ok. should I do it?

My virgo guy is distant, I'm assuming he is avoiding me. He has feelings. After asking if I did something to make him so distant, he never replied. So I said I'm going to do the same thing, but I want to make sure I'm doing the right thing. I don't want to lose him, but I just want to simply do what he does too me. He's been like this ever since he got this new job. I'm scared he might lose interest, n find someone else. I'm in love with him n he knows it. I don't want to do this n he was never really avoiding me it just appears that way too me, now I don messed every thing up. How do I do this? I updated my profile on the chat app we have, n I said I'm looking to meet guys as friends. What else or what now?

if he looses interest and meets someone else then he really wasn't into you anyway. a guy will go across the world to get his girl.

You've already let him know how you feel and where you stand so pull away for a while and see if he starts missing you then you will get your answer.

Posted by vesperlynd83
You've already let him know how you feel and where you stand so pull away for a while and see if he starts missing you then you will get your answer.

WSS ^

But for the love of all you value, don't play games... it won't end well... not with anyone, let alone a Virgo man.. they seem to be able to lock their feelings in a box if you try that (and who can blame them)

Basically, back off and get on with your life... and yeah, if he misses you, he will do something...

Posted by vesperlynd83
You've already let him know how you feel and where you stand so pull away for a while and see if he starts missing you then you will get your answer.

Also I like your profile pic, vesperlynd, is it you? 🙂 (though I am vegetarian 😛 )