IDK...my virgo guy wants me to chase him and I want him to chase me. Needless to say, we are not getting anywhere lol - we both give each other the cold shoulder, become distant....smh feels like a waste of time.
It's about the dynamic or tension, isn't it? I'll chase a girl, but within reason..and you can bet that I'm also hedging my bet, because chasing rarely works unless you do it well.
Chasing only works if the chasee wants to be chased. That goes both ways. But as a female I would say most cases involving a man doing the chasing is the normal scenario. Men are Wired to be hunters and women to be nurturers. When you reassign those genetic codes It can get complicated. Much like how the emasculation of boys in our society and the gender Neutral agenda is undermining those norms.
cosign the virgo male will pacify the virgo female.
as for chasing
I like to chase, Im good at it and it almost always ends up working out in my favor. I think I like it more than the sex actually and I like sex a lot. BUT it can be a big investment of energy so I only seriously do it under certain circumstances. Namely I need to be getting some bits of reciprocation along with the resistance, thats what makes it a competition and fun for me. If im not getting any signs back and just disinterest then its not worth my time and I usually wont care enough to turn it around.
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With all this pacifying regarding the virgo guy...what happens when he runs across a virgo gal with the same characteristic?