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This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Justadudeyolo on Thursday, August 25, 2016 and has 11 replies.

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@Justadudeyolo
10 Years

So I'm a Pisces having an LDR with a Virgo, we have been dating for almost three years and and an LDR for a yeAr, she told me she is getting tired of me and her love for me is fading away,

I have been trying everything in my power to get her attention back but nothing works, her reply to me is she is always busy,

I have never see it coming, that it going this way, I ask her what is bothering her and she told me that I wasn't supporting of everything she do, which is not true coz I did everything she ask me to do, it took some time to do it but I got it done, now she is pretty much cold blooded, reply one thing and forget about me, I ask what she wants to do with our relationship but no answer from her side, I do not not if she likes another man or just really trying to get over me, need advice, coz I really see this woman to be my wife and I do not know what I did wrong

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@Averyconfusedwolf
10 Years

Posted by Justadudeyolo
So I'm a Pisces having an LDR with a Virgo, we have been dating for almost three years and and an LDR for a yeAr, she told me she is getting tired of me and her love for me is fading away,

I have been trying everything in my power to get her attention back but nothing works, her reply to me is she is always busy,

I have never see it coming, that it going this way, I ask her what is bothering her and she told me that I wasn't supporting of everything she do, which is not true coz I did everything she ask me to do, it took some time to do it but I got it done, now she is pretty much cold blooded, reply one thing and forget about me, I ask what she wants to do with our relationship but no answer from her side, I do not not if she likes another man or just really trying to get over me, need advice, coz I really see this woman to be my wife and I do not know what I did wrong

Look, most Virgos are cold, emotionless beings that only think with "logic"(lol, I know what logic is. In reality they just manipulate reality to suit their material needs.) You're better off with a cancer. Just be straightfoward with them from the get-go. Don't lead a cancer on or hide the truth from them & be ready to remind them

you love them.(If you fuck with a cancer you will regret it. Trust me, they'll water you down with constant pinching & won't stop till you bleed out.) As for the Virgo? Nah. She's gotten what she wanted from you, so now you've become expendable. I'm a virgo, so i'm guilty as charged. I've matured over the years and I have regrets, but its too late to redeem myself, so I moved on. But hear me out: They don't appreciate true love and compassion. They don't understand it. I didn't for a very long time, so its time to tell HER you are done. No fruits in trying to fix everything for her. Let her come to you later on. If she doesn't, she really didn't care. And if she does come back, be very cautious of her.

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@hera
12 Years

If a person ever tells me: i am growing tired of you, i would turn around and walk away.. Its over..

You asked her for an explanation , she gave u..

What else do you need? Walk away...

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@Averyconfusedwolf
10 Years

@starwars Aaah I get it. You're a troll that only spams annoying gifs and memes at people who "triggered you" rather than giving a rational argument. Lmfao, Grow up.

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@Loladoll
17 Years

Posted by Justadudeyolo
So I'm a Pisces having an LDR with a Virgo, we have been dating for almost three years and and an LDR for a yeAr, she told me she is getting tired of me and her love for me is fading away,

I have been trying everything in my power to get her attention back but nothing works, her reply to me is she is always busy,

I have never see it coming, that it going this way, I ask her what is bothering her and she told me that I wasn't supporting of everything she do, which is not true coz I did everything she ask me to do, it took some time to do it but I got it done, now she is pretty much cold blooded, reply one thing and forget about me, I ask what she wants to do with our relationship but no answer from her side, I do not not if she likes another man or just really trying to get over me, need advice, coz I really see this woman to be my wife and I do not know what I did wrong

When was the last time you visited or last time you were together?

What did she ask you to do?

Have you discussed being together long term/ do she know you see her as a potential wife?

I normally only go icy when I feel betrayed or like the person doesn't love me.

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@Virgoscent
10 Years

Well the only times I behave the way your girlfriend is behaving at the moment is when I'm disappointed with someone or when I don't care about them anymore. Now try to resonate her attitude with whatever is going on between the two of you in order to solve this problem.