My Virgo Ex Hubby...is this normal?? HELP?!?!? (Page 2)

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by CancerCutey

Well I moved back to my home state, where he is...not for him but because of work.

Posted by CancerCutey

I did not move home for him...I moved back because my father is 74 and his health is very bad. He can no longer drive or take care of himself. THAT is why I moved back. My ex was not a thought in that choice at all.

There lies an inconsistency. Two different reasons that are not factual.

CancerCutey.
Don't be embarrassed. I'm not judging you. You moved to simply be closer to him. As I stated initially, you have it real bad for the wrong guy.

We have all been there.

But your case is a bit extreme, and you're in serious denial. I strongly believe that during your second reconciliation (marriage) to this guy, your second child did not live with you as well. (since this child was not mentioned when he sat your baggage to the curb, and you had to pawn your ring to get a plane ticket back home).

This man takes precedence over everything. Your life, career...even your children.

I don't believe that you intentionally tried to keep him from his child, because to be honest, we both know he didn't give a fuck!...I think you were simply trying to get away from him. He's your drug....and he's calling you....

...And he did....

Lured you right back to your hometown.

If you want to be REALLY over him.
Change your cell number. Your son is away from you 9 months out of the year, and he has openly demonstrated time and time again that he does NOT want a relationship with his son.
Emergency contact?
Really?
Come the fuck on!

Change the number and be done with him!

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WRONG..both of those reasons are the 100% truth as to why I moved ...he honestly had NOTHING to do with my choice to move back home.

Posted by CancerCutey

I am ALMOST sorry I posted this...not the intent I had in mind and did not need the negativity nor did I need the judgement from people who think they KNOW and do not know a thing about the situation. People who must be saints and perfect in there own lives, they must be to be able to judge me and my life like this...in order to judge others you need to be perfect yourself!!

Posted by TaurusBull1977

CancerCutey.
Don't be embarrassed. I'm not judging you.

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Just stating the facts...and the obvious.
I simply quoted EVERYTHING you stated....

You relocated to your hometown to take care of a 74 year old man that is ill....allegedly
But do not bear the full responsibility of caring for (or being closer to) an autistic son who is away from you 10 months out of the year.

See where I'm going with this.....

I'm not judging. This man takes precedence over your life, career, and your children......

You relocated to your hometown to be closer to him.

Let me ask you a question?

Who has custody of your 2nd child?

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by CancerCutey

I am ALMOST sorry I posted this...not the intent I had in mind and did not need the negativity nor did I need the judgement from people who think they KNOW and do not know a thing about the situation. People who must be saints and perfect in there own lives, they must be to be able to judge me and my life like this...in order to judge others you need to be perfect yourself!!

Posted by TaurusBull1977

CancerCutey.
Don't be embarrassed. I'm not judging you.

Just stating the facts...and the obvious.
I simply quoted EVERYTHING you stated....

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I seriously have NO feelings for him I merely wanted a little understanding of HIS screwed up behavior that is all.

Posted by CancerCutey

I seriously have NO feelings for him I merely wanted a little understanding of HIS screwed up behavior that is all.

OK.
You're right.
I'm wrong.
Maybe some Virgos can give you better insight to explaining his screwed up behavior.

I just analyzed it from a non-astrological perspective.
Forgive me.

Posted by LetltB
I suggest you reread the inconsistencies in EACH post before you jump to conclusions. Now kindly remove your nose from ass and move on. Thank you.

Inconsistencies, do NOT have a thing to do with the generalization that you made about people who have been abused and since this is a PUBLIC forum I will comment on what I feel like commenting on. My nose in your ass? you could only dream of that. Thank you.

He clearly wants you back, and he will not stop until you cut him off as long as you continue to give him even an ounce of communication he will continue to try. The only option you have is to change your number (not block him because he may just try another number) and get your son a phone so his father can contact him, or you will be stuck in this same position everytime because Virgos normally don't give up until we are forced too.

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
He clearly wants you back, and he will not stop until you cut him off as long as you continue to give him even an ounce of communication he will continue to try. The only option you have is to change your number (not block him because he may just try another number) and get your son a phone so his father can contact him, or you will be stuck in this same position everytime because Virgos normally don't give up until we are forced too.

Thank you for your Virgo perspective...it is much appreciated..he has not given up and I feel he wont ever. A new number is what it will take..even though a new number is a pain I must do it!