Relationship with virgo guy :)

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Deedee12
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Hello! After I have been reading so many threads here during months, I finally write this. Here is the story.

I am a sagittarius girl, in these past 2 years I join online dating, surprisingly there were many virgo guys gave interest sign to me. Short story, there was a virgo guy came so strong. He lives 1,200 kms away from me btw. When he visited to my country for works, he also asked me out to meet. From the beginning I had objective to look such a close friend who can talk each other freely, and that was happened with us in the dating meet. On our back home, he wanted to stop by to my place, and I found he wanted sex. But I calmed him down to wait. I thought it was too fast for us. After some weeks, he invited me to have sort of vacation, meanwhile he also visited that country for works. During that time, we had sex finally. we still communicated well after, until I visited to his country 5 months later. Then boom! I felt such a long gap between us day by day until month by month. We never communicated again. It broke up my heart tho. But I decided to move on from him. At the same time, I changed cell phone that made his number gone.

After some weeks I dated a guy, and surprisingly again he is virgoy. He contacted me everyday, but we didn't have sex. Then I found he deleted my bbm after 2 months we dated then he dated someone else. This made me think probably sometime we have to meet jerk first to know who is kind and best for you. This also made me remind to my 1st virgo guy. I think he kinda genuine for me during our relationship in months.

One day I found 1st virgo guy's phone number and I saved it. By an application of cell phone, I found he still save my number in his cell phone. It made me have a hypothesis and had to compare to 2nd virgo guy, he deleted my contact because he didn't want any relationship again with me.

Does it mean 1st virgo guy still want have any contact with me by keeping my phone number? I don't know he still want me or not. Meanwhile I don't have any eager to ask to him directly. Because of my experiences, he often didn't answer my messages, especially for feeling matter this time. Is it worth to wait? Hmm.
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Deedee12
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Posted by VirgoLass
If you want to know just message him, just a how you doing type thing, not too strong or emotional...then no reply no loss. If he does communicate and you get a feel there is interest still there just ask, as a virgo I hate games and like straight talk....be careful your not just a booty call though unless your fine with that.
Thanks VirgoLass, I appreciate it. 🙂 I hate when he ignored some of my messages in the past, even tho most of it didn't use any emotional tense into it. Probably I'm gonna think twice now to start, cause I'm avoiding to be interpreted as cheesy
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Posted by CrosstownTraffic
Posted by Deedee12
Hello! After I have been reading so many threads here during months, I finally write this. Here is the story.

I am a sagittarius girl, in these past 2 years I join online dating, surprisingly there were many virgo guys gave interest sign to me. Short story, there was a virgo guy came so strong. He lives 1,200 kms away from me btw. When he visited to my country for works, he also asked me out to meet. From the beginning I had objective to look such a close friend who can talk each other freely, and that was happened with us in the dating meet. On our back home, he wanted to stop by to my place, and I found he wanted sex. But I calmed him down to wait. I thought it was too fast for us. After some weeks, he invited me to have sort of vacation, meanwhile he also visited that country for works. During that time, we had sex finally. we still communicated well after, until I visited to his country 5 months later. Then boom! I felt such a long gap between us day by day until month by month. We never communicated again. It broke up my heart tho. But I decided to move on from him. At the same time, I changed cell phone that made his number gone.

After some weeks I dated a guy, and surprisingly again he is virgoy. He contacted me everyday, but we didn't have sex. Then I found he deleted my bbm after 2 months we dated then he dated someone else. This made me think probably sometime we have to meet jerk first to know who is kind and best for you. This also made me remind to my 1st virgo guy. I think he kinda genuine for me during our relationship in months.

One day I found 1st virgo guy's phone number and I saved it. By an application of cell phone, I found he still save my number in his cell phone. It made me have a hypothesis and had to compare to 2nd virgo guy, he deleted my contact because he didn't want any relationship again with me.

Does it mean 1st virgo guy still want have any contact with me by keeping my phone number? I don't know he still want me or not. Meanwhile I don't have any eager to ask to him directly. Because of my experiences, he often didn't answer my messages, especially for feeling matter this time. Is it worth to wait? Hmm.
comparing him to others will result in failure

so now you want him back.....well you should contact him by phone or email or text msg.

who knows you may luck up and he answers back to you
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Yeah, comparing only deliver to conclusion of the theories. At least I got such a clue. Back to my past experiences, contact him could be tricky this time. Thanks for your respond, CrossTown.
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
I'm with a Sagittarius guy for almost a year now and we both like to be straight we both didn't hide our feelings we expressed ourselves really easily communication is very strong with us we see eachother as soulmates.
Although it can take time before a Virgos gets comfortable,since Sagittarius is full of suprises it can scare a Virgo because some Sagittarius run away once they get bored.
I don't know what you're moon is and venus or his and ascendant but maybe from there you can see a bit more.

I'm a Virgo but I'm very flexible have 3 times mutable a mutable sign
Glad to hear your story, dewiklaessen. I have been in boredom as well then go when I felt our communication wasn't as good as my expectation, but he was shown to me afterwards.

My moon in Aries, Venus in Capricorn, Asc in Pisces. His moon in Capricorn, venus in Leo, Asc in Cancer. I don't know exactly what those mean. But his venus is same with yours in Leo, btw.