Maybe u have 2 much masculine energy women

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by virgoking on Sunday, May 4, 2014 and has 26 replies.

Signs of Excess Masculine Energy in Women

Having too much masculine energy can affect relationships by making women seem less nurturing or approachable. Recognizing the traits and understanding how to balance energy can improve personal connections and attract healthier relationships. Explore ways to harmonize your energy to foster better intimacy and emotional balance.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
#earthmenproblems

Yes.

Fire sign men will take it as competition and run with it. They get off on competition.
Air sign men will diffuse the masculine energy with talking. They find it cute.
Water sign men will switch their vibe to mesh with yours.

It's Earth sign men who need a strong partner but won't allow a woman to be masculine. You have to disguise it underneath a damsel in distress or be a water sign.

The iron fist in a velvet glove is referring dirrectly to dating earth sign men.

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@virgoking
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Damnata

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
#earthmenproblems

Yes.

Fire sign men will take it as competition and run with it. They get off on competition.
Air sign men will diffuse the masculine energy with talking. They find it cute.
Water sign men will switch their vibe to mesh with yours.

It's Earth sign men who need a strong partner but won't allow a woman to be masculine. You have to disguise it underneath a damsel in distress or be a water sign.

The iron fist in a velvet glove is referring dirrectly to dating earth sign men.

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I'm talking about long term that's true in the beginning than the fire air men will get tired and run off. Earth men we avoid them because we don't won't to go to jail lol. Because those women are line steppers cough Chris brown cough.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I'm talking about long term also.

If you want to use deceit to trap a man, use it on a Earth Sign man. It will work flawlessly.

You need to make it in a way that you're in a relationship with them before they figure it out. Or else they panic and get scuuuured.

I cannot do it myself because I cannot be deceitful with someone I am interested in..but Earth Men totally eat that drama for breakfast, lunch and dinner. And hey, if it floats their boat, then their partners truly GET them.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

We are referring to 2 completely different things Ixion.

You equate masculine with her being the man in the relationship. I equate it with energy. Earth signs have feminine energy around them. We mesh well with masculine energy.

In your mind you see masculine as aggressive and obnoxious. I see it as assertive, knows what she wants.

In the end, all our opinions are subjective since they mirror the experiences we had in our lives. I am not projecting, going off the interactions I know to be true. If they're not..oh well.

Out of the 4 elements so far water and fire understand my energy and it's not what it seems. I can talk it through to air and they also get it. Earth? I get "-.-" looks.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

I only watched a minute of the video and quite frankly, it's as revolting as the OP's implication that all people would have the same preferences ...

It's like your thought process stopped at the moment of introduction, and made a decision from that shallow point.

because clearly, you have no clue that for your argument to be valid - every person would have to be the same.

Really? ... that's as far as the rabbit hole goes?

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@2BlackIndian3
12 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Well I wouldn't mind a woman who is masculine energy dominate. I think I need someone like that to balance me out. Plus they have things I lack, which can make for a good pairing. I see the masculine energy women more as assertive & respectful of themselves. I like the assertiveness they have. But that's just me

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@MoonArtist
12 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Damnata

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
#earthmenproblems

Yes.

Fire sign men will take it as competition and run with it. They get off on competition.
Air sign men will diffuse the masculine energy with talking. They find it cute.
Water sign men will switch their vibe to mesh with yours.

It's Earth sign men who need a strong partner but won't allow a woman to be masculine. You have to disguise it underneath a damsel in distress or be a water sign.

The iron fist in a velvet glove is referring dirrectly to dating earth sign men.

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I can vouch for the earth sign thing. I might be heavy water sign but I have a venus leo and an aries mars. I'm girly girl and tomboy in one. The ex taurus didn't know how to handle a woman who wasn't a dithering idiot or a betty crocker wife. I think at times I scared him. On the occasions that his temper had reached a point where he cocked a fist to hit me I was so enraged (and I go cold when I'm in a rage) that I stared him down and dared him to hit me, told him to find out what would happen if he did. As for what would have happened if had tried to hit me....well, I don't give a rats ass about my personal safety when I'm that mad and I will take a person down or die trying if they cross that line with me. I'm 5'3 and he's 6'. I've never seen my face when I'm completely pissed off but whatever he saw in my eyes made him pause and then storm off after hitting the walls or a door.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Just came home and watched the video.. I got 4 points lol😛

I do agree with what she said about masculine women being more attracted to more feminine men. At least that's been my case.

i notice this too in real life.

I wonder if the lady in the video is single or taken. She's very attractive though. i also didn't get that she's complaining that she's more masculine.

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@virgoking
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

I think a lot of people still don't get it so I'll explain if you have a lot of masculine energy doesn't mean you look like a man. On the contrary women that have a lot of masculine energy look more feminine than those with less of that energy. What she is talking about is rolls in relationships masculine energy gives and feminine receives. If your a women that alway feel like you the one always giving in the relationship than it means you have a lot of masculine energy and you need to fall back. Let him take control and give to you how is he going to do that if your always giving. Now you don't have to be born a masculine sun sign to have masculine energy if your chart is heavy fire or air you have masculine energy. I put it even simpler every women on this board has said I'm attracted to masculine men nothing wrong with it and your right. So why is it wrong when men want women to be feminine and remember I'm talking about actions not looks. Like I said before there a lot women who look feminine on the out side but inside it's a man baby lmao.

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@Onephatkittykatt
13 YearsGemini

Earth signs are always attracted to me. I have met a couple of air and water sign but nothing has ever materialized. I chop that up to my Aries Venus and Mars both in the 8th house.

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@bloodflood
12 Years500+ Posts

i actually pride myself on my masculine energy. that's not to say i don't like being a woman.. i LOVE being a woman. maybe not so much masculine or even feminine but i like how androgynous i can be. i don't wear pink... just neutral colors like black, white or grey. sometimes i'll throw on lipstick and a dress and sometimes i'll wear really baggy, bummy clothes. it's the versatility of androgyny that i like.

went out with some friends and we decided to pick new names for the night. i chose joey 🙂

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by virgoking
So why is it wrong when men want women to be feminine and remember I'm talking about actions not looks. Like I said before there a lot women who look feminine on the out side but inside it's a man baby lmao.

Just as long as he doesn't whine about his responsibilities about being an alpha male.
Some men can't have it both ways either. 😉