing that you should WANT to do when you like someone but some of these virgos don’t see it like that. The last month, I just backed right off and I have since learned that he may be going through personal issues cause I haven’t heard from him in nearly a week and he hasn’t been at work.

The most frustrating part is not hearing from them and not knowing wtf is going on.

And yes the self respect from my point of view has gone. I’vesde myself look desperate and accept everything he’s done. The worst part about this is that I still like him so much.

In your case, it’s wrong for him to lie. It’s strange because I thought Virgos are always upfront. Not to say they’ll never lie but generally should be upfront and not cheaters. I feel like they never want to talk about issues, especially when is upset their partner because this has happened to me many times With my feelings being hurt and I just had to either push them away or I’d bring them up in conversation when we were drinking or a little more relaxed.

It’s been a continuous roller coaster for me.

Did he cheat on you?

Posted by Jessss
Who these Virgo men are so similar.
When you say you know that what you found out would hurt you, do you mean he was with an ex partner or was it more innocent?
While I may not be able to answer your questions, I will tell you that I’ve had a similar experience with the beautiful connection at the beginning. I’ve never slept with anyone so soon. I’ve never fallen this hard, this quick for someone. These Virgos are smooth, they are charming, they know exactly what to say to reel you in and as soon as they know that you like them and have some feelings, they push right back.
I’m at a similar point now. Everything was amazing, especially when I’d see him. God forbid I ever wanted to see him more than once a week though. I’m used to seeing someone quite often, not just once a week. I too wanted him to either text or phone me daily. It’s a normal thing that you should WANT to do when you like someone but some of these virgos don’t see it like that. The last month, I just backed right off and I have since learned that he may be going through personal issues cause I haven’t heard from him in nearly a week and he hasn’t been at work.
The most frustrating part is not hearing from them and not knowing wtf is going on.
And yes the self respect from my point of view has gone. I’vesde myself look desperate and accept everything he’s done. The worst part about this is that I still like him so much.
In your case, it’s wrong for him to lie. It’s strange because I thought Virgos are always upfront. Not to say they’ll never lie but generally should be upfront and not cheaters. I feel like they never want to talk about issues, especially when is upset their partner because this has happened to me many times With my feelings being hurt and I just had to either push them away or I’d bring them up in conversation when we were drinking or a little more relaxed.
It’s been a continuous roller coaster for me.

@Jessss I'm new to this so I'm not entirely sure how you reply here. He spent the night with his friends and yes his ex was there too, which he refused to tell me until I forced it out of him. I know that he did not cheat on me. But my trust is broken cause of the lying. I recently visited him and he were great together as usual. He said he'd never lie about his ex again but a part of me still feels like this will happen again. I'm still trying to understand his ways of showing affection. It's not the usual way he can go days without staying in touch but when we talk it's the same. He doesn't express his emotions but when i watch his behaviour I can see the little things he does that shows he loves me. Ive been trying to adjust to that ever since I moved to a different city. I know he's trying too i think to stay in touch more frequently because that's what I need. It's a difficult year for both of us work wise so all I can do is hope that we make it because this is not something I want to lose,especially over small issues.

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Posted by Jessss
Who these Virgo men are so similar.
When you say you know that what you found out would hurt you, do you mean he was with an ex partner or was it more innocent?
While I may not be able to answer your questions, I will tell you that I’ve had a similar experience with the beautiful connection at the beginning. I’ve never slept with anyone so soon. I’ve never fallen this hard, this quick for someone. These Virgos are smooth, they are charming, they know exactly what to say to reel you in and as soon as they know that you like them and have some feelings, they push right back.
I’m at a similar point now. Everything was amazing, especially when I’d see him. God forbid I ever wanted to see him more than once a week though. I’m used to seeing someone quite often, not just once a week. I too wanted him to either text or phone me daily. It’s a normal thing that you should WANT to do when you like someone but some of these virgos don’t see it like that. The last month, I just backed right off and I have since learned that he may be going through personal issues cause I haven’t heard from him in nearly a week and he hasn’t been at work.
The most frustrating part is not hearing from them and not knowing wtf is going on.
And yes the self respect from my point of view has gone. I’vesde myself look desperate and accept everything he’s done. The worst part about this is that I still like him so much.
In your case, it’s wrong for him to lie. It’s strange because I thought Virgos are always upfront. Not to say they’ll never lie but generally should be upfront and not cheaters. I feel like they never want to talk about issues, especially when is upset their partner because this has happened to me many times With my feelings being hurt and I just had to either push them away or I’d bring them up in conversation when we were drinking or a little more relaxed.
It’s been a continuous roller coaster for me.

@Jessss I'm new to this so I'm not entirely sure how you reply here. He spent the night with his friends and yes his ex was there too, which he refused to tell me until I forced it out of him. I know that he did not cheat on me. But my trust is broken cause of the lying. I recently visited him and he were great together as usual. He said he'd never lie about his ex again but a part of me still feels like this will happen again. I'm still trying to understand his ways of showing affection. It's not the usual way he can go days without staying in touch but when we talk it's the same. He doesn't express his emotions but when i watch his behaviour I can see the little things he does that shows he loves me. Ive been trying to adjust to that ever since I moved to a different city. I know he's trying too i think to stay in touch more frequently because that's what I need. It's a difficult year for both of us work wise so all I can do is hope that we make it because this is not something I want to lose,especially over small issues. click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand

So he didn't have sex with the ex but your trust in him is broken?

"Hey honey, I spent the night with the boys and remember Mary? my ex? yeah she was there too..okay baby I need go to work, talk to you later"
^You would be okay with this and not freak out/grill his ass further on what happened?

if you get what I'm saying, you should understand why he prolly didn't tell you.


Not to say that sex didn't cross his mind but if he didn't act on it...he probably chose you.
That means the ex is old news.
Like sometimes you have to try something last time in order to finally say goodbye to it.

There's a minus side tho.
If he caught up on your broken trust - it can go either way.
*This will depend on your actions more than anything*

option 1) "I'm sorry, this won't happen again"
- Both of you let it slide and life will go on.

option 2) "Ok, so I broke your trust (which apparently you didn't have alot to begin with).....treetrunk you, let's play then"

This is all me speculating and whatever sticks - sticks, idk either one of you, I'm just telling you:
If he's generally a good dude, he will find a good woman.
If you are a good woman - know your worth.
If he cheats - treetrunk it.


Go have fun together

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Yes I see you're point. I know you're right. It's not a serious issue. I think I focused on it only cause of my own insecurities and emotional baggage. He's a great man and deserves alot better than to be treated this way. These are things I know and understand but the lie got the better of me.. I hope it gets better from here. Thank you for your views!! 🙂

lol virgos really are all the same

this virgo dude ik kept hiding things from me and disappearing for weeks and come back as if nothing happened, constantly lying about what he was doing and why he wasnt replying. i understand ur scorp character, i'd be pretty pissed too (and jealous) knowing he was at a party and the ex was there too and lying about it. i would have trust issues after that too, and trust me when i tell u its gon be worse, the more attached u get the worse it'll be, they have this thing of fucking things up when they notice people getting attached.

i know its not easy, the virgo man scorp woman connection really is something else. never felt that with anyone and still after he did me bad so many times, cant forget him, but ik i deserve better, just like u