Ok Virgo Ladies, I need some help

In full disclosure, my screen name is pretty true. I am a fairly prototypical aries man who is completely clueless, wants everything right now, gets his way and every other bad trait we have (we have some good ones too but I knew I would get ripped for this so might as well get it out of the way). I have dated a lot of women in my life and had a long serious relationship so I am no stranger to dating/courting etc... and without sounding cocky usually I get what I want in the end and yes it starts out fast and fizzles out...

To characterize her, from what I have read, she is a fairly typical Virgo but she is not quite as well behaved or bothered by vulgarity etc, but works a crazy amount of hours and that is definitely her first priority, definitely analyzes things deeply, wont let me get away with a bs answer and questions it and every other crazy thing you guys do. Either way there is something about her that I cant stop thinking about. Shes beautiful, witty, smart, determined, shy yet outgoing yada yada. So now I am a total mess!!!

I have known this girl for about 6 weeks. We went out once back then and then for a casual date but had a great time. Then there was about a month of nothing and while I wasnt putting in a ton of effort as to not scare her away I got even less in return. Finally in a last ditch attempt I reached out and we started chatting again and made plans for a real first date that week. Awesome date and ended with a brief kiss, we decided to go out again 2 nights later, even better date a little bit of hand holding and kissing in public (something I have read that isnt normal for you ladies) and then a little more making out to end the night. So I feel great, theres some momentum and we make plans the following week. During the week she was more chatty through text, we had a great convo etc... Now I will admit I made some mistakes and may have laid it on a little thick (literally a little), and I screwed up a couple of texts that didnt come across right but either way things still seemed good. Then after texting during the day she cancels our date last second because she is stuck at work, I say I understand and then am an idiot by sending one of those pathetic last ditch efforts to hang out later or tomorrow texts and dont hear back. 2 days goes by and I reach out and we have a great little text chat in the morning, so I feel ok again, I follow up later and its much shorter and then doesnt respond to my last text (didnt really nee

need a response other than to keep chatting) and now I havent heard from her today.

So its not really the pace so much that bothers me as I know I need to slow down its the hot and cold and lack of momentum. If she didnt show so many signs of liking me I would just move on. She has cancelled on me 3 times (all for work) now but always agreed to go out with me again. We have had a great time and had progress on each date only with little contact or no interest shown after until we hang out again. She almost never initiates contact but always responds etc... I know this is somewhat normal for virgos and maybe for women in general (but I havent experienced this much, usually if they agree to go on a second date I am in) but its brutal lol.

Any thoughts or advice you have would certainly be appreciated to I can think clearly again 🙂. What is the best way to pursue a virgo? Do I do my normal thing and just be persistent and dont show her it bothers me? Do I pull away a little and give her her space and see if she comes to me (do you girls generally come back in that situation). Do I run lol (kidding, well kinda)? Do I talk to her about it (doesnt seem like the best idea from what Ive read). Help!!!

Sorry man, first time posting here and had no idea. I just literally feel like I have no idea what to think so I thought it was fitting, plus everything thinks aries are clueless to everyone elses feelings. My bad