LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNELL!!

So I been dealing with a few virgos UGH. I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible. I met virgo 1 almost 2 years ago. At that time I was clueless about this species of men. But I did learn alot. It didnt really work out but we stayed really good friends. Recently I met Virgo 2. ACTS EXCATLY how virgo 1 acted in the beginning. Same games same bull shit. Lately virgo 2 has been mia. Virgo 1 has been calling me to hang out more often but ive been too busy for him. The few times we did hang out he tried putting the moves on me and I said NO. "WE ARE JUST FREINDS AND THATS IT". Today I was bored and went to visit virgo 1. Same thing again. Tried to put the moves on me and I pushed him away. I gave him the same explanation. This time he responded with "Why cant we be in a relationship?" AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Where the heck did that come from. I know it sounds like hes trying to get in my pants but hes never ever said that. I played it off like i didnt believe him but he wasnt laughing at all. I don't know how i even feel about being in a relationship with this one. I got over that a long time ago. I think i'm not gonna give any definate answers right now and just keep him on relationship probation. and do the same with virgo 2 😉. I just dont have the heart to be anyones girlfriend at this point. If anything is gonna happen it has to happen slow. Anyone got any insight? OR need any?

No Virgo 1 is from the past. I got over him and really truely just liked him as a freind. He feels like a big brother figure to me.

"I just dont have the heart to be anyones girlfriend at this point. If anything is gonna happen it has to happen slow."

These two sentences are very interesting. When your heart isn't into something, you don't do your best because you aren't fully motivated. You must never do something, regarding relationships, that your heart isn't into. Relationships are hard enough as it is and when you could start something when not fully motivated, it could fail. What you should do is stay free and single until the right guy appears. He will, that's for sure. These two Virgo guys don't seem to be the right one for you. If they were, something would have happened by now. Oh, and it's totally understandable that you want things to happen slowly. If something starts too quickly, it's likely to end just as quickly.

If some guy kept putting the moves on me when I've told him directly several times not to, he's not respecting my wishes. When Virgo nr.1 does this, he's not respecting what you've told him. That's a no-no. Maybe if you want to hang out with Virgo nr. 1, you could do so other than going to his house (I think that is where you went to visit him). It seems like he has feelings for you but he should also not try anything with you especially when you've already told him you're just friends.

In my opinion you should keep your head clear and not thinking about relationships. There will plenty of time for that. Don't worry. Things will work out the way they are suppose to.

Thanks mystical your so right. Oh and today hes playing it off like yesterday was all a big joke. YEAH RIGHT. Nice escape rought.

Brahn, He's the one that decied to be with me after I got over him. Why am I being accused of wanting what I can't have. I think Virgo 1 is guilty of that.

I haven't heard from virgo 2 in a few days so it's not lookin like thats going anywhere. But hes so predictable I'm willing to bet my life that I'll be getting a happy easter text tomorrow.

"But hes so predictable I'm willing to bet my life that I'll be getting a happy easter text tomorrow."

Just as I predicted. 10:30 this morning I got a Happy Easter Text. I responded back thanks same 2 u. A couple hours later I sent him another asking him "miss me yet". No response.

This is so typical. He wants to keep me thinking of him. WHATEVER. I went out last night and had a blast and still recovering 🙂.

HappyCrab,

I am smiling... This Mr V's and their subtle sloooooooooooooow ways...
You must be feeling GOOD. Try to read between the lines and more from his less words..

Ok so I don't get it!!! Why is he still ignoring me. I'm starting to wonder if he met someone new. But he's not the type to jump into anything so serious that he can't even respond to a text message. And even so he has a ton of freinds male and female that he still keeps in touch with regularly. I feel like hes pushing me away specifically. If we were suposedly just "friends" why is he pushing off like this. It's kinda scary because this is the first time hes pulled away like this for so long during our whole 6 months of talking. At most it would only last a couple days and he would come around eventually.

Thanks merc. But you need to expand a bit more.

Sounds like my ex I been there and also sounds like this guy who seems to get off by ignoring me and then teasing me by sending little happy easter texts messages. I think he gets off by me trying to contact him when he gives me the impression that he's not interested. He is always seeking reassurance. This is so typical.

Ofcourse you knew i'd say that because you set me up.

What gesture. Stop speaking in code.

No all I was doing was telling you that I did know what it was like for someone to get off on my pain and I did not like it one bit. I don't know where I'm doing that right now weather its to you, ex, virgo 1 or virgo 2. By the way ex is not virgo 1.

The whole getting off on my pain sounds like my ex. He used to do that.

"how would you feel is somebody felt good off of your pain?"

where were you going with that?

then why did you ask?

then what happend?

Well you can't just ban yourself from dating any person of a specific sign..Except for Cancers. I will never ever ever date a cancer man. nor do I recommend it.

No actually thats one sign that I would be willing to date. Don't change my mind merc.

