is there a chance?

So I'm a Scorpio and he is a Virgo, I posted before but here is a little update??_ we finally made out after 3 months and it was so passionate, we did not have sex though as I would prefer commitment for that. He actually tested me on that, if I really mean it. So he tried his luck and I said you know I don't want that, and he said just checking if you really mean it, ha
The thing is he is not sure if he would like a relationship with me, he is still debating and his gut feeling tells him we will both get hurt in the end. I wanted to finish everything completely; no contact and he did not want that he said we should not see each other for a while. Do you guys think there is any chance? He said he is usually pretty quick with committing, just not with me. It's really weird, he has those shiny eyes and always gives me the special smile; he even said he likes me a LOT and likes everything about me and what I do and say, it's just his gut feeling. While we made out he was very confused and wondered why we did it and said he does not want to get my hopes up, well we are adults and clearly enjoyed what we were doing.

Oh we did not have contact for a week before our last meeting due to me and him being on holidays, he said he did not miss me but he thought of me??_

Advice would be nice, as I am a bit lost, is that just the way he is or does he string me along?

Cheers 🙂

I don't think anything would happen if I had sex with him, I would just feel bad afterwards. I know what you mean, but I was blown away by the passion in bed, he really surprised me.

I should really do that, but I don't give up that easily, sadly😉

I know what you mean, That's the problem, I have never been so sure before. My gut feeling tells me not to give up. It's so weird...the actions from his side are there, and I know from guys that they usually give you words but never action. Hm x

I would move on. Men are simple and tell you what they want. He already said he did not miss you and that he didn't want a relationship with you. I would simply move on. If you have sex with him I guarantee he will dissapear and you will be hurt.

"Oh we did not have contact for a week before our last meeting due to me and him being on holidays, he said he did not miss me but he thought of me??_

Advice would be nice, as I am a bit lost, is that just the way he is or does he string me along?


So...imagine if you did have sex with him and he said the above to you?? I don't think you need advice, instead a pat on the back for not setting yourself up for disappointment. You would have been more lost if you slept with him. Hang onto that self respect hon, cuz he sure gave you a clue he wouldn't. Good luck.