Owing a Virgo...

I've posted before about not taking The Virgo up on his offer for assistance... and his persistence that when he does things for others he gets nothing in return. I in turn have assisted him multiple times not expecting anything in return (other than his appreciation). So, if I allow him to help me (in this case, his brother getting me a good deal on a new vehicle), would a Virgo typically see it as doing nothing in return if I keep being me and helping him around every bend with (what I view as) little things?

(I know, so trite 😛)

I just want thoughts....

I can only speak for myself, but if I do a favor for someone, I love the feeling of knowing I helped them out. The only time I want something back is if it's money, lol. Other than that? I say let him help you, it will probably soothe him to. And if you're there for him in your own ways, sa-weet 🙂 Even better.

Posted by lildol
I've posted before about not taking The Virgo up on his offer for assistance... and his persistence that when he does things for others he gets nothing in return. I in turn have assisted him multiple times not expecting anything in return (other than his appreciation). So, if I allow him to help me (in this case, his brother getting me a good deal on a new vehicle), would a Virgo typically see it as doing nothing in return if I keep being me and helping him around every bend with (what I view as) little things?

(I know, so trite 😛)

I just want thoughts....

as long as the person is not bitter afterward you help them

and if ur virgo helps people for a ego boost than he's not doing it from a genuine state of mind.

u help people for a act of kindness also i find most virgos help people to be needed as for me i only help if asked or if its a old person that is lmao 😛

Nah, not for an ego boost I'm sure. When I said my car was shot there was no hesitation in wanting to call his brother to get me the best deal. I would like to think its because hes smitten, but instead he said I'm good people so I deserve the best deal I can get. All good anyway... (he is rather smitten though 🙂)

Posted by lildol
would a Virgo typically see it as doing nothing in return if I keep being me and helping him around every bend with (what I view as) little things?

He loves you for who you are. Someone who naturally reciprocates to his giving, in a natural way.

He would not see it as "doing nothing."

This is not just a virgo thing, it is part of being a man. Men like to feel needed by their women at certain times. I go to my guy when I have questions about certain things.