hopelesscapricorn
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Is this virgo worth waiting for?
Posted by LeoVeen
Has he not had anyone else in the past two years?
He was in a 5 year relationship (high school through college). I met him when they were still together. However they broke up about a year ago.
Sounds like you lack values and standards.
It may be that he'll come around to you one day, when all of his priorities are dealt with. Because he knows that you sit on the back burner, like a good little puppy dog.
If he does decide to throw you bone ... there's no doubt in my mind that you'll eagerly wag your tail in hopes of another scrap.
"It'll probably be another two yrs before I find out, ha!"
Probably longer than that. Twenty years will roll by before you figure out that this guy doesn't have feelings for you in that way. He seems to be ok with friendzoning you.
He knows you like him and he's got you on a string. He's got all the power here and he knows it. That's a terrible basis for a relationship. You need to stop pining over men for years that aren't interested in you enough to ask you out. Save yourself for someone who will ask you out, court you, invest some energy. You're fooling yourself to believe this is gonna lead to more than a short term fling....at his convenience and for the benefit of his ego, of course. Bottom line. If he dug you, you'd know way before now. He just likes knowing he's got you on a string.
This post made me think of my brother who is a Virgo. Before he married his current wife, he said he knew she was in love with him for years and he went and married someone else and had a child. She waited on him and when they divorced he came back to her. She was mad, but she still wanted to be with him. They have been married over 20 years and he treats her like crap. He does not respect her and knows shes not going to leave him.
Posted by GeorgiaPeach
This post made me think of my brother who is a Virgo. Before he married his current wife, he said he knew she was in love with him for years and he went and married someone else and had a child. She waited on him and when they divorced he came back to her. She was mad, but she still wanted to be with him. They have been married over 20 years and he treats her like crap. He does not respect her and knows shes not going to leave him.
No offense to your brother, but he gets the biggest side-eye. Why marry someone you never respected? It makes it seem like it was a desperate move on his part.
You guys certainly are very pessimistic on these here boards. So much negative energy.
Posted by P-Angel
Sounds like you lack values and standards.
It may be that he'll come around to you one day, when all of his priorities are dealt with. Because he knows that you sit on the back burner, like a good little puppy dog.
If he does decide to throw you bone ... there's no doubt in my mind that you'll eagerly wag your tail in hopes of another scrap.
If I had a dick, I'd tell you to suck it. Your negativity is not needed.
Sounds like he likes you back but when it comes to men and women it's all a game.
He knows how you feel it's best to remain aloof and don't get your expectations too high let things fall naturally.
He knows how you feel it's best to remain aloof and don't get your expectations too high let things fall naturally.
And might I add, I don't sit around like a little puppy dog. I still date other guys when I get asked. I've learned to not put all my eggs in one basket. But if virgo does come around and decide to get serious, I'd drop them all like a hot potato.
Posted by CuriousramPosted by hopelesscapricorn
I've been friends with a virgo guy for 2 years now. I'm a capricorn.
say I'd make an amazing girlfriend. I've been waiting two years for him to say something like thisclick to expand
We were never anything more than friends. We're just now starting to reveal our feelings to each other is what I mean.
Octoberbaby,
yeah I've been being as aloof as possible...and I try not to get my hopes up too high with him because sometimes he lets me down or gets me to thinking that what he says isn't true. It's confusing but all I can do is keep my distance
yeah I've been being as aloof as possible...and I try not to get my hopes up too high with him because sometimes he lets me down or gets me to thinking that what he says isn't true. It's confusing but all I can do is keep my distance
Posted by P-Angel
Sounds like you lack values and standards.
It may be that he'll come around to you one day, when all of his priorities are dealt with. Because he knows that you sit on the back burner, like a good little puppy dog.
If he does decide to throw you bone ... there's no doubt in my mind that you'll eagerly wag your tail in hopes of another scrap.
Posted by hopelesscapricorn
I've been confused for about 2 yrs now. Lol...well maybe not that long. I met him two yrs ago and we started off as friends. hit it off really easy in our a class we had together in college. We never dated but always showed affection towards each other. He'd come over to my dorm sometimes and we'd take naps together, cuddle, all that good friendly innocent stuff. When I met him he had a girlfriend so we couldn't be more than friends.
Then the broke up and we started getting more intimate but I always knew he wasn't the type of guy for a relationship. However, he would always randomly say "I like you." and it would catch me off guard because one minute he's telling me he's not the type for a relationship but the next he's telling me he likes me. which one is it!?
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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-sends-mixed-signals-5134122/#5134123
Posted by hopelesscapricorn
I try not to get my hopes up too high with him because sometimes he lets me down or gets me to thinking that what he says isn't true. It's confusing but all I can do is keep my distance
Sounds like a little risky Relationship, it all d?pends on your trust level without being naive at the same time
Fot the question you asked, what are we supposed to answer ? Lol, if YOU don't know, how can stangers know better about the pattern your Relationship will take
Dated 10/14/2014 .... thanks LIB for reminding us who this girl is.
Posted by hopelesscapricorn
I met him two yrs ago and we started off as friends. hit it off really easy in our a class we had together in college. We never dated but always showed affection towards each other. He'd come over to my dorm sometimes and we'd take naps together, cuddle, all that good friendly innocent stuff. When I met him he had a girlfriend so we couldn't be more than friends.
Then the broke up and we started getting more intimate but I always knew he wasn't the type of guy for a relationship.
You're the one who cuddled and napped with another woman's man.
You're just another cunt.
Posted by hopelesscapricorn
You guys certainly are very pessimistic on these here boards. So much negative energy.
Let me guess .... because you think that being a cunt who participates in cheating with a taken man, and participates in potentially harming an innocent woman emotionally by taking her man .... means that you are deserving of respect and decency?
You actually think you deserve positive input when you're an abuser.
lol .... what a fucking moron.
Ask him directly what he feels about you. Virgo prefer to be chased rather than to chase- but if it has been that long and he's interested in a relationship with you too, then he'd have sent you some signals.
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