Is This A Typical Virgo Man

My Virgo interest came to visit me last week. Now I feel as if I wish I hadn't met him at all. The relationship seem to be going really quick comma and even though he stated that he would slow it down I feel that he was playing games. When he came to town he had zero money on him and rode to town on a Greyhound bus. He also left on a Megabus. Total round trip cost him $ 45. I was courteous enough to agree to provide food since he was staying with me. Things went left when he asked me for money, even though it was only $ 20. I don't like me and asking me for money especially those who really haven't known me for a long time. After his arrival I found out that he had not paid his car note, his rent, and that his phone was being turned off. Let's just say he got no money to help pay any bills. The thing that confuses me, with shouldn't, is that he says that I missed out on an opportunity to have a good man. I asked him about his financial situation considering the fact that he wanted to have a real relationship. He explained to me that it was too soon to talk about his financial situation, but I feel that we were on the path of developing a relationship too soon. I thought that Virgos were very honest and upfront. I just couldn't shake the fact that he wasn't being honest about everything in the beginning. Not to mention the jealousy issues when other men were around. We had went out and he was holding my hand as we walked across the street period and older gentleman complimented us on that act and he claimed that the guy would have tried to hit on me if he wasn't around. I ran into a male co-worker and simply waved at him as he was getting in his car and mr. Virgo stated that this guy would have been trying to sleep with me if he wasn't around. The public display of affection was intense. A bit too much for my taste, but I accepted it. After a while it started to feel really good, but I soon realized that he was marking his territory. That would have been great and now if he wasn't such a jealous guy. He also seems controlling, which I find to be scary. I know that Virgos can be controlling comma but it almost seemed as if it was on an abusive nature. Am I wrong for thinking that this guy should have came to town with at least some pocket money on him. I didn't expect him to buy me anything, but coming to someone else's hometown without any money screams broke.

I let him meet some of my family and friends and they all said that he looks like he was a guy that didn't have any money and for me to be careful that he was not trying to use me. Is this typical a Virgo men?

Step back. Put yourself in someone else's body and psyche. Read what you just wrote. Try to be as objective as your can be. I sense walking victim and substance issues here.

Seems you just have bad taste in men.

Posted by Weeds
Seems you just have bad taste in men.

The absolute worst and I'll admit it.

Posted by iloveitaly
Step back. Put yourself in someone else's body and psyche. Read what you just wrote. Try to be as objective as your can be. I sense walking victim and substance issues here.

Yup. I have to agree with this. The thing is is that he could have been honest since he seemed so honest about everything else. I didn't notice that he could have potentially had a substance problem except for the fact that he smoke vapor. We went to The Vapor Shop and he asked me what his budget was. I got so mad, and I expressed my anger. We had a talk about me not giving men money earlier that day, so I felt like he was testing me period wrong move

Posted by iloveitaly
Step back. Put yourself in someone else's body and psyche. Read what you just wrote. Try to be as objective as your can be. I sense walking victim and substance issues here.

Yup. I have to agree with this. The thing is is that he could have been honest since he seemed so honest about everything else. I didn't notice that he could have potentially had a substance problem except for the fact that he smoke vapor. We went to The Vapor Shop and he asked me what his budget was. I got so mad, and I expressed my anger. We had a talk about me not giving men money earlier that day, so I felt like he was testing me period wrong move

Did he at least not fucking reek?

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
"On this week's episode :



the Gemini female meets the Virgo male"

Not a good combo when one of us is not up to standard.