Just Friends—

Do you have a friend that you would consider being more intimate with...anyone...anyone?

No, I wouldn't want to put a great friendship at risk by take the chance it could ruin everything a friendship is built on. Actually, I have just lost a friend today. It's for the better as time went on I felt the friendship was starting to drain on me and I was getting sadder and sadder. The guy is a Virgo. Never encounted a Virgo before, at least that I know of, and I have to say it's been a worthwhile experience but not one I'd want to go through again. He and I got to know each other very quickly. I'm an Aquarian so I love to make new friends. He would constantly call me every day. Then it went for while that I would hear from him within two days. He always wanted me to know how popular he is among girls which never seemed to bother me. Anyway, in the recent I have hardly heard from him and I was getting a bad feeling. Turns out the bad feeling I was having was right. Sometimes I can be very blunt so I called him today asking what was going on. Oh, suddenly he has girlfriend. I said: So? There should be no change in our friendship. He said his new girlfriend is the jealous type. All girls he seems to attract are always jealous. I think he uses the excuse of jealousy on the girls part. I asked him what did he want to do then since his new girlfriend was the jealous type. Oh, he would call me at another time. By the way, since he has a new girlfriend he has a lot on his mind. Typical Virgo. I told him not to bother. I said to him that I wanted to know where I stood with him and finally I got my answer. I'm so happy for that. I don't like someone playing games with me. I just don't see why he can't stay friends with me. I'm not after him at all. Anyway, the friendship was not meant to be but I learnt so much. I won't deny, I am a little sad because I thought he and I had a unique friendship. Seems like I was wrong. I don't need someone calling me out of the blue just when they feel like it. I don't think all Virgos are the same but I did get somewhat hurt by him. He said he and I would always be friends. Although when I'm writing this I see some clues. He would tell me he doesn't respect himself or anybody, he's an a**hole etc,. I would always say that wasn't true. Maybe he was right. Next time I encounter a Virgo, I will be more cautious. Today, I am a little blue but I will get past this. In life nothing is a guarantee.

Hi all. I'm not on here much but just wanted to give my input. I am an aquarius female and was just dumped by a virgo male. We hooked up again after not talking for 7 years. This time it lasted about 6 weeks. He always talked about us being friends, then he said he loved me, then he wanted to marry me and now its over. I was hurt for all about 2 days since I realized I obviously didnt mean that much to him. I felt him pulling away and asked if it was going too fast and he always said no. Obviously my gut was right. My question for virgo's is: When its over and they say they want to be friends do they/you really mean it? I'm wondering if it's just something to say at the end of a relationship.