My best friend and I were discussing that yesterday. She's a taurus and we were saying that I should be with a taurus since it is a compatible sign for me.

Your not changing my mind intentionally.

Thats fine. Not really looking for a fling anyway.

Well you made it sound like its a bad thing for someone to decide to hang on to you.

Do all Tauruses like to side track and get off subject like you?

Read the initial post.

I actually decided that I'm really not into virgo 1 enough to get involved more than just friends. I think I use him as a measure of whats to happen next with virgo 2. In the mean time my options are open. I just kinda miss Virgo 2's friendship and wonder what has pushed him away. But He'll be back. They always do come back.

Mixed with what?

HC,

Well, I'm glad to have read Virgo guy did send you a Happy Easter text. You seem to know him very well. A question though. Why are you so sure Virgo 2 will be back? Are you speaking for your knowledge of Virgo 2, or is that general for all Virgos in your experience? Just curious.

It's a combonation of a few things.
1)Yes it is from my past experience with virgos
2)He's not going to find better. He's way into me thats not the issue.
3)Hes not the type to cut all ties with exes. Stays friends with everyone
4)We have the same circle of friends.
5)He's known to be moody and is known to have hibernation spells.

How did I push him away? How do you know? and How are you all those signs in one. Are you refering to your planets as well or are you trying to tell me you were born under multiple sun signs.

So I shouldn't have confidence in myself?? Your still not making any valid points. Your just taking shots at me and not offering real insight. Unless if my problem was that I should think that I'm not good enough and that I have a false sence of confidence then thanks for the advice I will really consider it next time around. NOT

I have a virgo ascendant

I would like V2 to be more than just a freind but if he just wants to be friends thats fine. I just hate when my friends have a stick up there ass male or female. And the only reason why i'm comparing V2 with V1 is because up until this point he has acted in the same way that V1 acted. Well even now V1 would dissapear from time to time as well but he always would end up coming back around.

That's interesting. V2 will probably come around when he's good and ready. It seems to be the way things go with them. It's either their way or no way. In my experience, I've come to the point with no way.

yup

Hey Merc stop trying to keep me all to yourself.

Thanks Scopio goat.

How do you figure that comment was a slap in the face. I was just being nice and trying to let him know that I was willing to get over it if he was (whatever it is)

Why would you think of that as a slap in the face Merc?

the last time we communicated was last tuesday and it was via text messages. He stood me up for the 3rd time in a row to go running. I told him I need to find a new running partner because hes not making the cut. then he kept responding to my texts with "cool" over and over again and it got really annoying hes 36 acting like hes 16. So then I got fed up and said your getting boring i need to find a new texting partner. And that was it. Ofcourse I got a "cool" for that and he hasnt called ever since or responded to my texts. I thought he was history until I got the Happy Easter so I assumed it was a peaceful gesture. Guess not

No it's not a big deal he has said it to me lots of times in an effort to make up after not talking for a couple days. As a matter of fact V1 would go away for a week or so and would call and the first thing he would say was HEY DO YOU MISS ME?

lol oh no not you too

yeah me too scopio 😉. At least for trying to get him to talk to me. I don't think it would be so cool if it happend by force anyway. But I can totally see him saying "oh just for that smart ass comment (need a new text partner) I'm gonna give her a week off. I'm willing to bet that I'll hear from him tomorrow since that will make it 1 week. V1 was doing that and he feels stupid now because I can care less if he calls me at all or not. He's even asked me why I never tried to call him. Weirdos

One thing for sure, who ever deals with Virgo Guys for personal relation ships becomes great analyzer to the point we can award a Ph.D. for that 😉

Yeah you got that right. If I researched a cure for cancer like I did virgo men I think I would have come up with something by now. 🙂

Ya - I FULLY AGREE...

You must have been the inventor for all kind of cancer cures - BUT understand ONE VIRGO head!

BTW- did you know they are very good at PROVOKING others ?
To know the TRUTH.. They will piss you off so that you have no choice but bluff and then as you know its' never thier fault..

Oh yes he loves to provoke me. He admit it once and said he gets a big thrill out of it. and I quote "It's even a bigger thrill than wacking off." I think the reaction they get out of us is reassurance that we care about them.

Well he was dead serious. I made sure cuz I asked him and he said he wasn't kidding. As a matter of fact he said sometimes the arms get tired so I call and pick on you instead. Anyhow I'm off to the GYM.

Still no word from V2 😢. Today is tuesday and it is the 1 week point. Lets see if my predictions are accurate again.

Well, it could be he knows you are waiting to hear from him. Virgos can be intuitive so he might want to make you sweat it out. Be strong, and stand your ground. No need for you take contact with him.

Yeah believe me I know this very well. I don't really have the desire to call since I know theres no point since he doesn't respond anyway so it will only cause me to embarass my self more than I feel like I already have.

Yeah, been there myself so I speak from experience. I hear ya.