My virgo guy wants to stay friends with me after our break up

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Fadnav
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8 Years

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So i was in long distance relationship with a virgo and we did meet in person aswell.

He is a decent guy no doubt about it but He was so unclear what he wants.

I am from a desi community so marriage and specially for someone over 35 years old is an issue.

Recently some proposal came for me and my family asked me to meet that guy.

when I told my virgo guy that it's happening he said he don't know what to tell me and what he wants as his mind is not clear and he needs time to decide that in the future he wanna marry me or not.

it was emotionally draining few weeks as even after asking for time he still was unclear

So i put my foot down and told him that I am gonna talk to this other guy (I have no intention to start a new relationship at this point) and then it's over btw us.

His logic was why you have to end with me just because you are talking to this guy.

I already miss him but he did not stand up with me so what choice I was left to follow.

I got one morning msg from him even though last nite i told him it's the last time we are talking.

So my question when he does not feel that way about me then why the heck he still wants to stay in touch

n this guy would not even break up on his own
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sugarplumeow
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10 Years

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Virgo men tend to want to stay on good terms with people they cared about (or atleast I see it that way). How long was this relationship going on for? Also Virgos hate to lose and will try to get you back. i THINK its nice that he wants to be your friend, its better than " what happned will always be there (cause of breakup) If this this and this happens then we can be friends " trust me, that hurts.
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Fadnav
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8 Years

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Posted by sugarplumeow
Virgo men tend to want to stay on good terms with people they cared about (or atleast I see it that way). How long was this relationship going on for? Also Virgos hate to lose and will try to get you back. i THINK its nice that he wants to be your friend, its better than " what happned will always be there (cause of breakup) If this this and this happens then we can be friends " trust me, that hurts.
Six months to be excat. I know for a fact that he likes me and he thinks i was rashing things and it was way too early for him to decide wether he wants to marry me or not (Things are different in eastern countries...i know Mentioning marriage after 6 months sound like something silly but trust me in my culture ppl decided sooner for it)

I even given him the choice that let me tell my Family about him and then he can take his time to decide and I would not rash him but he also knows that it's commitment I want at the end of the day so it was sooner for him.

I don't know tomorrow morning he gonna send me a morning msg which was his routine or not ( I am hoping for it and I am the one who did the break up but I have no choice right now )

He insisted on staying in touch even after me meeting the other guy (which I did not do so far )
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Fadnav
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8 Years

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Posted by sugarplumeow
Virgo men tend to want to stay on good terms with people they cared about (or atleast I see it that way). How long was this relationship going on for? Also Virgos hate to lose and will try to get you back. i THINK its nice that he wants to be your friend, its better than " what happned will always be there (cause of breakup) If this this and this happens then we can be friends " trust me, that hurts.
sugarplumeow So I take your advice and msg him 4 days later that I miss him

Guess what he did not reply back (((((

I guess I was wrong in thinking that my breaking up with him is gonna effect him.

His no response just means he is fine with break up and does not wanna reconnect

Oh it such a bad feeling